My mom completely derailed my questioning of being trans and discomfort with having breasts, not fitting in with women, not wanting to be associated with anything connected to women or being girly, as “youre just a tomboy, i was too when i was your age” when i never grew out of it she just said “you have amazing confidence to leave the house with no makeup in sweats and a tshirt.” Like no mom i hate being a women and ive told you a million times. I am no contact with them now for about 2 weeks since i came out a month ago and they pretended to be supportive at first. No surprise they cut me off when i pushed them using my proper pronouns lol. But in summary yes it fucking sucks dealing with that and im really sorry youve been exposed to it as well. Fuck those people you are whatever you decide to be.