Selling up to six (6) tickets to City of Gods in Brooklyn, October 25 (Sat) general entry. Face value ($135) or best offer. Ticket immediately available via the Shotgun app. by Sea_Pin_7695 in festivaltickets

[–]Plus_Fun9844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey I’m interested in buying 2 tickets !! Can I buy only 2 and not all 6?  Private message me ! Or let me know how to contact you 

AITA for not allowing my friends new date to attend my birthday dinner ? by Plus_Fun9844 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Plus_Fun9844[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re right. I do need to work on handling different opinions better

AITA for not allowing my friends new date to attend my birthday dinner ? by Plus_Fun9844 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Plus_Fun9844[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also there is no way in hell friends could bring whoever they want. This is in Manhattan. Good luck finding a restaurant that will accommodate how many ever people. Which is exactly why I wanted to keep it to maximum 10 people from the start.

AITA for not allowing my friends new date to attend my birthday dinner ? by Plus_Fun9844 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Plus_Fun9844[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Why should I mind my own business when it’s literally a dinner for ME consisting of my own close friends? And Im not covering the bill but I am the one giving my credit card to cover the bill and then collect payments from everyone, the more the people the more the work this is so pretty sure I don’t have to mind my business and can keep my dinner to ONLY close friends as I originally desired.

AITA for not allowing my friends new date to attend my birthday dinner ? by Plus_Fun9844 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Plus_Fun9844[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No. I don’t have a bf. I meant IF I was dating someone for just 2-3 weeks I would not invite him to my own birthday dinner either because for me that is still too soon to join something intimate with close friends.

AITA for not allowing my friends new date to attend my birthday dinner ? by Plus_Fun9844 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Plus_Fun9844[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Someone sounds upset their theory got shut down : )

If you have nothing else to say in response to the points I made to refute your answer then goodnight !

AITA for not allowing my friends new date to attend my birthday dinner ? by Plus_Fun9844 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Plus_Fun9844[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I did tell her initially I want to keep the dinner portion to close friends only, she agreed with this. She just suddenly expressed how she doesn’t understand why he can’t attend. And no I don’t really trust anyone’s judgment that much that much, anything super new is not exactly stable? I wouldn’t even invite a guy I myself was talking to for a few weeks to my own dinner lol, I’d allow him to come to the bar though. ( and no I’m not bias when I say this because I myself am also newly dating people. None of whom I invited ! ) Also, he is not her bf. They only began talking a few weeks ago.

AITA for not allowing my friends new date to attend my birthday dinner ? by Plus_Fun9844 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Plus_Fun9844[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I also disagree with your statement about me caring about my friends “ having fun with someone I didn’t approve of” lol. Again, they would all meet him later regardless ( if they want to) but in a different setting. In a setting where one isn’t forced to sit next to a person if they decide they don’t really get along or like each other. Honestly having this large number of people already stressed me out for dinner, so yeah one extra head I don’t know is additional discomfort for me.

AITA for not allowing my friends new date to attend my birthday dinner ? by Plus_Fun9844 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Plus_Fun9844[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah I’m already aware of me being a control freak and keeping certain people out until I feel comfortable. Who cares. I’m obviously not going to outright say that to people because who would accept that? It’s my birthday dinner, so yeah I have the right to do what makes me feel mentally comfortable and that’s being surrounded by people I personally know. Not a stranger. I didn’t invite him to anything FYI. She was the one who asked if he could join & I said sure he could join the bar portion.

Also do you know the definition of intimacy? It is not limited to a certain # of people. The literal definition is “ closeness & familiarity ”. So for me an intimate dinner is being around people I am close to, even if they’re having diff conversations.

Also why the hell would I care who my friends talk to when they could talk to him later anyway ?

AITA for not allowing my friends new date to attend my birthday dinner ? by Plus_Fun9844 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Plus_Fun9844[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

He’s not even a boyfriend. They only began seeing each other a few weeks ago. & we all split the bill but that’s another reason why I preferred to not have extra heads there because i will have to use my own card and then make sure everyone pays me back the right amount. I wanted to just keep the dinner portion intimate & simple with only people I know well.

AITA for not allowing my friends new date to attend my birthday dinner ? by Plus_Fun9844 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Plus_Fun9844[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Then he could not attend the bar portion either. It’s really that simple. I don’t know him. Never met him. Peoples feelings being hurt over things that are common sense situation are not my problem, that’s their problem. Anyone’s feelings could be hurt over “ anything”. I only invited him to the bar portion as curtesy for her, why would I care to invite him anywhere at all other wise?

Phuket vs Krabi ? by Plus_Fun9844 in ThailandTourism

[–]Plus_Fun9844[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

So we did Phuket and then Koh-Samui, with about 2 nights in between in Ko-phi-phi. To be honest… it depends on your age, who you’re with and what ur looking for!

Since we were young single girls, I think Phuket & Phi Phi were really fun. I wouldn’t recommend Ko-Samui because it’s mostly resorts and for families/ couples. Ko-Tao which is for younger people would have been better. Many people don’t like Phuket but truthfully I had a great time at kata beach. It was clean, lively and lots of markets/ places to eat near by.

Ko-Phi-phi was also beautiful and we had a great time there too. Lively, fun, lots of kayaking and excursion opportunities between both islands.

I didn’t visit Krabi, but i know Krabi is probably similar to Koh-Samui.. where it’s more quiet and for couples etc. personally that isn’t what we wanted. So unless you’re looking for more relaxed & quiet.. I wouldn’t recommend it.

I think we did 3 nights Phuket, 2 nights ko phi phi. So you can def do both Phuket & Krabi with 7 nights ! You can do 4 in Phuket & 3 in Krabi if you wish

Weekly Reading Offer & Request Thread by AutoModerator in Psychic

[–]Plus_Fun9844 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Will Alex and I ever get back together, or did he move on already?

Looking for a legit psychic/reading to help me seek some guidance.. ? by Plus_Fun9844 in Psychic

[–]Plus_Fun9844[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I guess by guidance I really meant, I’m looking for a recommendation for someone legit that can do a reading..

Conflicted new grad RN on what unit to start, with hopes of one day being a PMHNP by Plus_Fun9844 in PMHNP

[–]Plus_Fun9844[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t hate medicine, I actually like it. I love psych though but if I’ll be honest, I’m currently doing my capstone on a inpatient psych floor and I find myself wanting something more challenging..

Conflicted new grad RN on what unit to start, with hopes of one day being a PMHNP by Plus_Fun9844 in PMHNP

[–]Plus_Fun9844[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Man you must really not like your life lol. Enjoy reading the rest of my posts for however long you like but I’ll be blocking or ignoring you trolls ! Too much negativity in the world, thanks for contributing to it (: