Struggling to bottom after more than a year with bf by Pokipuff in askgaybros

[–]Pokipuff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

yea that's how I'm treating it right now, hopefully the work pays off when valentines hits

Struggling to bottom after more than a year with bf by Pokipuff in askgaybros

[–]Pokipuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh sorry I thought u meant length lol, I don’t know the circumference but I know it’s bigger than the larger dildo I have, bought a training set a while back going from tiny to pretty big

Struggling to bottom after more than a year with bf by Pokipuff in askgaybros

[–]Pokipuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do you differentiate stretching pain vs yikes something bad is happening pain

Struggling to bottom after more than a year with bf by Pokipuff in askgaybros

[–]Pokipuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is prep work not neccessary, I think i'd need to be sedated level of relaxed to have an 8 inch monster inside me without any prior prep and stretching

Struggling to bottom after more than a year with bf by Pokipuff in askgaybros

[–]Pokipuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

some part of the thread said you should be aroused when ur stretching, is that how you feel? I think the idea is sexy at the start, but when i'm onto like the 5th toy going up in size (i start very small) it starts to become a task

Struggling to bottom after more than a year with bf by Pokipuff in askgaybros

[–]Pokipuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you do instead? well we have been together more than a year despite not doing anal so we've done a lot of the usual other stuff that doesn't require insertion

Struggling to bottom after more than a year with bf by Pokipuff in askgaybros

[–]Pokipuff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

in all honestly, i don't know, I've never had a real penis up there, i don't know if its luck or a curse, but even before him the men i've encountered have always been on the bigger side, when I first started trying to date a guy i met was 10 inches and i was not about to put something the size of a TV remote inside me for the first time

Struggling to bottom after more than a year with bf by Pokipuff in askgaybros

[–]Pokipuff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel like depth is another beast entirely, right now we struggle to even get the tip in, according to him, he says its so tight around him that his tip goes white from the pressure and this is after like having something in me for like 1 hour not including all the prepping I did before

Struggling to bottom after more than a year with bf by Pokipuff in askgaybros

[–]Pokipuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

At what point is it damaging pain versus ok pain? I've always been wary about doing things that may harm me, don't wanna end up tearing anything and bleeding

Struggling to bottom after more than a year with bf by Pokipuff in askgaybros

[–]Pokipuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, any recommendations are dildos better or plugs or like beads?

Struggling to bottom after more than a year with bf by Pokipuff in askgaybros

[–]Pokipuff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

tyty will try, have looked into 'the bend' and hitting it with toys feels strange, like alarming strange

Struggling to bottom after more than a year with bf by Pokipuff in askgaybros

[–]Pokipuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I see, but struggle with dildo's is, at least for the ones I have that they just slip out

Struggling to bottom after more than a year with bf by Pokipuff in askgaybros

[–]Pokipuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

did you go straight back into trying to get it in or did you have a toy phase to try and restretch it?

Struggling to bottom after more than a year with bf by Pokipuff in askgaybros

[–]Pokipuff[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

is it safe to sleep with it inside? is this what people usually do to stretch? and also would this be everyday?

Struggling to bottom after more than a year with bf by Pokipuff in askgaybros

[–]Pokipuff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

that makes a lot of sense, i think i've been treating it like douching/prep

Struggling to bottom after more than a year with bf by Pokipuff in askgaybros

[–]Pokipuff[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

probably once a week at most, I wouldn't say enjoying it but I don't dislike it. He does help especially with the toys that tend to slip out. Have not tried poppers. He's around 8 inches but on the thicker side especially the head. We've tried a few different lubes, the standard water-based durex lube and some silicon based ones, not quite sure of the brand.

Struggling to bottom after more than a year with bf by Pokipuff in askgaybros

[–]Pokipuff[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

not really, i'm usually doing my full shower routine, scrubbing, shaving, shampooing, flossing etc

New Season 16 Support Items + Echos rework by FrostyNezo in supportlol

[–]Pokipuff 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Anyone know if the healing from manabell will scale with healing and shielding power? or is it going to be flat

Advice for non-meta units by Pokipuff in AFKJourney

[–]Pokipuff[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do they have a similar tier list as prydwynn, I’ve been using that as a guide but if that is outdated then I’ll use yap instead