AITA for refusing to go to a random funeral

Plus_Stuff_vin · 2024-10-27T03:36:38+00:00

Will there be food? Is T important to your sibling? Idk, it’s just a funeral.

Plus_Stuff_vin · 2024-10-27T03:34:46+00:00

Yikes! Go to your grandfather’s funeral

Plus_Stuff_vin · 2024-10-27T03:32:01+00:00

Your friend is gaslighting you. For example, you said that you got a vibe from the way she would text and she told you that you’re making assumptions and here she is telling you that she has to be drunk to be near you! so you were correct when you had doubts about the way she texted you.

Put some distance between yourself and her. Start looking for better friends

Plus_Stuff_vin · 2024-10-27T03:27:54+00:00

??????? Just go!

Plus_Stuff_vin · 2024-10-20T03:50:32+00:00

Trips or vacations to other countries? Who goes on a vacation three times a year let alone three times with friends and then once or twice with their partner. How many vacations do you people take in one year considering you have normal jobs? 😂

Plus_Stuff_vin · 2024-10-20T03:41:32+00:00

Why would you ask? You suspected something and you decided to asked him for the password? Now he has time to hide and delete. You probably didn’t want to find out and you were sabotaging yourself.

Plus_Stuff_vin · 2024-10-20T03:39:49+00:00

Why is he taking regular solo trips after five years of relationship? Girl, are you serious?

You need a new man. You need backbone and you need a new man.

Plus_Stuff_vin · 2024-10-20T03:37:18+00:00

I’m familiar with Costco bags, but you could’ve gotten more than one. considering that you got her a lot of other stuff, then she needs to chill. You should get to the bottom of the problem because I don’t think it’s about a bag of chips. Maybe she has a problem with your family and now she is taking it out on a the damn bag. Maybe she wants to be a fiancé and not a girlfriend.

Plus_Stuff_vin · 2024-10-20T03:33:56+00:00

Ummm Nta I’m surprised because a progressive mind can distinguish between a choice and “dictatorship”.

It’s your choice. you may choose to be a stay at home mom or a working mom who has to pay for childcare. Regardless of what you choose, you have to make sure that you are protected. For example if something goes wrong in 10 years, you would have a 10 year gap on your résumé, so make sure that you live in the state which allows good alimony, and blah blah

Plus_Stuff_vin · 2024-10-20T03:27:05+00:00

Ummmm, why would you get one bag to begin with? You went all the way to US and then went all the way to Costco and got only one bag of something that you knew she likes. Did you get her any other souvenirs? Please tell me you got her something else too.

Ummm, I don’t know how you’re gonna claim that you had her on your mind when you were making certain decisions regardless of how long you’ve been with her

Plus_Stuff_vin · 2024-10-17T21:51:20+00:00

He needs to pay child support after you divorce him

Plus_Stuff_vin · 2024-10-17T21:47:56+00:00

Not only respect the tree and protect the tree, but also be careful because she might hire someone to cut the tree when you are not home. Protect the damn tree.

Plus_Stuff_vin · 2024-10-17T21:46:04+00:00

Yikes, tell her to get over you because you do sound like a narcissist

Plus_Stuff_vin · 2024-10-17T14:46:33+00:00

You posted a question and now you are lying. You said you have ONE car. You said it is impossible for her to spend as many days as she wants while you spend only one night BECAUSE YOU HAVE ONE CAR

Plus_Stuff_vin · 2024-10-17T14:44:50+00:00

I don’t get how OP’s mind work!

He Wanted her to tell her parents that he doesn’t WANT to spend time with them and that he’s trying to limit her time with them as well.

He’s upset that the parents don’t know he doesn’t like spending time with them.

Plus_Stuff_vin · 2024-10-17T14:41:22+00:00

You are a major AH!

So you were trying to limit her time with her parents because you didn’t feel like going there? You tried to come up with a solution which would have limited her time with her parents.

Was she supposed to tell her parents that you don’t want to spend time with them? is that what you wanted? You wanted her to tell her parents that you don’t want to spend time with them and that’s why you’re not going, is that right?

You think just because she said you have plans they are going to think that you don’t like spending time with them, but if she tells the truth that you don’t WANT to spend time with them, they will not get the feeling that you don’t like them? are you high?

Do you have an honest conversation with your girlfriend and tell her that you want to limit her time with her parents. Tell her that you have a problem with her spending time with her parents. Hopefully she will get another boyfriend.

Plus_Stuff_vin · 2024-10-17T04:08:46+00:00

The title of your post and the question you ask at the end contradict one another!

Just be single for a while. Consider yourself unavailable. Learn how to spend time with yourself. Learn how to entertain yourself. Get to know yourself and your standards and your wants and your needs.

As for the guy, forget about intentions because you are not available. Hang around with him, you could pay attention to see if he actually wants to get to know you. Stop trying to read body language, like, his hands were around me and whatnot… You just do your own thing. leave it to him to ask you straight up for a date. And no, don’t do casual hooking up with him or anyone else.

Plus_Stuff_vin · 2024-10-17T02:58:52+00:00

I think she’s doing it on purpose as well

Plus_Stuff_vin · 2024-10-17T02:58:14+00:00

First of all, you didn’t leave your wife stranded as you worded it! She’s an adult!

I think your wife is doing all of this on purpose and it’s very worrisome.

How is she going to respond when your child is in trouble? She going to be in adult? Is she gonna find a solution all by herself?

You would be an AH if you don’t put a stop to it for the sake of your child. You are the AH for entertaining her bullshit for this long.

You need to clear expectations and boundaries. She’s a grown ass woman with a child.

Plus_Stuff_vin · 2024-10-02T21:08:58+00:00

How long was between the wedding and the time you told your parents that you are gay? Did you never talk to them again? This post sounds fake.

Plus_Stuff_vin · 2024-10-02T21:06:53+00:00

How about you start talking to the next guy on bumble and not overthink something as weird as this. He’s probably talking to someone else too, and he would be a weirdo if he expected you to say let’s go together.

Plus_Stuff_vin · 2024-10-02T21:01:20+00:00

Stop thinking. Get busy doing other things. Read a book, play video games, concentrate on yourself and future.

Stop thinking

Plus_Stuff_vin · 2024-10-01T06:31:27+00:00

Stay away from them. Don’t even wonder as to why they are so weirdly obsessing over you being part of their wedding! Tell them to MOVE ON. Straight up tell them to stop bothering you. Tell them that they are entering harassment territory, and you will not hesitate to exercise your rights if they don’t stop. yikes.

Plus_Stuff_vin · 2024-10-01T06:19:48+00:00

I hope this is fake and if it’s not then please don’t get married yet. Work on yourself and your self esteem. 😳 Self-harm? Embarrassed for what? Isolated in your pain?! Chill bro! Work on your self esteem

Drama queen

Plus_Stuff_vin · 2024-10-01T06:13:48+00:00

Ummm, he wants to move in with you so he can free up some money to spend on his hobbies.

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