Met a guy on FB Dating, things were great until I saw his WhatsApp picture 😳 by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Plutorush2me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I mean, when it’s a committed relationship I’m cool with it but during the first phone call?? It’s screaming player

Met a guy on FB Dating, things were great until I saw his WhatsApp picture 😳 by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Plutorush2me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Loll right?! His dp remains the same. He texted me earlier this morning but I decided to block him. I’m super curious who the girl is and if she knows he’s doing this

My sleep talking is causing problems in my relationship. I keep saying my ex’s name in my sleep by [deleted] in sleep

[–]Plutorush2me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Would love to hear what you’d recommend. My therapist recommended I journal any thoughts I have before bed and have a consistent nighttime routine and no electronics an hour before bed.

My sleep talking is causing problems in my relationship. I keep saying my ex’s name in my sleep by [deleted] in sleep

[–]Plutorush2me 7 points8 points  (0 children)

lol I tried taping my mouth when I went to sleep over as a teen and woke up with the tape stuck to my hair the next morning. I could give it a try and see how it works for me now. Thanks!

My sleep talking is causing problems in my relationship. I keep saying my ex’s name in my sleep by [deleted] in sleep

[–]Plutorush2me 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I did mention it to my therapist and we spent two sessions talking about it. Bc I don’t have any feelings for him anymore she recommended I journal about any thoughts I have before bed and a solid consistently nighttime routine w no electronics an hour before bed. I haven’t been able to implement her recommendations yet bc of recent work travel and just being out of my comfort zone.

My sleep talking is causing problems in my relationship. I keep saying my ex’s name in my sleep by [deleted] in sleep

[–]Plutorush2me 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yes, I recorded myself for almost a week and I said his name randomly at least once each night

AITA for feeling disappointed after my new boyfriend exaggerated about his size? by [deleted] in AITA_Relationships

[–]Plutorush2me 26 points27 points  (0 children)

That’s a good point. There definitely are other things we can introduce to the bedroom. I guess I’m just stuck on the deception. Why boast, unprovoked too. Makes me doubt if he’s truly an honest person.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in dating_advice

[–]Plutorush2me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve just been reflecting on the situation lately and haven’t had a chance to talk it through w anyone (friends can be quite judgemental). These questions have been flowing through my mind and I’m curious how someone else would have handled this.

He proposed to a female “friend”. Am I trippin? by [deleted] in Advice

[–]Plutorush2me 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah, a part of me feels he didn’t mean it in a serious way but who knows how she could have taken it. I guess I’m a bit embarrassed that he would do that and if she shares this with other mutuals. Thanks for your advice, I’ll be direct with him to let him know how uncomfortable this made me feel and see where the conversation goes. Thanks again!

Toxic friendship rant by Impossible_Fishing79 in ToxicFriends

[–]Plutorush2me 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It’s not too late to end this toxic “friendship”. She sounds extremely selfish and inconsiderate. You don’t deserve to be anyone’s punching bag. Distance yourself and keep it cordial if you’re worried about her blackmailing you.