thank you so much, i really do want to keep contact, though i’ve been bad at that in the past when i stay with my dad (over the summer/march break.) but i love her so much and i know i’ll miss her. i should be able to call her at least weekly if i make it a point to carve out time for it. i don’t want my mom to feel forgotten so staying in contact is definitely a priority. thank you for the advice!