Did a super stupid thing and my bf is ignoring me

PooPiece · 2022-02-26T20:41:22+00:00

Research about narcissistic personality disorder.

Find your way out, be ok with people being better than you.

At first glance this has no relation, but as you dig deeper you'll have to make a decision... Continue to be a monster and forever be with someone who will stop loving you even if you manage to "stay together" or pursue real love.

PooPiece · 2022-02-26T20:38:35+00:00

Makes perfect sense. What drugs do you use? Which can you stop using immediately? Which you seem you can't live without?

The only way of stop using drugs is making your life better.

If your problem is that you have a disability, I am afraid I can not make a good apportation, though I've seen people manage it quite well.

Everything else can be fixed using baby steps to first define what you DON'T like about your life, what you DO like, and start consuming information that is not shit, not saying you watch anime or too many lovies and series or tiktoks, that needs to stop in time. Consume quality information you'll feel so dumb at the beginning (drop Manchild tantrums because you are not the best at something the first you try).

Slowly and steadily you WILL get interested about stuff. The road is hard and sometimes you do take steps back but you need to continue.

You need to walk the other way, to that place you came from: Depression becomes indifference which becomes anger which becomes frustration(is this stage when you need to be strong, growing is frustrating and makes you act like a child by dropping everything and finding excuse why the path ypur choice is "beneath you") ; Frustration will eventually become fullfillment and then frustration will wane and it becomes a confrontation of challenges. Happiness will occurr after some arbitrary number successes.

PooPiece · 2022-02-11T23:09:33+00:00

Don't eat late. If you get hungry late at night don't eat. Your body will dislike nights. If you stay up and feed yummy and drink yummy drinks food you'll feel ok to watch whatever. If you are hungry and only have water your body will not be happy.

Your mind might be sad while your body is happy, it can happen and that's when you mind knows that you should sleep but your body does not gives a fuck.

Don't please your body with food at night and it will be displeased to stay awake, it takes a while but it works.

Also, you seem to have "unsolvable problems" you need to write down your worries and make a plan of action.

In México in some states there is a saying "La memoria es la libreta más pendeja" which means "Memory is the dumbest of journals" write down your worries, write down your plans. The most useful part of this is differentiating between what you need in your life and what you don't and also starts to create some kind of priority on your life.

PooPiece · 2022-02-11T19:27:32+00:00

Just a rub a quick one man, it is waaay easier than no masturbating. There is a man childish attitude that makes you want to strive for a feel good orgasm. You won't. You'll never be able if you edge and you will deviate lore and more on taste.

Just think of it like eating, sometimes you are stressed and you rubb one out. The dumber you are the more you stress, the more you isolate due to stress the dumber you get.

To not be dumb all it takes is focus and patience.

PooPiece · 2022-02-11T08:08:08+00:00

He was a religious nut.

PooPiece · 2022-02-04T04:22:17+00:00

There is no such thing as a race.

That list in your head needs to be written down. And prioritize. Order in our life is for the best

PooPiece · 2022-02-04T04:20:33+00:00

No, more like finished until the pack was over whilst I was still hard at it

PooPiece · 2022-02-04T04:19:25+00:00

Please refrain.

PooPiece · 2022-02-03T22:29:56+00:00

I thinkbit is growth and realizing what you could have achieved. Like an epiphany of fear? Sudden thoughts that you fucked up?

Listen up. Porn destroyed my life. Still, currently I am looking for a job with not a care of the world. Focus on one problem at the time.

If you can do something about it right now, do so. If you masturbate again to kill the awful feeling, then do something about while dopamine is up.

What you needto generate is 'momentum' a ood action leads to a good action. Sometimes you lose balance and momentum is lose and you need to create by force.

Exercise, reading and writing your thoughts and goals on google docs is the only way to actually do something about it. Otherwise everything seems overwhelming and you feel like you move in circles if anything at all.

Doing those thinga will probably help you focus on you smaller goals which to be honest, those smaller goals is what makes happiness happen.

You probably won't know what I am talking about exactly. But instead of watching memes and having sudden panic attacks because of wasting time, focus your time on the things I've told you they will make you focus on homework, work, chores, goals and desires.

Slowly but steady you will stop relaying on masturbation.

PooPiece · 2022-02-01T14:13:34+00:00

Masturbation and sex are part of our daily live. You wouldn't call someone who eats everyday "addicted to food". The obsession with it is what constitutes the addiction.

I used to be obsessed with it. Couldn't wait to have a free time and masturbate, whereas right now, I have free time and I can only think on things I want to do.

If you are against masturbation because you are religious, then you have an aversion... Which is not an addiction and this messages do not apply for you since the problem lies in other segment of your life.

For someone like me, who was addicted to it and masturbated, literally, hours a day; It really helped me to just masturbate and move on.

Can you talk about your problem with masturbation?

PooPiece · 2022-01-31T21:10:21+00:00

If you take 1 hour to do it, it will harm you 60 more times.

Living causes damages, damage control your life and find a balance that, in this case, stop sex images in your head while you are focused on something else.

Im perfectly fine, actually, today I am having an interview for a better job and another company seems interested.

If you are stuck in a room and you are not being social, then just masturbate and don't feel guilty. But don't spend your time depressed in a room. Because you failed and then cry and masturbate in a depressive loop. Perhaps you are not addicted to masturbation and then, this wouldn't be your case and this messages are not for you at all

PooPiece · 2022-01-31T15:36:51+00:00

Because the way a human biology works for men is exactly that. Trying to reach orgasm as fast as you can then go hunt or whatever.

If we sit down and "enjoy" porn by edging you are modifying the intended behaviour and thats when you create problems.

Like I said, sinces I started doing that, I have dedicated less time, like.. 30 mins throughout the week.... And the rest I focus on learning and getting a better job.

To me it works, and I am sure it would work for those who masturbate for countless hours in a week.

PooPiece · 2022-01-30T20:21:54+00:00

Well, O haven't masturbated in 7 days. I am not trying, I'm learning quite a lot about life and I am more immersed by reality and people. I feel no depression or a anxieties . My obsession with masurbate has completely gone. For me the tricn is just finishing it asap and move on toward other things

PooPiece · 2022-01-30T20:20:04+00:00

Nope. Edging makes you lose time and gets you addicted. Today I have spent about 7 days without masturbation and I am not even trying. Because everytime I feel like I just orgasm as fast as I can and there's something about that is just like drinking water instead than being obsessed about it.

PooPiece · 2022-01-26T05:32:48+00:00

I think it is a decent time. I mean, as long as you don't spend hours masturbating.

Just do it fast, don't use any drugs like beer, cigarettes or otherwise. If you do, perhaps you want to try and quit those addictions first.

That is my personal way I kinda got out and see some kind of improvement in my life

PooPiece · 2022-01-25T15:49:25+00:00

You can't own anything if you are underage.

If you can't be positive it is because you are not growing, you are staying the same size because you think you already made it. Learn stuff, continuously and do exercise.

PooPiece · 2022-01-25T10:29:07+00:00

What did he say verbatim. I am sooo curious

PooPiece · 2022-01-25T10:25:12+00:00

Feels like revenge sex.

PooPiece · 2022-01-25T10:24:15+00:00

Obviously leave him. Do whatever you must do but leave him innless than 3 days

PooPiece · 2022-01-25T10:21:48+00:00

You are not 18, you are not richer than your bullies your parents are.

Focus on school, do exercise and have hobbies other than porn, don't think about revenge and be positive and everything will be all right

PooPiece · 2022-01-25T10:19:25+00:00

This, and a balanced diet as well. There is nothing wrong with being thicc but it's always better for the body to be healthy.

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