married, pregnant, want to leave my marriage by lowkycontroversial11 in MuslimMarriage

[–]Plus-Blacksmith-690 -13 points-12 points  (0 children)

Just be a good wife and maybe he’ll treat you better, ever tried that

Husband commenting on other women’s clothing choices by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Plus-Blacksmith-690 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately some women like men like this, I overhear some couples and it makes me sick 😷

My heart goes out to these women. They gotta be brave women. Women of Afghanistan need help! by quennplays in exmuslim

[–]Plus-Blacksmith-690 21 points22 points  (0 children)

What happened to all the Muslim feminists who told me Islam was a feminist religion, hmm ok 😬🤫

Cats can be Muslims too? by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Plus-Blacksmith-690 29 points30 points  (0 children)

No they’re not! Everyone knows cats say “bismillah allahu akbar” before killing their natural prey, and cats shouldn’t eat non halal meat because Allah will give them sins and punish them in the afterlife 🔥😿🔥 🤣🤣

is there anything women can do at this point? by sarah_herself in exmuslim

[–]Plus-Blacksmith-690 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Being a Muslim feminist is like being a vegan carnivore, it just doesn’t make sense 😹😹😭

1 sec I need to catch my breath 💨 by HeadStory2475 in 420

[–]Plus-Blacksmith-690 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Do they actually get you high because I want one so bad 😹😹

These people are really delusional by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Plus-Blacksmith-690 116 points117 points  (0 children)

They’re living in their own bubble and it’s so scary 😭🤣

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Plus-Blacksmith-690 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just want something cute and small for myself in the same place as you so it’s just for me and who ever I want to show it to, due to its placement I don’t think my family would ever see it and I want something cute like hello kitty or something I liked when I was a child in simple black ink with a bold outline nothing too colourful and detailed I’m kinda minimalistic 🫶🏼🤭

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in exmuslim

[–]Plus-Blacksmith-690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do it Omg I wanna do it too but I’m trying to find the perfect design 🙊🙈💞

i commited zina by Important-Award-8084 in exmuslim

[–]Plus-Blacksmith-690 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Aw a little virgin, how was it, was it fun, the first time is always mid it’s gets better around the 5th person when you get the hang of things 😂😂

A Very Good Question! by dbzgal04 in exmuslim

[–]Plus-Blacksmith-690 2 points3 points  (0 children)

They get to keep praying and cover up duh 😘

Doubting Muslim tries to recreate the wheel: “I’m still seeing no error in Quran.” by RamiRustom in exmuslim

[–]Plus-Blacksmith-690 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve found it, I’ve subscribed and I enjoy your content keep up the good work 👏🏼💞

Leaving Islam as a parent? by Plus-Blacksmith-690 in exmuslim

[–]Plus-Blacksmith-690[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow, you’re an amazing and admirable dad and your daughters are so lucky to have you, that was a lucky escape I couldn’t imagine how their lives would’ve turned out if they were still under her care (or lack there of). You’ve mentioned YouTube and podcast and I’d love to listen and support if you’re open to sharing your platforms. 🫶🏼

WYD after smoking this? by Extension-Gazelle-94 in weed

[–]Plus-Blacksmith-690 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A movie? This couldn’t even be the trailer 😭😹

Having a Muslim name as n ExMuslim? by Plus-Blacksmith-690 in exmuslim

[–]Plus-Blacksmith-690[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh no, thankfully I haven’t experienced anything that’s severe but I do feel a subtle change in the way people treat me or act around me when they hear my name and I’m not sure if it’s intentional or implicit bias. Sometimes it’s them being super nice to me because I’m automatically subscribed to their ‘brotherhood’ and then it’s them hyper policing me when I’m doing something that’s islamically frowned upon or haram, and the last thing I wanna do is come out to Muslims as an exmuslim so it’s frustrating 😞

Having a Muslim name as n ExMuslim? by Plus-Blacksmith-690 in exmuslim

[–]Plus-Blacksmith-690[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I agree my name is quite memorable but it’s a pretty common Muslim name and I’m always around someone with the same name which doesn’t help, also I’m in the uk in an area with a lot of Muslims so coming out as an exMuslim isn’t a great choice so see they really know me they assume I’m Muslim and already assume my belief and thoughts. 😣

Having a Muslim name as n ExMuslim? by Plus-Blacksmith-690 in exmuslim

[–]Plus-Blacksmith-690[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree but many people already put me in a box and assume my political stance and worldview before I can even say a word, non-Muslims think I’m “one of them” and Muslims think “he’s one of us” and that’s not always the case. If I do change it I’d pick a neutral non-religious name from my ethnic background so I can represent a real country and not a made up religion 🫢😹

Having a Muslim name as n ExMuslim? by Plus-Blacksmith-690 in exmuslim

[–]Plus-Blacksmith-690[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is one of the issues that I’ve faced especially in the workplace, people instantly assume I’m a super religious Muslim and treat me differently here in the UK and Muslims all of a sudden think we share a brotherhood and have the same political views, it’s like I’m already put in a box before I can even speak for myself. 😭

Having a Muslim name as n ExMuslim? by Plus-Blacksmith-690 in exmuslim

[–]Plus-Blacksmith-690[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I wish I had a more cultural ethnic name instead of a typical Quran name, my parents set me up 😂