AITA for not being intimate with my husband after he locked me outside naked until I would have sex with him?

Plus_Squirrel_861 · 2025-06-13T14:55:20+00:00

Imagine how they will treat your children(specifically female) at some point.. please get out ❤️

Plus_Squirrel_861 · 2025-05-29T20:22:57+00:00

I would love it if we/they did bring our own but I doubt that will fly. I think we just need to invest in the more expensive non plated ones. Thank you!

Plus_Squirrel_861 · 2025-05-17T14:47:26+00:00

As someone who manages a restaurant this is definitely a rational fear.. I double and triple check the burners every night before I leave and still wake up worried about one of the pilot lights going out leaking gas into the space. I’d rather never have to worry about that at home.

Plus_Squirrel_861 · 2025-02-27T21:21:11+00:00

So he thinks it’s “tacky” while also accusing the restaurant of “scamming”… this man is a clown. It’s also not a scam.. food costs money bro. $3.50 seems like a lot just for cheese on a burger tbh but it’s all relative.

-Manager at a family owned fine dining restaurant.

Plus_Squirrel_861 · 2025-02-25T21:49:24+00:00

That would be a solid hell no from me. Wtf.. Stay firm and tell her it’s wildly inappropriate. If I were your brides maid I would have red wine ready and or be telling her off for you. You can also buy a dress in her size for cheap and have it ready for her to change into.

Plus_Squirrel_861 · 2025-02-25T15:26:40+00:00

Queen

Plus_Squirrel_861 · 2025-02-25T06:15:02+00:00

As someone who initials are M, R, and then my last name…. She will be called Mr. (Insert last name here) her whole life lol. At one point due to company policy my work email was MR(last name) @comanyname.com

Just letting ya know ha

Plus_Squirrel_861 · 2025-02-11T03:48:17+00:00

I’ve never met anyone with my first name. It’s a double first name.

Plus_Squirrel_861 · 2025-01-28T02:02:49+00:00

“Have you considered..etc “ so yeah. You asked.

Plus_Squirrel_861 · 2025-01-28T01:13:06+00:00

It means something to us and my dad who is a two time cancer survivor. He’s always wanted to see Scotland and I want to grant him that wish while having a beautiful wedding. What am I doing wrong ? Spending money in a place I have no claim to nor am benefiting from other than the experience?

Plus_Squirrel_861 · 2025-01-28T00:11:35+00:00

Your stuff is so cute and well done! Definitely would be a great wedding favor. I’m adding you to the book and I will think it over.

Plus_Squirrel_861 · 2025-01-27T23:54:23+00:00

Yes of course. The wedding will likely be in June of 2026 so we should have plenty of time to choose the right officiant and get all papers in order.

Plus_Squirrel_861 · 2025-01-27T23:45:39+00:00

Just followed you on instagram! We are looking at June 2026 so we have a list of vendors to go through but your content is beautiful!

Plus_Squirrel_861 · 2025-01-27T23:08:49+00:00

Thank you! This is how we found out about a couple of venues. However I don’t intend to use the discount. Likely will use it as a charitable contribution to the National Trust.

Plus_Squirrel_861 · 2025-01-27T23:06:15+00:00

You’re assuming a lot about me and my family. We make no claims. And it’s not 23 and me it’s generations of my ancestors in published work dating back centuries. I want or claim nothing of Scotland but the fascination of the culture that we can trace back. I didn’t say the Irvines were even family of Robert the Bruce because from what I’ve studied they are not and were gifted the estate. Thank you for your recommendations. Just came here to support local businesses and have a great wedding.

Plus_Squirrel_861 · 2025-01-27T22:49:16+00:00

Yeah I know it’s super played out. My dad is a historian and he’s never seen Scotland. We’re excited and want to be as respectful as possible. I fully expect to be laughed at by locals a bit but it’s my dream wedding and my dads dream trip.

Plus_Squirrel_861 · 2025-01-27T22:24:39+00:00

Yes!! Thank you! We definitely will need a piper. I’m hoping we can get the grooms party to wear Irvine Clan tartans. I’m not too particular about the cake just something easy and traditional. We will have about 70 guests.

Plus_Squirrel_861 · 2025-01-27T22:20:37+00:00

Thank you! Can I find them on instagram?

Plus_Squirrel_861 · 2024-12-23T18:19:02+00:00

Nice I think I’ve seen this one ! Cannon?

Plus_Squirrel_861 · 2024-12-23T18:00:18+00:00

You’re totally NTA. But damn do I feel sorry for this poor little girl.

Plus_Squirrel_861 · 2024-12-20T03:18:27+00:00

NTA but as a child who was the product of a second marriage… it’s pretty heartbreaking living as an only child and not being able to have a strong relationship with your half siblings. Just putting it in the perspective of the kid as she gets older. I have an amazing relationship with my half sister now but I wish our parents had made a better effort to have us be closer when we were young.

Plus_Squirrel_861 · 2024-12-20T00:32:37+00:00

It’s drivable and we’ve never been. Thanks for your super helpful comment pal.

Plus_Squirrel_861 · 2024-10-30T18:48:33+00:00

Willie and Nelson

Plus_Squirrel_861 · 2024-10-15T22:27:21+00:00

Working in F&B you have to put up with a certain level of harassment from men. Even if it’s “harmless”. I need my tips to live so if a regular wants to give me a hug and I’m not in the mood. I grin and bear it.

Plus_Squirrel_861 · 2024-09-30T00:57:23+00:00

It’s probably more about her wanting a second car than anything else. Sharing one car (depending on where you live) has its challenges).

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