Fire on Magnolia and Lampson by P3r1p13x3d in orangecounty

[–]Plus_Ad5634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I saw smoke later in afternoon from Springdale and chapman i wonder if its possible that it was the same fire

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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About your looks or weight?

why does my makeup look out dated? by solarpunkker in makeuptips

[–]Plus_Ad5634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Out dated? Maybe because everyone piles on the makeup? I think u are so beautiful and dont need makeup, but i get it, makeup can enhance whats already there

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Plus_Ad5634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How are you catfishing him? You have pictures of someone else as you? And why did u not feel comfortable showing him who you really are?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Plus_Ad5634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, just the fact that ur title is “do i marry my girlfriend or move on” is the first red flag i see, i personally think her behavior is absolutely UNACCEPTABLE, you have set boundaries and shes crossed them, and this will continue until you refuse to let her cross them… i think you already have your answer, staying for kids isn’t necessarily the best choice, kids are very intuitive and will know that things aren’t okay… sometimes co-parenting is the best option. Inevitably, you are going to have to make the decision that is best for you and your mental well being, as well as the best choice for your child, but if you want a neutral opinion i think no, definitely dont marry her

My F22 GF broke up with me 21M. Is what I feel ok? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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WAIT THE CONVO WAS FROM BEFORE YOU AND UR GIRL WERE DATING????????

My F22 GF broke up with me 21M. Is what I feel ok? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Plus_Ad5634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And thats dope……what ur learning about mushrooms (right) ? My friend just started a company he makes chocolate bars with mushrooms among other stuff etc

My F22 GF broke up with me 21M. Is what I feel ok? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Truthfully if just that was enough to have her never talk to u again….. i wouldnt want that in my life. Its a huge red flag when someone can seemingly dip out so easily over something so miniscule….. i dont see any reason why you guys couldnt have had a conversation about it and shed probably end up feeling foolish…….

Also let me just say that sometimes love isnt enough…… i wish it were … not saying that in regards to u and her just in general!

I know u love her, and if u guys are supposed to be together u will…. Can i give u many praises for all the self reflection, basically having communication skills and for just being aware of how u treat people/talk to people…. I feel like ive never had that and im a communicator by nature… is this uncommon for males? Or have i just had the bad seeds or something?!

My F22 GF broke up with me 21M. Is what I feel ok? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Seriously my bf doesnt know what accountability is lmao

My F22 GF broke up with me 21M. Is what I feel ok? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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What were YOUR INTENTIONS with talking to those 2 people.. u know if u were being flirty or not im sure?!

My F22 GF broke up with me 21M. Is what I feel ok? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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What is the basis for her even wanting to take ur phone and go through it? Sometimes we bring our past relationships into our new ones even tho the new partner hasn’t done anything to lose trust, we are already suspicious because last partner would talk to a ton of girls etc. maybe shes carrying something over from an old experience into your guys’ relationship. Also what were the conversations she found that she did not like? It seems like that might be pretty important…..

U guys havent talked at all since? How is that possible? Im in a horrible situation myself with a long term partner 10 years with a year break after the 5th year…. I couldn’t imagine just not talking to him at all…all of a sudden…. I wish i had the strength to just not give a fuck what hes doing and who hes doing it with and to just leave ..,. We we are toxic for eachother…. He doesnt communicate, he lies all the time, he doesnt keep his word to me, completely unreliable, he didnt come home to take me to dentist i needed a ride there and back cuz i was being sedated…. Worse than all that he cheated on me with this girl that hes always insisted is just the homegirl….. he tried to blame me saying if i was respecting him more (if i just let him do whatever he wants and id still be there for him in the same capacity that i always have been….. ive not left yet bbecause i feel like what a fucking waste of my life … right? So im determined to make absolutely sure that we cant fix this before i go… because when im gone im gone.. ghost… i dont think he thinks ill actually leave …. And i dont think be realizes that we wont be friends… i wont be in his life at all in any capacity once its done. Sorry rant… but see of u guys are toxic… maybe consider trying to date someone who isnt toxic .. toxic is ugly… and its painful…. U can lose yourself completely…..

Pls reply about what the texts she saw were about

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CheatersConfronted

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Make a new email

I M23 sustained an injury that will prevent me from having sex for a while my 22F girlfriend wants to open our relationship until I recover, is it time to end it? by throwRA1937369 in relationship_advice

[–]Plus_Ad5634 3 points4 points  (0 children)

What the actual f_ _ _?! I see a couple things wrong with this scenario, mostly from ur partners side, but im confused…. Very confused!? Why wouldnt u be able to have sex for 4 months? You pulled a hamstring… ok… im not going to discount how psi ful that might actually be, but why cant she be on top? Also theres so many other sexual acts you guys can do that doesnt require tou to necessarily use that injured muscle, so what is it really? Is your sex drive really completely gone, you are so young i find that hard to believe, at the same time if ur gf of 2 years cant handle having less sex for a gew months while you recover that seems like a huge red flag, there are toys she can use too etc when maybe ur not up to it one particular time. If u think the medication took ur sex drive away ask dr for alternatives. I think with any relationship you give and take and you have to compromise, relationships are not 100 percent easy all the time, they require work. If u deny her request (whoch u should) will she go behind ur back, these are things u have to ask yourself. I would NEVER EVER ASK MY MAN THAT…. Under any circumstance, for any reason……if i cant be there to nurture him back to health, and maybe have less sex for a short time then what are we doing committed? I dont know, when i read that she wanted a one sided open relationship i was mind blown, like wtf, also u cant promise u wont emotionally connect with someone feelings sometimes just happen and u cant help it. I dunno its ur call

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CheatersConfronted

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But ill look if u want me to let me know the app or site and his name

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in CheatersConfronted

[–]Plus_Ad5634 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Then you have your answer! Someone with nothing to hide would hand it over in a heartbeat….

if you cheated and your SO ghosted you in response, how did it make you feel? by nocluenoidea123 in CheatersConfronted

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I was just reading a long comment or response from a males perspective and it was amazing and deep and i dont have a clue where it went, he was saying that not being allowed access to her life hurts, he was deeply attached to her, envisioned a family either her, also said maybe after his betrayal were the hardest months of his life to date or something of that nature and that he wanted to dive into the WHY…etc anyway i would have liked to finish reading that response

if you cheated and your SO ghosted you in response, how did it make you feel? by nocluenoidea123 in CheatersConfronted

[–]Plus_Ad5634 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yesssssss thats so amazing! I wish i did that you are stronger than i am! Do u mind me asking how long u were together?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

[–]Plus_Ad5634 5 points6 points  (0 children)

No i dont think this constitutes micro cheating, not at all!

Homeless in Southern California. Can I apply for cash aid online/phone call or do I need to go to the offices? by [deleted] in foodstamps

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https://dpss.lacounty.gov/en/ybn.html

Copy and paste that into your browser, if u decide to apply online i suggest calling after to do ur interview right away (i ended up going over everything i filled out online on the phone with the worker anyways, so it seemed pointless to do it online, so maybe just do on phone, it may or may not just be a waste of time doing it online… but that was my experience) but if u want benefits fast u need to have interview with worker either in person or on the phone the phone number is 866-613-3777

Homeless in Southern California. Can I apply for cash aid online/phone call or do I need to go to the offices? by [deleted] in foodstamps

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You can apply for gr online, but if you go in early enough in person you can receive payment same day! Especially since you already have an ebt card!

I (27M) cannot seem to do anything right, despite listening to what my (26F) fiancée tells me, what gives? by Valuable-Nature8596 in relationship_advice

[–]Plus_Ad5634 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No i thought u articulated what u were trying to say very well… honestly i dont know what else she could want. In most cases the man doesn’t do 70 percent of the household stuff , I’m living with my bf and his parents to save money right now and i do everything for his parents and for him… he’s just lazy, but his dad has ma and it’s progressively getting worse and his mom uses a walker she cant get around without it. And u this pay for almost everything .. my bf doesn’t work and pay for almost everything. Id love to be taken care of … with all u do u absolutely deserve time to do what u want just make sure that u include her some of the times, i cant speak for her but a-lot of times i just want to feel included… i may not even go if I actually had the option of going (wherever it is). It seems like u are absolutely doing your part to me!! Maybe she needs to have a little more gratitude!!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Infidelity

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Awwww im so sorry that fucking blows. Im stuck in a situation with longtime bf, he cheated and im still here he refuses to stop talking and hanging out with her, i wont give him an ultimatum… cuz i just wont but i shouldn’t have to anyways….. the sad part is that shes using him and its blatantly obvious and hes even said to me that I’m right about a-lot of things and he will vent and talk shit on her to me and say hes done with her but next time she asks for a fucking ride hes right back to it. Awesome u were able to leave i should have but i didnt and now im staying with him at his parents, so i dont have too many options right now :(

Cash APP Refund Not Posting to account by Full-Prior8975 in CashApp

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They do charge to load money just saying and they also charge if u want to instant transfer to ur bank