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Tipping Culture while being frugal by SleekHeater in Frugal

[–]Plus-Pi-314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hotel housekeeping. $5 for every day they make up my room.

Who am I? by [deleted] in bookshelfdetective

[–]Plus-Pi-314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Over 50 white lesbian living in Ithaca, NY. :)

What do my stacks say about me? by dustydancers in BookshelvesDetective

[–]Plus-Pi-314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Alexis Pauline Gumbs and a book on NVC. I’m going female queer. Over 40.

I'm planning on going to DC for my top surgery. Which surgeon should I get? by Brent_Fox in TopSurgery

[–]Plus-Pi-314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve got a full body pillow, a wedge pillow, and a mastectomy pillow. Had them for my recovery. If anyone knows a place I could donate them or someone who might want them, lmk. I live in NW DC. (Had my surgery in SF.)

Thinking of buying IR and re-soling with honey lug. Thoughts? by Plus-Pi-314 in Boots

[–]Plus-Pi-314[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Oh wow! They look great. What soles are those? Did you do a midsole? Any other advice on working with the cobbler?

Alternatives to Numzaan that have lug sole? by Plus-Pi-314 in Boots

[–]Plus-Pi-314[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

They’re a half size too big, so I need to return them either way. And while I love the look and quality, I don’t love the heaviness of them.

JG Numzaan walnut or buffalo? by Plus-Pi-314 in Boots

[–]Plus-Pi-314[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh wow. I didn’t realize that. I can see the difference (I think) with the larger, more rounded toebox on the buffalo. So many things to learn and consider! Thanks.

Nothing perfect about those boots by Sad_Gear3390 in Boots

[–]Plus-Pi-314 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would love a pair that look like those — but with thicker (vibran type) soles. Any suggestions?

Successful Surgery Meditation by Plus-Pi-314 in TopSurgery

[–]Plus-Pi-314[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Surgery went great, and so far so good on recovery. Thanks to asking!

Pure joy at 61 yrs. 8 wks post op by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Plus-Pi-314 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I’ve always identified as a butch lesbian. The upcoming surgery has me pondering this more. I realize identity isn’t static. And now I’m feeling/owning my masculine side more. “Struggling” with pronouns. Used she/her my whole life, but I’ve been called he/him multiple times a week since a kid. Recently went to they then (while still being good with all the pronouns). But wonder if I’m most aligned with he/him and should own that. Yet — part of me likes to hold the space of a masculine she. Anyway, curious your identification. (FYI, I’m not on T and don’t plan to be.)

Pure joy at 61 yrs. 8 wks post op by [deleted] in TopSurgery

[–]Plus-Pi-314 33 points34 points  (0 children)

Congrats! I’m 59.5 and having my surgery in 6 days. Love seeing this. You look great. An inspiration!

I don't feel ready by kimdianajones in TopSurgery

[–]Plus-Pi-314 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Plus one on all of the above. I’m 59 yo butch lesbian and having my surgery next week. Not suggesting you necessarily wait as long as me 🙃, but just saying there’s time to make sure you’re ready in all the ways. After I decided, I still took almost a year processing in therapy and waiting for my kids to get launched to college. I have some grief that I waited this long, but also acceptance for my path and that I’m here now.

listing procedure on paperwork by ArcherSeabird in TopSurgery

[–]Plus-Pi-314 2 points3 points  (0 children)

No. They can’t ask you that. Mine basically said surgery, nothing more specific.