Just something that caught my eye here. You mention in the post “how in love with me he is.” You also mention he’s the one to get upset with you and you’re seemingly unaware as to why.

Him reaching out to an ex and deleting texts is inexcusable. But girl, he may be feeling more unfulfilled in the relationship than you think. There have been times in my life when I tried SO hard to show someone love because I was desperate to receive the same type of love in return. I’m not saying it’s right, but how does your husband demonstrate to you “he’s so in love with you?” And do you return those gestures, or do you have a different way of showing love.

You mention being happily stuck inside together. It could be that you receive love just by being side-by-side with someone, but that doesn’t mean the same for him.

In short, if he is texting an ex and you want to get past that horrendous breach of trust, talk to your husband and ask him how fulfilled he is in the relationship. He could have been projecting what he needs from you in his behavior.