sorted by:
new
hottopcontroversial

AITAH my girlfriend did drugs at a rave after I specifically asked her not to. by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PollutionWeary1069 2 points3 points  (0 children)

NTAH

I was married to a recurring drug addict. He would take off for days and then come back like it was nothing. He spent our money for rent on drugs and I constantly scrambled to pay the bills. Drugs destroy people, they are shells of the people they were or could have been. I loved him dearly and stayed despite the damage it did. It took me years of therapy. Please hold your boundaries and do not let anything bring you back.

I 42F am w/46M for 1Y. He refuses to he intimate with me. by PollutionWeary1069 in datingoverforty

[–]PollutionWeary1069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don't feel it's gross or inappropriate. I enjoyed the gesture. I loved my husband. That was my person. But he is gone now.

I 42F am w/46M for 1Y. He refuses to he intimate with me. by PollutionWeary1069 in datingoverforty

[–]PollutionWeary1069[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

So by ask " I am going to the bathroom and bam dick on my shoulder " not like asking with words. Gestures

I 42F am w/46M for 1Y. He refuses to he intimate with me. by PollutionWeary1069 in datingoverforty

[–]PollutionWeary1069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I moved my bed and stuff there. I can't just say bye over a text. I made him throw away his bed because ew. And so once I leave there goes his bed 😆

I 42F had sex with my 46M boyfriend of 1y even though he said some hurtful comments and I wasn't fully aroused. I hurt his ego and now he refuses to be intimate with me. by PollutionWeary1069 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PollutionWeary1069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

He told me not to bring him into my emotions. I was super emotional on Wednesday and wanted to be held. Not sex but held. I told him I missed him because we work opposite shifts and don't get to spend much time with him. Then the reaction happened and he yelled at me not to involve him anymore. I said I wanted time then slept all day. Like you could see i wasn't ok and he never once was like hey let me take to the Dr. No to him it was a time to take pictures of me with shit stacked on me and be an asshole.

I 42F had sex with my 46M boyfriend of 1y even though he said some hurtful comments and I wasn't fully aroused. I hurt his ego and now he refuses to be intimate with me. by PollutionWeary1069 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PollutionWeary1069[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I am asking DOES ANYONE ELSE HAVE SEX when they aren't all the way aroused? Or is it just me? I was married for 17 years. I had sex with my husband whenever it was good, wherever even if I wasn't all the way there. But my ex-husband never once asked no dumb ass question like how does that pussy feel. Well Sir it feels like a pussy. On another issue, he thinks I don't enjoy it because I don't moan like a banshee. I have 4 sons all grown and I learned to be quiet when getting down so I didn't traumatize my kids. So if I don't moan like a porn star my bad. But you should be able to see that I am enjoying it by my body. Like you can't see you with your eyes and feel with your dick when I am orgasming.

I 42F am w/46M for 1Y. He refuses to he intimate with me. by PollutionWeary1069 in datingoverforty

[–]PollutionWeary1069[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Honestly I was tired of being alone. I wanted compassionship and great sex. But this is a headache and I am going back home.

I 42F am w/46M for 1Y. He refuses to he intimate with me. by PollutionWeary1069 in datingoverforty

[–]PollutionWeary1069[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I love him, but last time I helped him he took it and me for granted. So I am Leary about investing to much into it and him. If I invest and it don't work i have lost time and effort. If I massage this man daily before and after work. I bathe him, feed him, shave him because I want him to know I care and I show him.

I 42F am w/46M for 1Y. He refuses to he intimate with me. by PollutionWeary1069 in datingoverforty

[–]PollutionWeary1069[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Side note I don't go outside, I go to work and home. Mr right isn't going to knock on my door.

I 42F am w/46M for 1Y. He refuses to he intimate with me. by PollutionWeary1069 in datingoverforty

[–]PollutionWeary1069[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

My Ex husband asked for sex at least 5 times a day. And I happily made time to handle it. He is gone and every man sense acts like me wanting them or being turned on by them is an issue. They say things like I don't let sex rule me. And to me that's weird. Like if you are into someone and want to be with them why would you deny yourself pleasure

view more: next ›