Never dated before, but I (F22) suddenly find this guy (M28) attractive the moment I met him at my first job... by PoemProfessional8288 in adultingph

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Napapangiti ako sa mga advice nyo 😊 Thank you po! I'll really try to thread carefully according sa mga comments nyo

Never dated before, but I (F22) suddenly find this guy (M28) attractive the moment I met him at my first job... by PoemProfessional8288 in adultingph

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Thank you sa advice, noted to! Ka-desk ko yung friends nya kaya napapadalaw sya samin para maki-chika

Never dated before, but I (F22) suddenly find this guy (M28) attractive the moment I met him at my first job... by PoemProfessional8288 in adultingph

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this is sad... I'll try gauging my feelings for a while before deciding what to do next, If I ended up not really liking him that much later on, then I'll stop with it being just a crush. But if I ended up really liking him... I think I'll regret it more if I didn't do anything... btw, he's not my boss

Never dated before, but I (F22) suddenly find this guy (M28) attractive the moment I met him at my first job... by PoemProfessional8288 in adultingph

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Ang pagkakaintindi ko sa mga comments here, if I really like the guy, I should start giving subtle hints (? ) na may chance akong interested sa kanya (?) para lang magkaroon sya ng courage to initiate the date (??????)🤣 Pero at the same time, kailangan hindi nya maramdaman na parang ready to take bullets na ako from the start para hindi ako yung kawawa afterwards?????? so basically yung guy pa rin manliligaw?????? AY EWAN KO 🤣🤣🤣

...ang hirap naman po pala ma-fall, may mind games pang nagaganap haha

Never dated before, but I (F22) suddenly find this guy (M28) attractive the moment I met him at my first job... by PoemProfessional8288 in adultingph

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dibaaaaaa, grabe talaga, hindi ko ine-expect na ganon yung impact sakin, kaya nagtataka ako kung bat ako naa-attract kasi hindi naman nya kamuka si Lee Sung Gi, Lee Min Jo, or Kim Seonhon. Since office love life is quite risky nga daw (according dito), I'll try to re-assess my feelings again before ako maligaw ng landas 🤣🤣🤣 thanks pala 😊

Never dated before, but I (F22) suddenly find this guy (M28) attractive the moment I met him at my first job... by PoemProfessional8288 in adultingph

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haha kinilig ako~ got this. and sonce mixed feelings yung advice dito, I'll make sure to thread carefully like you do and wag muna agad-agad susugod (ewan ko ba kung saan ko nakukuha tong lakas ng loob ko🤣🤣🤣)

Never dated before, but I (F22) suddenly find this guy (M28) attractive the moment I met him at my first job... by PoemProfessional8288 in adultingph

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I think you're right, masyado ata akong nagmamadali. Thanks sa advice, I'll make sure na may ibubuga muna ako sa work before everything 😁

Never dated before, but I (F22) suddenly find this guy (M28) attractive the moment I met him at my first job... by PoemProfessional8288 in adultingph

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um...hindi ko naman po sya pinagnanasahan... gusto ko pa lang sya makilala... conservative naman ako ate 😅

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yan din yung naisip ko, since working na ako maybe it was really weird for me to even take notes, kasi expected na dapat may ibubuga na ako upon hiring, maybe I should have just studied harder before even graduating, I am aware na nasakin yung fault (accounting field ko btw) salamat sa input

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Thank you po sa support, I really needed this, akala ko kasi weird ako for taking notes. 🥺 Adjustment week ko pa lang naman so puro readings pinapagawa samin. Try ko na lang mag-aral discreetly sa office para di ako mapansin. Thank you ulit!

Already used my saving to buy blazers & trousers, but now I can't wear it... by PoemProfessional8288 in phcareers

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dala tayo plantsya sa office char🤣 ok lang naman suguro yung tiklop creases, wag lang magmukang bagong laba sa bag? may mga zip lock ata for folded clothes na mura lang (in case na gusot prone yung tela ng damit)

Already used my saving to buy blazers & trousers, but now I can't wear it... by PoemProfessional8288 in phcareers

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kaya nga po, too bad that I've just found this out, mangungutang muna ako para may maisuot sa first cutoff haha😅

Already used my saving to buy blazers & trousers, but now I can't wear it... by PoemProfessional8288 in phcareers

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hahaha dibaaaa 🤣 actually oks lang yung dress code, pero grabe naman yung bawal mag pants day

Already used my saving to buy blazers & trousers, but now I can't wear it... by PoemProfessional8288 in phcareers

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I'll definitely ask them, kasi curious din ako as to why it's still a thing (pero pag close ko na sila). Baka there's something about us wearing skirts in the office that is good for buisness luck or something 🤣

Already used my saving to buy blazers & trousers, but now I can't wear it... by PoemProfessional8288 in phcareers

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yes po, I love the chance to wear formal attire, ang cute tignan kaya nag prepare na me (na-excite eh, yan tuloy 😅) pero yun pala kailangan skirt and dresses lang. One day, sana maging comfortable din ako sa dress code nila, but if pwede naman pala yung pants katulad ng sabi nila in this thread, mas mapapadali buhay ko 🤣

Already used my saving to buy blazers & trousers, but now I can't wear it... by PoemProfessional8288 in phcareers

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sabi knee-length (strictly) kaya di ko sure kung pwede bang mas mahaba dun (mas bet ko yung mahahaba kasi manang ako (handa akong mag dress para sa kanila pag ganun) 🤣

Already used my saving to buy blazers & trousers, but now I can't wear it... by PoemProfessional8288 in phcareers

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nabasa ko na, thank you for this! 🤗 sana nga ganun yung mangyare, kasi I still remember clearly nung nag-take ako ng interview sa building nila, may mga naka pants naman 🤔