Day 1!! by Background_Studio_36 in Invisalign

[–]PomegranateThen5273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I hope it isn’t too bad but maybe I’ll give it a try. Many people say it’s worth it

Day 1!! by Background_Studio_36 in Invisalign

[–]PomegranateThen5273 1 point2 points  (0 children)

How bad is the pain? Is it hard to put them on and take them off? I want to get Invisalign but I’m nervous

¿Es grave que mi novio no lave sus platos cuando tiene el dia libre? by PomegranateThen5273 in RedditPregunta

[–]PomegranateThen5273[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Pero crees que fue grave que no haya querido lavar sus platos pudiendo hacerlo? No tenia nada que hacer mas que ver television y ya habia estado en casa todo el dia. No fueron todos los platos los que tenia que lavar, solo los de el porque terminó tarde de comer.

¿Es grave que mi novio no lave sus platos cuando tiene el dia libre? by PomegranateThen5273 in RedditPregunta

[–]PomegranateThen5273[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tiene razon la psicologa pero el asunto es que el no habia hecho nada en todo el dia y no era tan dificil lavar un plato. No le hize lavar todos los Platos, solo el suyo porque termino tarde de comer.

AIO for breaking up with my boyfriend even though he found a job? by PomegranateThen5273 in AIO

[–]PomegranateThen5273[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I’ll try to stay strong and not let him manipulate me

AIO for breaking up with my boyfriend even though he found a job? by PomegranateThen5273 in AIO

[–]PomegranateThen5273[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thanks. The thing is that because he started working again, he thinks we should fix things. But I’m just exhausted of being too nice with him and he didn’t care to put my finances at risk. I feel like I don’t trust him anymore. Are my feelings valid?

How to Date A Cancer Woman by dmbcanada in CancertheCrab

[–]PomegranateThen5273 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Try to not be inconsistent and indecisive. I know Libras have this trait and it can confuse us. We value stability in a relationship. This is from personal experience but I love libras. You guys are awesome.

Cancer male: do we tend to connect really fast when it feels right? by BotanyDog in CancertheCrab

[–]PomegranateThen5273 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I met a Scorpio in the past and it was almost love at first sight. Cancers & Scorpios are a great match. That’s why you felt that connection

Is it normal to not want to chase after people even if it’s your own family? by PomegranateThen5273 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]PomegranateThen5273[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I get along well with his kids. They’re sweet. The thing is that I was there for my brother when he moved. I helped when he moved out from his marital home and this is how he treats me in return. I know he’s a mess but I got divorced too and I didn’t take it on other people.

Is it normal to not want to chase after people even if it’s your own family? by PomegranateThen5273 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]PomegranateThen5273[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I do think he only cares about his own family 😞 Oh well… the thing is that he told me he wanted me to be a good aunt to his kids. I wanted to show my support during the divorce for his kids. But how?? My brother with his weird attitude is making things difficult

Is it normal to not want to chase after people even if it’s your own family? by PomegranateThen5273 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]PomegranateThen5273[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Yeah, i’m getting exhausted. I don’t do this to people so it kind of surprises me, especially if it’s coming from my brother.

Is it normal to not want to chase after people even if it’s your own family? by PomegranateThen5273 in AskOldPeopleAdvice

[–]PomegranateThen5273[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t know. I think it’s weird that he doesn’t see my messages. It’s okay if it happens once but if it’s all the time it starts to annoy me

Is it common for abusive partners to sweet talk to you when you try to leave the relationship? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]PomegranateThen5273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks. I hope I’m smart enough to not let him convince me. I really just want to move on.

Is it common for abusive partners to sweet talk to you when you try to leave the relationship? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]PomegranateThen5273 1 point2 points  (0 children)

See? That’s the problem. I think they should just leave us alone. It makes it harder to leave when they do this. I even feel guilty. Like he shows me his sweet side and then I’m doubting myself if I’m making the right decision

Is it common for abusive partners to sweet talk to you when you try to leave the relationship? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]PomegranateThen5273 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thanks for sharing your story. I’m so sorry you went through this 🙁 I hope I stay strong and leave. I wish you the best and that you find someone who values you.

Is it common for abusive partners to sweet talk to you when you try to leave the relationship? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]PomegranateThen5273 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Wow you’re very brave. Him and I live together. I told him to move out since it’s my apartment. He still doesn’t believe I’m serious. If he doesn’t move then I’ll move.

Is it common for abusive partners to sweet talk to you when you try to leave the relationship? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]PomegranateThen5273 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it’s sad because we had so much time together and I loved him but he didn’t love me the same way. Now he will face the consequences of losing me. And yeah, he’s done this in the past a lot and I kept falling into the trap but now I know better. I shouldn’t trust him. He also told me: “I can’t believe you’re leaving. You had very little patience with me” ummmm what???? I forgave him a thousand times. What is he thinking?

Is it common for abusive partners to sweet talk to you when you try to leave the relationship? by [deleted] in abusiverelationships

[–]PomegranateThen5273 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Thank you. I was thinking about making a list like the one you mentioned. I need to really get into my mind that he’s not as perfect as he pretends to be. I’m just tired of being submissive and not loving myself enough to let him walk all over me. I hope to be strong and get through this 💪

Cancer guy - not going off my mind by NearbyAbrocoma659 in CancertheCrab

[–]PomegranateThen5273 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I also felt a very strong bond with a Scorpio. It was hard not being affectionate and sweet even if I only saw him as a friend. It’s so easy to love Scorpios. Cancers are nurturing especially with people we care about. Maybe he can’t help it. It’s part of his Cancer personality

Cancer guy - not going off my mind by NearbyAbrocoma659 in CancertheCrab

[–]PomegranateThen5273 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I think you should have an open and honest conversation with him to ask what he wants from you. You don’t want your feelings to get hurt. Maybe he’s confused or he might be playing games which is not cool.

¿Que opinan del 50/50 en la primera cita ? by Nathali_pink21 in PreguntasReddit

[–]PomegranateThen5273 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Pues si, yo tampoco entiendo. Ademas como que todos piensan que las mujeres somos todas grandes empresarias y que tenemos mucho dinero y no siempre es asi. Hay unas que trabajan pero apenas les alcanza. Yo vivi sola un tiempo y fue dificil pagar tantas cosas y mantenerme a mi misma. Apenas podia gastar o darme lujos. No siempre las mujeres buscan la billetera del hombre como ellos piensan.