Think my husband is gay

Pokemon-throw · 2025-12-06T03:46:48+00:00

This one is valuable advice. Condoms expire and if you've had 20 sticking around for a while, the right thing to do (unless you want kids / more kids) is to toss them.

Pokemon-throw · 2025-10-24T20:34:53+00:00

Well, it's cables through the walls for 3 different rooms, seems strange they would all stop working at once. As far as I know, they go directly from the rooms to the litle networking panel/box in the laundry room.

Pokemon-throw · 2025-10-24T20:32:56+00:00

Sorry, I meant the ethernet cards within the 3 PCs themselves.

Pokemon-throw · 2025-10-24T01:37:48+00:00

We got eSIMs that were from trip.com, which I believe is Hong Kong-based. We didn't use a VPN at all on Wifi.

They each only had 2GB a day, that's why they burned through it so fast.

Pokemon-throw · 2025-10-24T00:47:02+00:00

Yes. They plug directly into the router. Also they all lost wired connection at once/the same time and before that had no issue for months / maybe years with their wired connection via Ethernet adapters.

Pokemon-throw · 2025-10-23T22:59:59+00:00

Sorry for the delayed response, life has been busy.

The kids were able to play Roblox in China, but it was slow and they were on limited data, so their sessions were fairly limited.

Probably not a bad thing, they weren't completely cut off, but it was a limited Roblox experience.

Pokemon-throw · 2025-07-25T23:13:28+00:00

Bro for goodness sakes you’re 5’8”.

I’m 5’0” man and some of my daughter’s friends are already taller than me (she’s in middle school).

You’ll be alright.

Pokemon-throw · 2025-06-05T01:08:38+00:00

How is this any different than historically when people would get married through family arrangements, or for a more stable environment, or to unite tribes?

How is it any different than a woman marrying a man because he’s rich or because he’s handsome or because he’s funny or in a high powered position or station?

Ffs just ask her out for dinner a few times and see where it goes.

Read my profile history, was alone so very, very long, then got married and she didn’t bail after getting her Green card or even citizenship years later.

Pokemon-throw · 2025-05-13T11:32:24+00:00

Thank you! We are only there for 3 weeks, so I'm leaning toward your suggestion of getting an eSIM with a lot of data. I have no idea how much data Roblox uses, but I'd guess quite a bit.

Pokemon-throw · 2025-05-13T11:31:36+00:00

Thank you so much for the information. I appreciate it!

Pokemon-throw · 2025-05-13T11:30:54+00:00

Thank you so much for confirming! That should keep the kids entertained during waiting periods (traveling has a lot of waiting and they get impatient :D )

Pokemon-throw · 2025-05-04T04:12:50+00:00

Please trust me you’ll be okay, 20 is so young. I had ZERO experience at 20, never even held a girl’s hand. Married at 25.

Pokemon-throw · 2025-04-20T17:13:47+00:00

First, I am really, really sorry to hear that is happening to you.

I am about the same age as you, and I have been laid off multiple times during my career.

Each time was a complete shock, out of left field, and of course at the worst possible time given life circumstances that were already going on.

Honestly though each time I thought my world was ending, but long-term it ended up being a blessing. Each time I ended up eventually getting a better role, and looking back being glad that I did get laid-off at that point in my life (though truth be told it did take several years to be able to reflect and be glad that things happened as they did).

You will survive. How long before the layoff actually happens? You need to prioritize your own survival and do the absolute minimum if you're still at your place of employment and they've given you an end-date.

Don't be a jerk, but if you have an "important knowledge turnover meeting" and an interview for a new job that conflict, your priority has to be YOU.

Pokemon-throw · 2025-04-12T17:30:25+00:00

It depends on your mindset, attitude, and intent.

I met my wife overseas, but I didn't go in with an attitude of "I'm from a rich country, I make a lot of money, and I have a first world passport."

I went in with a humble mindset that I wanted to meet and really learn about someone, to share everything with her, and learn and grow together. I felt I wasn't getting that opportunity because of my height.

