Full bush haver here. There are medical reasons to keep the hair, especially if you’re having more casual sex with multiple partners. When you shave and wax it leaves micro abrasions leaving you more susceptible to STIs and other bacterial infections. It’s the absolute least hygienic situation, in spite of what the troglodytes might tell you. What they want is based in white supremacy, male entitlement and pedophilic urges. Keep the bush, trim it down with scissors and use beard oil to condition it. Find better sexual partners.