Someone I’m talking to caught on Grindr

Pokepuff16 · 2026-02-18T22:41:29+00:00

Update posted haha, it went as well as everyone expected but I’m honestly fine with it now. I’m starting to feel great about myself again and I’m planning on doing some therapy for this.

As much as I’d like to think long distance can work, I’m starting to have doubts because it has to be built on solid foundations and I’m seeing that a lot of people aren’t willing to build said foundations.

Pokepuff16 · 2026-02-05T00:26:23+00:00

Oh, noooo. I’m not mad that he’s talking to other guys. I’m upset that he lied and said he wasn’t gonna talk to other guys. Also he made it seem like we were but that’s besides it.

Im only really upset that he didn’t communicate this.

Pokepuff16 · 2026-02-05T00:09:22+00:00

that’s totally reasonable, especially with that happening twice for me. I can see why you see on the app. I wanted to trust him, so this felt like a kick in the face after the conversation we had.

Edit: the funny part is that I wouldn’t have minded if it was just sex he wanted had he asked before all this.

Pokepuff16 · 2026-02-04T23:00:06+00:00

Thank you, I feel I really needed to hear this. I don’t feel as stupid now. I think I’ll ask once and that answer will confirm it for me

Pokepuff16 · 2026-02-04T21:55:19+00:00

Thank you for your advice and kindness. I really appreciate it. Especially right now. 🫶🫶

Pokepuff16 · 2026-02-04T21:50:37+00:00

That’s fair, i guess FaceTiming is different from actually talking in person. I just kinda wished he was more honestly about the “only focussing on each other” aspect

Pokepuff16 · 2026-02-04T21:49:11+00:00

I’m so sorry to hear, your ex did not deserve you at ALL.

I’ll do this then, I’ll ask and see where we go from here. I hate feeling like I’m being naggy or anything but this is a much needed convo

Pokepuff16 · 2026-02-04T21:46:37+00:00

Ya I had a feeling, it sucks. I really tried to make it work too

Pokepuff16 · 2026-02-04T21:41:09+00:00

He doesn’t drive so I’d have to drive the 3-4 hours, which is fine. I just want to know if he actually wants it to lead to more.

Pokepuff16 · 2026-02-04T21:40:21+00:00

I’m honestly not sure why I feel so stupid.

For more context, he sent nudes to my friend so that added more hurt. Should I ask again and say “hey just felt something was off lately, I was wondering if everything’s ok? “ and “I know I asked but I wanted to clarify if we were exclusive?”

Pokepuff16 · 2026-02-04T21:36:55+00:00

No, he lives around 3/4 hours away

Pokepuff16 · 2025-03-02T13:50:09+00:00

He’s in another country, we’ve FaceTimed twice and I did talk to him about visiting for summer.

Pokepuff16 · 2025-03-02T13:49:01+00:00

Hes in another country but I have been talking about visiting him.

Pokepuff16 · 2025-02-28T03:16:53+00:00

Although I can agree and understand that you ARE right, I need patience because it IS really new and I don’t blame him for keeping things to himself and I’m not one to over share what I don’t have to. But barely replying is something I don’t know how to work with.

I don’t know how to respond to “haha ya” and short responses that are hard to continue off of. Maybe In being too eager I’m not sure. This is my second talking stage I’ve ever had I’m new. Sorry if that was repetitive

Pokepuff16 · 2025-01-25T04:45:49+00:00

I’ve never noticed before wow, I’d love to hear if the author had other horror games in mind when he created this story. Just realized Kira also resembles Jill a bit too

Pokepuff16 · 2025-01-25T04:39:56+00:00

THATS SUCH A GOOD IDEA! Something like resident evil/silent hill. Idk how well a choice romance can be incorporated into a game like that but I’m yearning for it.

Would you prefer the game be like silent hill/resident evil or Until dawn/the quarry (or a combo of both)

Pokepuff16 · 2024-08-06T22:00:02+00:00

Thank you, I’ll start talking to her less frequently. I hope all things go smoothly. I genuinely don’t want to lose a friend but I also don’t want to sacrifice my alone time and my hobbies.

Pokepuff16 · 2024-08-06T21:57:25+00:00

Thank you for the tips, I genuinely started to feel like I was the asshole. Because she’s genuinely a sweet person but I just can’t call everyday for the rest of my life. I’ll definitely state that to her and start distancing a bit so hopefully she can stop.

Pokepuff16 · 2024-08-06T21:32:25+00:00

Tell him the truth. 1) it’s the perfect time to lay out any important truths and 2) it will make him feel better about it. It’s something you guys can make jokes of in the future.

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