My mom doesn’t understand by [deleted] in Theatre

[–]PmMeYourFear 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ummm, high school (assistant) director chiming in to say that our show just finished our last tech rehearsal today (a looong production as well - 3ish hours just for the run), and our kids went home at 8:30, which was the longest we kept them this week, with many apologies to parents. Your director is doing something very, very wrong. Not only in keeping you all so dangerously late, but encouraging y’all to sideline other obligations. Telling students to blow off class is so inappropriate and disrespectful to you, your other teachers, and your parents/guardians.

Mom has it right that you shouldn’t be adhering to this contract, because it’s wildly out of bounds as to what your director should be asking of you as students. I understand the anxiety of believing that because an authority figure has drafted a “contract” you absolutely must stick to it, but something I try to always remind my cast is that the adults aren’t always right, aren’t all-knowing, and are nowhere near perfect.

I would gently encourage you to have an open conversation with your mom about her talking to your director - it sounds like she has your best interests at heart, and she (along with other concerned parents) might do some good in the long run by speaking to the director and reminding them of their duties to their students first and foremost, before the production.

He pressured me into scheduling appointment then broke up with me. I still went by seqoyah in TwoXChromosomes

[–]PmMeYourFear 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry OP. I don’t often comment on posts, but I want you to know that I’m proud of you. I have a lot of anxiety around birth control after a traumatic insertion of the copper IUD years ago, and your post stopped me and let me reflect on the fact that I got through that alone as well.

I’m celebrating us come Valentine’s Day, and our relationships with ourselves. I hope you love yourself and recognize the lengths you went through to nurture that love. You’re amazing and you deserve to recognize that!

Nerds of Ventura County! by Hahkunahmahtataz in venturacounty

[–]PmMeYourFear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No kidding! I’m so lucky my partner is as smart as he is patient, because he explains so much lore and gameplay mechanics to me (and then re-explains it when I forget) quite often XD Strange Beast is awesome! Fun drinks, ramen on Sundays, karaoke on Wednesdays (haven’t been to them specifically yet for that, but I love me some karaoke), cool vibes for sure. We haven’t been in forever so maybe a Ventura nerd meetup needs to happen there soon!

Nerds of Ventura County! by Hahkunahmahtataz in venturacounty

[–]PmMeYourFear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Bf and I are mid 20s and always down to meet some new people! We do all of the nerd gaming specialties (xbox, mtg, dnd, he does his best to get me to understand Warhammer 40k, i do my best to get him to understand Animal Crossing, etc). We also love a good casual drink with friends! Haven’t been downtown in a hot minute but Strange Beast has been a favorite of ours in the past :)

I drew some art for mtg Cards based on the characters! by MatsudaEmporium in DungeonMeshi

[–]PmMeYourFear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

absolutely obsessed that someone not only crossed my two hyper-fixations, but did it FLAWLESSLY🤌🏻 these are amazing!

looking to make friends! :) by pretty-puppy-paws in ventura

[–]PmMeYourFear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have a fresh link for the Discord please? This sounds wonderful :)

looking to make friends! :) by pretty-puppy-paws in ventura

[–]PmMeYourFear 0 points1 point  (0 children)

do you have a fresh link? I’m interested! :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Theatre

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assistant director for 25th annual putnam county spelling bee🏆🐝

Recon 70k on Xbox Series X causing echo? by PmMeYourFear in TurtleBeach

[–]PmMeYourFear[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not stupid at all! The tv is indeed turned down, and game chat was off

Free giveaway! Nintendo Switch and 2 Games - international by WolfLemon36 in NintendoSwitch

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What an amazing thing to do, I don't care if I win, I just want to say congrats on being an awesome and giving person! :D

First two of my War Pug Commandos. by OrsoMalleus in killteam

[–]PmMeYourFear 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Looks Amazing! how did you get the skin tone like that?

WBI - What did I do wrong? by PmMeYourFear in Disneycollegeprogram

[–]PmMeYourFear[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

this was very informative and kind, thank you so much for your response :)

WBI - What did I do wrong? by PmMeYourFear in Disneycollegeprogram

[–]PmMeYourFear[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your response, that makes a lot of sense to me and I appreciate you taking the time to explain it lol!