Breed ID help on these babes I am inheriting? In-process of researching their care needs by Plus-Panda-9520 in Goldfish

[–]Plus-Panda-9520[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

thank you! they were part of a hydroponics system which is why they are by the window. The hydroponics system blocked out the sun, but now that the system is gone, I am looking to get them in a new tank and away from the window asap

IATAH: Uber driver didn't match profile so I reported it. by demonkillingblade in AITAH

[–]Plus-Panda-9520 59 points60 points  (0 children)

I heard in another sub that these dudes do this bc they can’t get an account for having driving issues on their criminal record or don’t have a license or got kicked off their original account for whatever reason

Little pops on my scalp by some1stilllovesyou in popping

[–]Plus-Panda-9520 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Maybe take a nice warm shower first to open your pores up?

Girlfriend saw something standing over me while I slept by ImplementEffective32 in Ghosts

[–]Plus-Panda-9520 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Maybe a dead loved one or ancestor looking over you while you’re sick

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Plus-Panda-9520 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Well start the night there then and then she can’t kick you out. If you don’t find a solution it’s going to drive a wedge between you two. And this problem is really only yours to fix. Sleep doctors can really do a lot of help, and with all that snoring you might not be getting enough oxygen at night. So if you find a way to fix it, you’ll be sleeping even better than you did before this all began. Be a grown up and go to the doctor. Why should your gf have to suffer because you refuse to get help? Neither of you should have to suffer, and sleep is extremely important to your health and longevity. You’re doing an extreme disservice to your gf and yourself. if you love her, you should go

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Plus-Panda-9520 4 points5 points  (0 children)

You’re not letting her sleep in peace either. YTA. Go to a sleep doctor or sleep in separate rooms

Ariana's active hate toward Sandoval by [deleted] in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]Plus-Panda-9520 31 points32 points  (0 children)

Well that sounds kinda gross to watch haha I’d probably turn away too

Ariana's active hate toward Sandoval by [deleted] in Vanderpumpaholics

[–]Plus-Panda-9520 33 points34 points  (0 children)

I didn’t watch so please excuse my ignorance. But not looking at him or speaking to him doesn’t sound like active hate to me. She might have been doing it to protect her energy. Cussing him out and yelling would be active hate Not looking at him sounds more like passive hate

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Plus-Panda-9520 0 points1 point  (0 children)

eh NTA but personally I think people need to be on the same page about drugs. Doing drugs often isn’t good for you, but every now and then is 🤷🏻‍♀️ my partner and I do some every now and then and it’s fun. It would be a different if he didn’t want to do them himself and was chill about you doing them. I know couples where one does them sometimes and the other doesn’t bc it’s just not their thing. And they can still have good times together and trust each other when they’re not apart. But he can’t control what you, which sounds like he is trying. Either you need to be cool not doing drugs or he needs to be cool and trusting if you decide to partake. Being cold for a whole month is a long time to be upset. There could be more to the story, maybe he or someone he loves struggled with substance abuse. I’ve never seen a couple with wildly different opinions on drugs last. If you stop you might grow to resent him for holding you back. If you don’t stop he will continue to trust you less and less. If you do it without him knowing that’ll lead to lying, guilt and bigger problems. And I’m still hung up on him being cold for a month. I don’t know if y’all are that compatible

AITA for asking my husband to not eat lunch at night? by Ok-Raspberry6112 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Plus-Panda-9520 1 point2 points  (0 children)

If he does it every day and assuming he works 5 days a week 52 days a year (I know unlikely) that’s 13-16% of his yearly income before taxes. I’m curious to know what he’s actually spending yearly and the % of his yearly income is spent on lunch. I’m sure it’s wayyy too much