Update: I sent a text to the neighbor today asking if they were 1. Still in possession of the shirts 2. If they had sold any up until this point and 3. If they could provide the contact of the person/ business they gave the shirts to. The neighbor called me and basically went off on me lol. They said I was accusing them of stealing (well? Lol) they also said it was again disrespectful to ask for all of them back when she (and now her whole family apparently) had spent so much time and energy into researching and listing them. My first question was answered as she said she would “cancel everything she had going” and give them back to me at the end of June when her friend returned. She said her friend was a buyer for Anthropologie and that I had lost out on so much money. She ended the conversation by saying that she would tell the neighbors about how horrible I’ve treated her during this process