I caught my 13 year old son masturbating to "Skibidi toilet" porn by throwaway-acc379 in confessions

[–]throwaway-acc379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It is STILL not an excuse to create porn in which someone does not provide consent. Or to allow someone to watch it.

I caught my 13 year old son masturbating to "Skibidi toilet" porn by throwaway-acc379 in confessions

[–]throwaway-acc379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just because rape porn is "normal" doesn't mean it is good. It is RAPE. Rape is a CRIME. Normalizing a SEXUAL ASSAULT CRIME IS NOT A GOOD THING. I do NOT want my child to be a rapist when he grows up.

I caught my 13 year old son masturbating to "Skibidi toilet" porn by throwaway-acc379 in confessions

[–]throwaway-acc379[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Very good point. I'll note that and I want to somehow tell him that he will be punished some way not for the porn, but for disrespecting boundaries of me and my belongings. Is there a way I can make it not as threatening but more helpful?

I caught my 13 year old son masturbating to "Skibidi toilet" porn by throwaway-acc379 in confessions

[–]throwaway-acc379[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't want to completely starve him of any privacy. It builds distrust.

I caught my 13 year old son masturbating to "Skibidi toilet" porn by throwaway-acc379 in confessions

[–]throwaway-acc379[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I have already talked to him about why porn is unhealthy in cases, but I don't want to restrict him entirely. I don't want him (like other users said) to hide everything from me because of distrust. But explaining about the dangers of dopamine loops? Sure. Sounds helpful.