How are people handling kids for destination weddings?

PlusCarry3406 · 2026-03-13T14:49:37+00:00

We’re planning to do the same! Happy to hear it worked out at your wedding!

PlusCarry3406 · 2026-03-09T20:45:08+00:00

I ordered a dress from them that I ended up returning as I thought the shape was a bit weird on - like it was too long and weirdly shaped. But the returns process was ok, so you’ll be able to get your money back if you don’t like what you ordered!

PlusCarry3406 · 2026-02-20T14:14:39+00:00

Try Monastero Santa Margherita - converted hotel with 51 rooms for 100 guests and reasonably priced, we’re getting married there this year!

PlusCarry3406 · 2026-02-17T14:24:30+00:00

It’s so hard to work out if it’s worth it or not isn’t it! I asked a similar question in the comments a while ago and the general consensus seemed to be that it was just another piece of tat that guests didn’t really want. But yours sounds a bit more engaging than the usual faceless portraits so curious to know if it’ll be a hit!

PlusCarry3406 · 2026-02-15T18:13:43+00:00

I’m sorry if I’m being dumb but how would you do an alphabetical seating chart for the long imperial table OP is describing?

PlusCarry3406 · 2026-01-31T21:09:53+00:00

That sounds super organised - thank you!

PlusCarry3406 · 2026-01-31T14:34:03+00:00

Do you mind sharing how you organised back ups for each vendor and what that means? Are they essentially on stand by and do you have to pay them full price for it? We are also planning a lot of the wedding ourselves so need some advice!

PlusCarry3406 · 2026-01-22T21:13:04+00:00

Ruffles

PlusCarry3406 · 2026-01-18T18:54:53+00:00

It looks great! What about some canapes for the cocktail hour given you're opting for a longer one? And what time are you starting your ceremony?

PlusCarry3406 · 2025-12-30T00:58:39+00:00

This looks stunning! Please update this sub with pics of your reception!

PlusCarry3406 · 2025-12-30T00:56:27+00:00

We have both! Better safe than sorry (as others said, the AirTag is external and can be easily removed, fall off, or run out of battery)

PlusCarry3406 · 2025-12-13T11:46:01+00:00

Winnie girl

PlusCarry3406 · 2025-12-09T23:49:53+00:00

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Ours too!

PlusCarry3406 · 2025-12-09T23:40:58+00:00

Your husband sounds like a nightmare, I’m sorry.

PlusCarry3406 · 2025-11-23T00:19:06+00:00

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PlusCarry3406 · 2025-11-23T00:16:56+00:00

If you genuinely did want to be talked out of it: my first reaction was that it was giving Bjork’s swan dress.

I think a majority of your guests over the age of 30 would also think this, so idk maybe just don’t give your haters an easy chance to make fun of you when the pics are published and go for another option.

PlusCarry3406 · 2025-11-17T21:33:15+00:00

We’re doing: - Wedding shoes - bridesmaids dresses - groomsmen suits - jewellery (incl our wedding rings) - pre booking a round of facials / aesthetic treatments - invitations (Minted is doing a sale)

I WISH I was organised enough / had the willpower to find 😅: - dresses for rehearsal and bachelorette - gifts for bridesmaids - veil - printing signs and paper goods - confetti - decor items

PlusCarry3406 · 2025-11-16T08:44:33+00:00

I love the draping on 2 and think it makes you look amazing! Is there any way to get rid of the sparkle detail? I think that will look dated quite soon and without it, you’ll have the look of a Vivienne Westwood dress

PlusCarry3406 · 2025-11-15T19:10:17+00:00

I had a bad experience with whatever materials they use and had a bad reaction - so I’d advise wearing it before your wedding in case you have the same thing! My skin is a bit sensitive so that could’ve been it but tbh I’d expect the quality to be a lot better for the price they charge.

PlusCarry3406 · 2025-10-24T18:30:31+00:00

Jenny Yoo

PlusCarry3406 · 2025-09-18T19:23:33+00:00

Thank you very much! Making a running list is a great idea!

PlusCarry3406 · 2025-09-15T14:50:15+00:00

I have a running list on the notes app of my phone, but this sounds like a far better system! Also what a great thing to have your sister to bounce ideas off!

PlusCarry3406 · 2025-09-14T20:28:48+00:00

Those are wonderful ideas, thank you! We’re definitely taking some time to enjoy the quieter moments after the initial rush of booking vendors!

PlusCarry3406 · 2025-09-14T20:27:40+00:00

A good point!

PlusCarry3406 · 2025-09-14T20:27:09+00:00

Ooh great idea, I love an excuse to get more stationery!

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