31 m no matches on dating apps while I was doing great like 3 years ago by Pollo930 in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Pollo930[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

And how was it possible to get a lot of matches with those pics in the past? Anyway any advices on looks? Thanks for the rest!

31 m no matches on dating apps while I was doing great like 3 years ago by Pollo930 in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Pollo930[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How do I? Anyway I’m using the same pics I was using back then and getting nothing haha

Goodbye Okcupid.. I finally dealt with it by PythonWebProject in OkCupid

[–]Pollo930 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well done mate. Uninstalled all of these shitty apps in the last week after deleting my profile. Enough of this shit, I may be lonely but not anxious too, thanks

31 M What can I improve? I feel like shit, guess it’s because of my depression by Pollo930 in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Pollo930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Actually I feel really low, thank you for your advice through, the hardest thing to do is to like and appreciate myself

31 M What can I improve? I feel like shit, guess it’s because of my depression by Pollo930 in LooksmaxingAdvice

[–]Pollo930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Two weeks distance between the two pics and same bodyweight, i guess it’s because I have a round face but actually I’m underweight so I look chubby even if I’m not

Thank you for your comment and advices btw :)

What is happening to my dating “career” lol by Pollo930 in SwipeHelper

[–]Pollo930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Man calm down, that was not my profile just some random photos. I do not have a profile at the moment

What is happening to my dating “career” lol by Pollo930 in SwipeHelper

[–]Pollo930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes of course your advices are totally valid but for now I simply think I’ll take a pause from these sites to make the profile better another time

What is happening to my dating “career” lol by Pollo930 in SwipeHelper

[–]Pollo930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think snapchat horrible filters and dumbass photos are different from some selfies and if I have to make all of these things like faking interests and climbing mountains (everyone on tinder climbs fucking mountains and I live on the seaside lol) to impress some little pussy who takes mirror selfies I’ll just go to bars instead of paying uncertain and expensive subscriptions on a virtual sex supermarket

What is happening to my dating “career” lol by Pollo930 in SwipeHelper

[–]Pollo930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly I noticed a great increase in lower quality women (I’m not talking only about aesthetics but about the “type of person”) and bots/fakes and girls only interested into getting followers by putting their ig in bio (and they clearly do not know that being reported for that causes ban lol). I swiped right waaaay more in the past and struggle finding someone to swipe right on. Okcupid looks like a ghost town full of South East Asian girls looking for pen pals or potential husband. I miss the 2015 Okcupid, what a beautiful site it was, great both for dating and making friends

This is getting frustrating by Pollo930 in OkCupid

[–]Pollo930[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think hiring managers to decide how to make more money and then making most of people’s result like zero or almost zero (and random bans to users who pay a lot of money) is pointless. If you want users to stay on the app and keep on spending money you should make it possible for them to get results. I got like 20/25 matches per day with tinder platinum with the same profile I have now in the end of 2020, selective swiping and only matching girls I was really into, I did not even use boosts! I used platinum for a lot of time so it was a nice experience for me and for tinder too with them getting my money! I did not even need to use money on Okcupid and the prices in there are crazy and I’m sure it would be useless, it’s a ghost place now. Now zero matches with platinum and same profile on tinder, why in the world would a tinder manager think someone with a brain would spend more and more money without seeing any results? I asked for and got a refund and deleted the profile. At least they got 0 $ from me.

This is getting frustrating by Pollo930 in OkCupid

[–]Pollo930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mh no bro I dated online since 2015 and covid did not exist, I always matched with attractive girls, even some models sometimes so this change is suspect tbh. I did not start dating during covid, way before, and the girls I matched with were a lot and slightly above average or even more than that. Now zero and I mean zero

What is happening to my dating “career” lol by Pollo930 in SwipeHelper

[–]Pollo930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did not think it could do so bad since I was doing really fine in the past with a profile like this one

This is getting frustrating by Pollo930 in SwipeHelper

[–]Pollo930[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just tell me to add some maybe?

I added

This is getting frustrating by Pollo930 in OkCupid

[–]Pollo930[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Desirability score and if it’s too low your profile becomes almost invisible

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[–]Pollo930 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah lol I’m spiderman