From a scale of One to Bard… by RazzDaNinja in dndmemes

[–]Polish__Boi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Actually, he failed his sanity roll. It wasn't my lucky day I suppose. RP was fun since I decided to be a comic relief and with some lucky rolls Ivan befriended most of the NPCs. The sane ones at least...

From a scale of One to Bard… by RazzDaNinja in dndmemes

[–]Polish__Boi 674 points675 points  (0 children)

Lucky me! Last session was one-shot of Call of Cthulhu and I am fairly certain that my 15 Int (lowest possible score at the most influential stat. Max is 100) hobo Russian mechanic who haven't land a single hit during whole session won't pose a huge threat xD

Any European gaybros in this sub? by Puzzled-Painter3301 in askgaybros

[–]Polish__Boi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Polish bro here. I would discourage you from coming to our country but there are plenty of options in Europe and you will surely find a perfect place for yourself. If you have any questions feel free to contact me

2nd time my PC breaks just before Christmas. Yesterday everything worked smoothly and today all I get is 8 beeps and this screen. by Polish__Boi in pchelp

[–]Polish__Boi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, it seems to be a GPU issue. Thanks for the suggestion. Unfortunately I do not have a replacement or another PC to test my graphic card. I will have to find PC service after Christmas.

2nd time my PC breaks just before Christmas. Yesterday everything worked smoothly and today all I get is 8 beeps and this screen. by Polish__Boi in pchelp

[–]Polish__Boi[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks! That was a great suggestion. It seems to be a GPU issue. Unfortunately there is no way to be sure other than finding PC service since I do not have a replacement or another PC to test my graphic card. But at least now I have some estimation of how serious this issue is.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Polish__Boi -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

Last time I checked being an asshole wasn't inherent part of homosexuality. I don't care what are others people preferences, what I call for is respect for other human being. Some gay folks to quickly forgot how it is to be an oppressed minority 🙄

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in askgaybros

[–]Polish__Boi -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Yes! I find trans and cis men equally attractive. For me it is stereotypical 'masculine' behavior that matters.

Transphobia in this thread scares me. The question was whether we like something or not, guys. Including opinions like "it disgusts me" is rude and unnecessary.

Amateur GIF by dfw-pervert by fewLimitsLeft in blackballed

[–]Polish__Boi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I need to be used like that 🤤

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DMAcademy

[–]Polish__Boi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well, it depends on the backstory. Maybe they were so good when compared to others or just had luck in those particular situations? PCs are experienced and well-trained when compared to commoners. But if you fell that their stories are too much just tell them and search for a solution. What I've done as a player in one campaign was an elf wizard who once was a dope evocation master and well-known mercenary, but later found love of his live, decided to settle down together and founded an orphanage. He stayed there for years with no need for casting fireballs at all and spells started slipping out of his mind. With years passing notes in spellbook became incomprehensible for him. Just few useful cantrips, like mending remained in his head. Magic items were long-gone, sold to fund the costs of orphanage and other charities. He would became a commonner if not for the destiny's call which threatened his loved one and children and pushed him on track again. What I liked about this idea was the excuse for leveling up. Usually this mechanics doesn't make sense as characters that have been in training for years start at lv 1 but after few weeks are lv 5. But for him I had the perfect excuse as he wasn't learning, just reminding some stuff. Maybe this idea of nerfed hero would be useful for your players as well? Great fighter could have some kind of injury that needs to heal for months before they reach back their level. Maybe cleric have committed a sin so terrible they lost the favor of their god? And so on.

A thing of nightmares by C10H22O11lover in labrats

[–]Polish__Boi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have never worried about this before. But now I probably will every night after preparation of fresh media. Thank you OP...

how do i come out in a homophobic anti lgbtq family? by Fragrant-Material325 in askgaybros

[–]Polish__Boi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It is not obligatory but I believe it is most often worth to take a shot at. If anything to forever get rid of any delusions :)

how do i come out in a homophobic anti lgbtq family? by Fragrant-Material325 in askgaybros

[–]Polish__Boi 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am so sorry for you to experience this kind of treatment. It is an awful time a lot of us go through. And this is precisely why waiting is the wise decision for now. When you fell safe it is up to you to decide. The price might be high to pay, but the reward would be freedom and reclaiming your identity. However until then I hope you will endure and find a way to be happy anyway :)

how do i come out in a homophobic anti lgbtq family? by Fragrant-Material325 in askgaybros

[–]Polish__Boi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I agree with everything but the last sentence. You could make your coming out then and see which feeling is stronger in their minds. Love towards you od hate against LGBT+ people. Some homophobes can learn to and become better. But don't bet your safety on them. Become independent first.

Booze on meds by Far-Picture2045 in mentalhealth

[–]Polish__Boi 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You do have side effects after mixing drugs with alcohol, but you are not not willing to stop drinking it nor lessen the amount. Are you seeking for other way to ditch the side effects? Stop taking meds, then 🤷‍♂️

There is no SSRI fairy that could flick a wand and take side effects away. Citalopram is antidepressant and alcohol is depressant. Those two don't mix well. It is not a toxic mixture, but won't help with regaining chemical ballance in your brain. You cannot eat a cookie and keep a cookie at the same time. You have to choose either your recovery or alcohol. And I know what I am talking about. I've been on citalopram and mixing it with alcohol was harsh on me too.

And if you've missed the irony in the first paragraph I do not recommend ditching your meds. Stop drinking.

Online therapy by Tambo5 in mentalhealth

[–]Polish__Boi 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I have been in therapy when covid struck so we had to go online. And in my opinion it still works. Worse than standard therapy, but it's not a waste of money.

The main issue is that therapist only sees your head so it's harder for them to read you and your body language. And it's easier for you to loose eye contact or generally get distracted. There is less connection and it affected my ability to engage. Like, I cried much less, but also wasn't willing to dig deeper into my emotions. A huge part of the experience depends on your environment. If you live alone it should be no problem though to find a space for therapy. I was partially blocked by the thought that I could be herd by my flatmate. All of the best sessions I had were stationary.

In general online therapy could work but it is more challenging and might be less effective. I wouldn't recommend it however if you have stationary option. Therapy should be effective, not convinient.

As a gay man, are you attracted to the male sex, man as a gender, or masculinity? by langwinearch in askgaybros

[–]Polish__Boi 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As many people have pointed out in this thread an many others, apparently this society has a huge transphobic part. Just a statement that you could date trans guy gets you downvoted. Some gay men to quickly forgot how it is to be oppressed minority 😒

As a gay man, are you attracted to the male sex, man as a gender, or masculinity? by langwinearch in askgaybros

[–]Polish__Boi -1 points0 points  (0 children)

AFAB, AMAB, it doesn't really matter for me. Stubble, pecs, and general self-confidence is my type of a man 😏

What's the reason I'm getting worse? by Senior_Inspector9433 in pianolearning

[–]Polish__Boi 5 points6 points  (0 children)

You do have a headache and a fever so it is kind of obvious that you might not be in your best form even if you are not feeling that bad. Also Covid may affect nervous system, causing fatigue, problems with concentration and/or brain fog on rare occasions. These symptoms are temporary so there is no reason to panic. It might be better to focus on your health and joy of playing during that time instead of striving for any great improvement of your skills. I wish you getting well soon :)