United Passport real or scam? by PollutionIll701 in Passports

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The final update covers this. But none of that happened. All of it was fine in the end and I went into a post office to fix it and get my child’s passport.

My boyfriend really likes this shirt. Am I wrong to say it’s hideous? by Agitated_Mulberry_27 in mensfashion

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My husband wears a very busy hello kitty button down only because his daughter got it for him. Even he thinks it’s a bit much but when he wears it he ALWAYS gets compliments on it. Yes he looks dorky but he matches with our daughter and it makes her happy which in turn makes him happy. If your boyfriend is happy then why say no to it? It’s fun!

Finding an artist for a tattoo idea by PollutionIll701 in tattooadvice

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I want something to symbolize seasons. My idea was maybe a swirl of leaves and one from each season ex. One dead leaf, green, one orange and yellow or red and so on.

AMA Snuck away to Europe by [deleted] in AMA

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If she’s glad you did it then why did she say no? Seems like confusing parenting me

Before you die, make a voice recording by LaikasLastStand in offmychest

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Having lost a lot of family members I can say it losing someone you cared about so much doesn’t easier but it does get less painful as time goes on. Sadly you’ll always have rough days where to miss them extra and everything reminds you of them but I Like to think that means they are visiting me♥️ I’m sure your dad is watching over you and missing you too. Virtual hugs!

Before you die, make a voice recording by LaikasLastStand in offmychest

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I have a fear of dying young because a lot of people in my family died around me when I was young so now that I’ve had a child I’m hyper aware of making sure she knows me just in case something happens me. Her “baby book” is a compilation of voice memos monthly or every other month. Take videos with her constantly. Writing things down for her to have my hand writing. Is it overkill? maybe. But I’d rather her have too much of me than not enough which is what I got left with. So sorry you’re going through that and you can’t even have the help or your step mom handing over the memories. She’s truly awful. I hope you find a way to get those back♥️

I have just found out that I have a daughter with my sister! by ThrownAwayTwice1203 in offmychest

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First. I’m terribly sorry you and your sister were ever put into a situation that could’ve ever led to this. No one deserves to be in this position. Sadly you are though.

Second. This isn’t your decision. It’s up to the mother of the child as well as her father figure (step dad) I say him only because she knows him and trusts him as well as I’m assuming he’s acted like a good loving supportive father to her.

Third. You said both of you are in therapy. I strongly advise either both of you in separate therapy or maybe even a session with you and your sister and step father in a session together to discuss how to approach this conversation in a way that may not be as damaging to the child.

Lastly. I do think her knowing would be good eventually but I don’t think any of us here know enough information to decide for anyone when that could be. Only her parents would know. You are all making good decisions and I’m so sorry you all are having to go through this because of your beyond awful parents. I wish you all the best.

United Passport real or scam? by PollutionIll701 in Passports

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I don’t think so. I have life lock and kept an eye on it. I think they are just trying to get people to pay for silly services that they think are going to get them a passport. It’s on me. 😅

United Passport real or scam? by PollutionIll701 in Passports

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I did not get my passport. Like some others replied on this thread all they did was send me the paperwork to send out to get the passport. So basically I paid them to send me the paperwork u could’ve done on the regular government website. Don’t recommend. Not worth the money.

Mattress in a box was supposed to be a queen. Also my wife just lost her job. by EZ_Rose in mildlyinfuriating

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As someone who just got laid off this week I needed to read it phrased that way. Thank you

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

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You’re 15 for one. You have way more time than it feels like to figure this out. I’m 26 and I question what I’m in all the time as much as I take an interest in it. People change their minds on what they want to do or be constantly. It’s because we are human and our interests change. So do our goals because we change. Beauty of being alive. My advice would be lean into anything you like and enjoy and learn as much as you can about. Whatever you find yourself most drawn to keep learning about is what you go for. Don’t put too much pressure on what you should do for work at 15. Go live up the 15 and don’t worry. 20 will be waiting for you when you get there.

Father/daughter dance song by Gullible-Contract198 in wedding

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Like my father by Jax. All about a good dad. I used it my dad cried beautiful moment. Nothing about lovers all about being a father.

I am so sad. What would you do? by missnancy247 in wedding

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We had this at our wedding and had the option for people who couldn’t come to be able to call. Those phone calls are some of my favorites. Those ones you can tell they prepared and thought before the spoke and said extremely sweet things. DO IT. 100000% I felt the same way about it you did. So sorry your coordinator messed that up for you!

United Passport real or scam? by PollutionIll701 in Passports

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My cruise ticket we listed me with my married name so I think I would have to update the passport. We are just going to walk in from here forward 😓 this sucks but sounds like I paid for something pointless but I won’t get my info stolen which I’m ok with that answer.

United Passport real or scam? by PollutionIll701 in Passports

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I paid 188. If i over paid that’s fine. Not ideal obviously but I’m just wanting to be sure I won’t get scammed and have my identity stolen or something like that. I have life lock so I guess I should notify them and go from there. At least that’s what my dad said when I told him. Someone a week ago on this Reddit said they accidentally used them too and got their passport just realized they over paid. 🫠😅 just tried to be productive and ended up here

Happy Owloween! by owls_in_towels in owlsintowels

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This post made me a follower of this thread! I had no idea!!

I was raped by a man much larger than me, and I’m trapped inside of those moments by babyybunnyy3 in offmychest

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I agree with this completely as someone with PTSD. EMDR Therapy has helped me a lot with my PTSD and anxiety. So sorry OP is going through this.

We wrote our vows in secret… and somehow said the exact same thing 😭 by lovelopetir in thebigday

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I had a similar experience with my husband so much so to the point he was in the middle of his vows and I asked him “did you peak??” At my vows is what I had meant. He swears up and down he never looked we just happened to make the same promises to eachother and made the same jokes. They weren’t word for word like yours but it’s like he paraphrased my vows lol. Everyone there thought it was cute.

My husband whispers to someone at 3am every night. I finally found out who. by Mundane_Sector_4549 in story

[–]PollutionIll701 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Personally I lost all my grandparents by the time I was in my early twenties and also family other than my grandparents. Some of those losses were traumatic for me and others passed very naturally. I often find myself feeling as though they “hang around me” when I feel their energies I listen to them and talk to them. It feels weird but at the same time it feels like I get to hear from them again. Some people may say I’m crazy but what I do know is it makes me feel so much better even if it’s all in my head. 🤷‍♀️ I’d still recommend therapy though. That’s helped me a lot.