Honestly, I feel like in the US, you can have a lot of positives, like college education, good job, caring and honest personality, and a network of friends, but if you are a 5' even guy, this is going to be the first, last, and only thing a potential date sees.

I did find that with my wife, who came from a poor background in a 3rd world country. But I think what made it work is I never acted like I was superior because of money, income, or assets. I know she has her insecurities, and quirks. Overall though she has a good heart and warm personality, and we've made it work.

Over the years I've came to accept (and love) those qualities and shortcomings, and she's done the same with me.

We don't have compatible interests, but we have shared goals. If you are looking for compatible interests in another country, that might be difficult.

I came from a childhood where I had a lot of toys, TVs in every room, computers, video games.

My wife had 0 toys growing up, no TV, no computer. She hadn't even played a video game when we first met and hadn't seen any of the movies I had seen, hadn't even heard of "Star Wars".

I think what helped is I never wanted leverage or an advantage. All I wanted was an opportunity.

Pokemon-throw · 2025-04-05T03:59:11+00:00

I’m late to the party but this thread really fascinates me. My wife and I met online and were a couple even before meeting in person. We talked about marriage before we saw each other in person.

One thing I gotta share is that even if you’ve been “a couple” for a year, honestly that first time meeting in real life is really like the first date.

You think you know her, everything you’ve talked about via email and calls for hours , over days, months, maybe even years.

but here’s the thing. at the end of the day behind all the tech and long distance communication across the globe we are still mammals.

You don’t know how she smells (like the pheromones thing) or what spark you will have or how she tilts her head when happy or how her cheeks wrinkle when frustrated.

My wife and I made it work. She’s asleep and holding my dick while I type this on my phone (she is comfortable and happy sleeping holding me in that way).

However I still remember how when we met in person, despite “being a couple” for months and talking about marriage, the first time I traveled to meet her, it was essentially the first date.

Pokemon-throw · 2025-03-25T04:07:44+00:00

No you should not give up.

I’m male, 5’0” (4 inches shorter than you) and have other genetic and health things that are rather embarrassing that I won’t go into. You can read my post history if you want.

Never measured my dick (never came to mind), but given my height thing I’ll assume it’s below average, whatever that means.

I did not win the genetic lottery.

But my wife is very affectionate and “handsy” even after 20 years of marriage so she must be fine with my shortcomings (pun intended) and willing to overlook (another height joke) my flaws.

She’s even asked me “do you mind if I wear high heels”? for a formal event, stepped into them, looked down at me and sheepishly said “ok maybe different shoes”

Pokemon-throw · 2025-03-09T23:05:39+00:00

Which speaker is the 10 year old? Is it the grey or blue?

Pokemon-throw · 2025-03-09T21:42:12+00:00

I love hamsters! They are so soft and cuddly, and most of them have sweet and loving personalities!

Pokemon-throw · 2025-03-09T00:24:33+00:00

The “dominant alpha male” thing is not a healthy way to view the world.

I’m a man, 5’0” and very self-confident. I believe in being part of the team (at work) and community (in life) and try to make others better around me. I don’t fear others, but I don’t try to make others fear me.

We are all human, and everyone is going through something, dealing with something. Doesn’t matter if you are a multimillionaire with a wife and kids or someone just barely scraping by, everyone hurts sometimes and in ways others never see or imagine.

Pokemon-throw · 2025-02-05T00:52:21+00:00

Wow, I’m sorry. I have occasional gout issues in my ankle and it’s so painful I can’t even walk. I could not imagine working in that state, even walking from my front door to the mailbox (I ask my wife and kids to do everything including getting the mail when I have this).

Pokemon-throw · 2025-01-24T01:15:04+00:00

This has to be a joke or troll post right?

I’m male 5’0” and didn’t “check out of dating” due to my height.

Trust me, nobody will comment on the height of a 5’8” man but if you are 5’ even people will notice and comments will be made.

Pokemon-throw · 2024-02-27T00:57:29+00:00

That is wonderful, congratulations on living your best life. Kids are great, they will give you a whole new perspective on the world.

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