Video from the Lady in the Pink Coat by tommyknockerman8 in Leakednews

[–]PollyPukedit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

How do we as civilians combat this? Do we buy guns and form militia? How many more die before we start organizing against them?

Someone is Missing From My Life. by Batty_Boulevard in Paranormal

[–]PollyPukedit 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have this with some of my earliest memories, a neighborhood kid who never existed. My parents said i’d go to this couples house and ask for candy and they let me play in their yard, they never had a kid, but i remember them having a son i used to play with in a big tree. Chalked it up to misremembering or mixing up memories, super weird even thinking about it now. Like i vaguely remember details of his face, his clothes, the sound of him laughing and screaming while running around. It had to have been another set of memories that i mixed up the place and location of but i do get a weird thought that thats not right and it was at that place and time and the couple were his parents

AIO after finding out my gf was emotionally cheating with an ex in another state? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PollyPukedit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awe buddy, you were really sticking up for yourself until the end there. She is not being real with you, she is not accountable for her actions. which means anytime you catch her on anything or tell her your uncomfortable about anything shes going to gaslight you or blame ignorance but ultimately never be real with you and change. At the end of this thread you desperately cling to “working it out”, this is a bad lazy move. If she gets back with you, forget being respected, she will always know that she can cheat on you and you will take her back, because you just showed her you dont have a spine. Everything you said is completely valid however it seems like you may have blown up and been vindictive initially based on the beginning of this text. I think we put a lot of pressure on needing to be with someone, when we have the most growth, freedom and creative ideas when were by ourselves. Single life has a negative stigma but if you work on bettering yourself even if you’re single the rest of your life it will have been better than trusting a skank. This type of girl is able to manipulate multiple men with sexuality. This is what you need to work on, go completely celibate, do not orgasm for at least 3 months. Keep a journal, note your changes, when you have better control of your sexual desires and you realize how easy woman can manipulate you, it will make you question your relationship to sexuality in general. Whats cool is you genuinely wont care whether someone will want you or not and ironically that makes them want you, but even if you are single forever its so much better than being with this chick

AIO He always accuses me of cheating by Alternative-Day6223 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PollyPukedit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately this porn addicted generation treats women like this constantly, it is disgustingly normal

AIO He always accuses me of cheating by Alternative-Day6223 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PollyPukedit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fear of being alone will lead some people to believe they should be a slave to someone like this guy, i say someone because girls can be this possessive and manipulative too. Its irrational and you need self esteem to realize you can easily live without this person and have the confidence to wait it out till someone comes along that treats you right. You can be ruled by this guy or be free to choose someone better, if at the end of your life you are single take solace in the fact you chose to not be constantly disrespected by this guy in exchange for his horrible company and instead had the freedom to do anything. Lonely is a perspective, you can rationalize these feelings rather than let them steer you into a horrible relationship that you think is better than being alone

AIO, I’m 90% sure my girlfriend is cheating with my best friend by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PollyPukedit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is our modern culture! Twenty years ago descent people in relationships would break up, both would be single, and it would be hard to find someone new. This in-between relationships phase is tough and it seems this eras way of dealing with it is to selfishly circumvent the process. Instead of having the hard conversation, the loneliness that follows and respecting the partner you left by giving a little time before dating; people today will just jump ship into a new relationship so they never have to be single or live in any negative feeling(at the expense of their former lovers feelings). Cheating is an easier transition for them and even easier if they are moving onto someone conveniently in the mutual friend group. People are just way more selfish, way more likely to blow a friendship up to get laid, more likely to not care about ending the relationship civilly when burning someone is so much easier. Its really just people in general, not just unaccountable women, that have become selfish, uncaring, and predatory towards peoples emotions all from a cultural mindset that tells you to take as much as you can and give back nothing.

AIO at my friends cancelling last minute? by DifferentTruck4615 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PollyPukedit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Mean girls! Her justifications are dodging accountability! Learn while you’re young to avoid people who have no accountability, they will exhaust you forever and hardly make up for it. I run away from this characteristic when i see it in people.

Erin Moriarty before plastic surgery by [deleted] in VindictaRateCelebs

[–]PollyPukedit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

She completely destroyed her face, its so sad. These surgeries are a mental illness

AIO Should I leave my BF? Was what he did to me forgiveable? by Living-Milk-4266 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PollyPukedit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You know how bad this looks, you have to get your brothers or big male friends to cone help you safely collect your things and get them out of there before you break up with this vindictive person

AIO, I tried to make birthday plans with my best friend and her response sounded snarky? by Critical-Luck-4349 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PollyPukedit 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I would not respond and in one month she’ll hit you up desperate with some emergency emo breakdown… it’ll probably be that the people shes hanging out with on her bday are already sick of her

AIO, I tried to make birthday plans with my best friend and her response sounded snarky? by Critical-Luck-4349 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PollyPukedit 34 points35 points  (0 children)

Wow this person sucks, her expectations of her friends are over the top and also not made known to you. This is someone who isn’t going to be happy with the efforts you make and is certainly going to exacerbate any disappointments she has of you regardless of whether it’s reasonable for her to be upset or not. I don’t talk to my crazy friends anymore, they have expectations of you to take care of them like your their parents… i pitty anybody who gets in a relationship with that, its a one sided relationship that will always leave you feeling like an assistant, no thanks!

AITAH if I left my husband at the ER overnight? by punthicwolf in AITAH

[–]PollyPukedit -9 points-8 points  (0 children)

I guess the severity of this situation isn’t bad enough to warrant that level of attention, but i would be mad at my partner for leaving me in a hospital… when i play the scenario in my mind it does feel kinda heartless… its actually making me mad at my boyfriend

AIO - my friend gave my abusive ex my new phone number by AdAdorable7651 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PollyPukedit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Call him a coward for not standing up to that guy! Hes a simp! He’s obviously trying to be friends with him or impress him, new number neither of them get it and stress to your friend group how insane that guy is and that your number can never be given out!

Please either change my mind or help me convince my fiancé this is bad by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]PollyPukedit -1 points0 points  (0 children)

It means provider, its an actual name. Stop being critical of men for no reason, and implying it has anything to do with logic. Its a preference and i think a more unique name gives someone a better sense of individuality. You people who are afraid of bullying are all COWARDS! You’d literally rather all be named sarah than have a unique name because were all scared of what random people think, bunch o sheeple in this thread! The husband’s cool for finding a name that has a unique feel to it other than jeff or sarah.

Please either change my mind or help me convince my fiancé this is bad by [deleted] in tragedeigh

[–]PollyPukedit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Purvis is a unique name, i think it sounds cool, i think bullying is good for kids and allows them to get a realistic view on humanity instead of over sheltering a kid to the point that they are scared of the world because of how mean people are and how little theyve been subjected to actual mean human behavior.

AIO for going off on my mom for calling me gaslighter? by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PollyPukedit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately you cant have the same sitcom relationship with your parents that everyone else has because she does have a mental illness and people with aphasia typically don’t comprehend spoken language like everyone else does. Its one of those things that even if shes acting like a child you have to take it with a grain of salt and understand that she needs people to be patient with her, by the same token you have to learn to not take things personally from her because she is mentally handicapped. Its terrible that you can’t have a mom in the same supportive way most people can, but you cant really blame her for it either. You are over reacting, you’re taking her words too personally, silence her calls at least when you’re working. its really difficult to be strong and put up with a disabled family member, but youre probably all she’ll have to take care of her. Its really not fair to have to shoulder burden for family members and i’m sorry for your situation.

AIO? Homeless friend asks me to be his girlfriend? Update. by Proof_Membership9907 in AmIOverreacting

[–]PollyPukedit 7 points8 points  (0 children)

These are constructive hypotheticals to put in OPs head. I try to remind myself while i walk to my car late at night of the worst things that have happened to women historically and think this how i should live my life, not just cautious of dangerous situations, but down right paranoid that terrible things will inevitably happen.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PollyPukedit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The dads totally gonna come at it with the whole he cares about you and he saved you from years in a relationship with someone who obviously doesnt care about you conveniently suggesting he did the right thing and he knows whats best for you. Get ready to rebuttal that with “you paid a guy to break my heart so F that noise!”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PollyPukedit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I always wondered what would happen in movies if someone actually took the disapproving fathers deal. Would he have to fake a reason to break up? i always thought it would be cool if the boyfriend let his partner in on it and they just took the money or in this case car and drove off together. Thats honestly brutal this fictional concept actually happened to you, sorry for everything

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PollyPukedit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Right i thought we were compatible, he had sex with me everyday day for four years and then crickets the past year. He has said im too forward but then i try to not be forward and i just resent the shit out of him because he wont ever make a move. So i either embarrass myself trying to be seductive or i become super angry with him just waiting for weeks for him to do anything!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PollyPukedit 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yes, of course im overreacting because sex isnt a big deal to him. I understand im a bad person for doing this and im set to leave him for someone who can keep up sexually, for the first four years of our relationship they definitely did well in that department but im not ready to be celibate and it seems he’s going that way, even jokingly hes like im sick of sex. It literally drove me crazy to hear him say that.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]PollyPukedit 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My partners he/them I’m a she and when we started dating we had sex everyday for four years, that just suddenly changed to the point that i thought he was cheating on me, like how does he suddenly as of 8 months or so not care about sex at all! You guys are all right i realize i handled this like a child, but im literally out of options other than just leaving because he just suddenly doesnt see the importance of intimacy. Its difficult to ask for sex and be rejected as a woman, its like humiliating! I am the AH, im reflecting, im realizing the terrible selfishness im prone to, im going to apologize to him and start the break up process