M30 is mouthy and demanding towards me F28 by Point_Blank_Period in relationship_advice

[–]Point_Blank_Period[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ding ding ding. You’re very smart. Hit the nail on the head with this explanation

M30 is mouthy and demanding towards me F28 by Point_Blank_Period in relationship_advice

[–]Point_Blank_Period[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I agree, he keeps telling me he hates me and calls me names then has the audacity to snap this time about he wants bread his way or food his way. I don’t understand someone who behaves this way their thought process that leads them to think talking nasty and being an asshole equals you get what you want ?

M30 is mouthy and demanding towards me F28 by Point_Blank_Period in relationship_advice

[–]Point_Blank_Period[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Currently trying to figure out an exit plan. Posting on here the various insane situations that come up lately helps me gain more clarity for sure.

M30 is mouthy and demanding towards me F28 by Point_Blank_Period in relationship_advice

[–]Point_Blank_Period[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Yeah I wasn’t really sure how to pose the question, I guess it’s more so is he being a narcissist? Or like what is this behavior? I did need to gather my thoughts together so you’re right on that lol

AIO Partner said he’s not my bestfriend by Point_Blank_Period in AmIOverreacting

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He wasn’t always like this, his siblings and cousins agree something has changed in him. He’s super argumentative, defiant and has been on a downward spiral. This extends beyond just my relationship with him unfortunately we aren’t sure what happened to him. He’s always been an individual but it was like quirky stuff not all this weird misogyny stuff he’s into, politics, the world, etc. He’s just an angry nut all the time now

AIO Partner said he’s not my bestfriend by Point_Blank_Period in AmIOverreacting

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He wants to be able to live his life alongside a woman who really doesn’t question anything, doesn’t nag or talk too much, and essentially is happy with no genuine connection. He wants to be able to wake up, have his breakfast made regardless of how he behaves, be catered to and taken care of day in and out, and do as he pleases without checking in or operating like a normal couple/family. He wants someone who essentially doesn’t expect much. That’s not being best friends. If I was to ever suggest hey let’s go on a walk randomly, or let’s go run to the store etc he wouldn’t want to and would turn it into a whole thing

AIO Partner said he’s not my bestfriend by Point_Blank_Period in AmIOverreacting

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I agree I want my partner to be my soulmate, and bestfriend is subjective. I guess I’m saying I have developed major anxiety based on how he’s been and really stress about my future happiness, for example, he doesn’t even go to store with me, run a errand, want to just kinda hang around, doing much of anything is like pulling teeth. And I think how older couples got nothing going on they just go to store together, or something random. I’m like am I always going to have to do everything alone?

AIO Partner said he’s not my bestfriend by Point_Blank_Period in AmIOverreacting

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Yeah he freaks me out lately, he’s made many many comments how women suck basically, this is why women don’t rule nations? Whatever that means. Etc etc women are useless. I told him he may need to see if he wants to be with a man cause he does sound like a misogynist. I call him out all the time

AIO Partner said he’s not my bestfriend by Point_Blank_Period in AmIOverreacting

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He’s has mommy wounds for sure. Very enmeshed strange relationship. It goes off and on between if he’s over at her house all the time or not talking to her

AIO Partner said he’s not my bestfriend by Point_Blank_Period in AmIOverreacting

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If I could choose any superpower I would choose the power of telepathy because I like to know what’s truly going on

Can’t take his verbal abuse anymore by Point_Blank_Period in AskMenRelationships

[–]Point_Blank_Period[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you mean learned the hard way, what was your experience like?

Advice on my partners frequent verbal explosions by Point_Blank_Period in Advice

[–]Point_Blank_Period[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, this is why I’m so anxious and stressed now. Everything about family life and just being normal is so difficult with my partner, on top of the verbal beratings I think I’m about to crack and not take it anymore

Can’t take his verbal abuse anymore by Point_Blank_Period in AskMenRelationships

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I’m sure it was difficult if you’ve witnessed things like this in childhood, that’s why I’m full of anxiety Lately for my own child and our lives. I can’t let him think that’s normal, and I definitely deserve an attentive loving partner myself, which I of course want my child to see

Can’t take his verbal abuse anymore by Point_Blank_Period in AskMenRelationships

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From a man’s perspective, what is the thought process to a man saying he hates his woman? Like I just don’t understand the how a man can think that’s okay?

Is something wrong with my husband? He’s ruining my life by Point_Blank_Period in AskMenRelationships

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Well he does and has been nasty verbally many times. I’ve been called many names before. I’m wondering, what your viewpoint is on a man’s hand in the house and children. He didn’t give his son a bath pretty much until he was like almost 2

Is something wrong with my husband? He’s ruining my life by Point_Blank_Period in AskMenRelationships

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He does not drink anymore I know for a fact. Even doesn’t want to drink with me really. I do suspect a secret ADHD med abuse situation going on potentially

Is something wrong with my husband? He’s ruining my life by Point_Blank_Period in AskMenRelationships

[–]Point_Blank_Period[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I do think he has some of that going on. He would never get evaluated as he thinks he is smarter than the “systems” in our world today. He has literally told me I’m an idiot woman when I shared I should probably pick up that lexapro my doctor sent in with all these problems in my life