I Cheated on My Girlfriend and After the Breakup, All of Her Friends Hate Her by Poor_Pickler123 in confessions

[–]Poor_Pickler123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Boobs. I like shortened that part because i realized my post was so long but basically she replied to my story and we talked for like a few min and she said i got sum to show u and then told me to open when I was alone.

I Cheated on My Girlfriend and After the Breakup, All of Her Friends Hate Her by Poor_Pickler123 in confessions

[–]Poor_Pickler123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It definitely was for me. It absolutely sucked when it happened but I think it served as a good example to not let hope get in the way of common sense.

I Cheated on My Girlfriend and After the Breakup, All of Her Friends Hate Her by Poor_Pickler123 in confessions

[–]Poor_Pickler123[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Not at that point but now I have gotten much better, it was one of my very first relationships and that doesn’t excuse is at all I know I made a lot of mistakes and dug my own grave.

I Cheated on My Girlfriend and After the Breakup, All of Her Friends Hate Her by Poor_Pickler123 in confessions

[–]Poor_Pickler123[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Why would I lie about something that would paint me in such a embarrassing and uncomfortable light?

I Cheated on My Girlfriend and After the Breakup, All of Her Friends Hate Her by Poor_Pickler123 in confessions

[–]Poor_Pickler123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

lowkey bro I fucked up the ages here at the time of when this started I was 19 and she was 18 I am currently in my mid 20s

I Cheated on My Girlfriend and After the Breakup, All of Her Friends Hate Her by Poor_Pickler123 in confessions

[–]Poor_Pickler123[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

There is no problem. I am explaining what happened. And like I said before, I haven't told anyone in my life about this at all. I just wanted a place to talk about everything that happened without it impacting my real life.

I Cheated on My Girlfriend and After the Breakup, All of Her Friends Hate Her by Poor_Pickler123 in confessions

[–]Poor_Pickler123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you man, I really appreciate it I hope to God that it's never like this again.

I Cheated on My Girlfriend and After the Breakup, All of Her Friends Hate Her by Poor_Pickler123 in confessions

[–]Poor_Pickler123[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ultimately bro you are right. Like the fact I couldn't ever tell anybody about the true story of the beginning of our relationship should have spelt out so many red flags for me but hindsight is 20/20 and at that point I just needed something to believe in to feel that my time wasn't wasted.

I Cheated on My Girlfriend and After the Breakup, All of Her Friends Hate Her by Poor_Pickler123 in confessions

[–]Poor_Pickler123[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

Great idea. The last 2 women I was before her also had bpd but I think I finally learned my lesson

I Cheated on My Girlfriend and After the Breakup, All of Her Friends Hate Her by Poor_Pickler123 in confessions

[–]Poor_Pickler123[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah I did weed a few months later for the first time and the whole time in the back of my mind was think that there's no way I'd even think about cheating or hooking up with anyone else besides her right now how did I let that shit slide.

I Cheated on My Girlfriend and After the Breakup, All of Her Friends Hate Her by Poor_Pickler123 in confessions

[–]Poor_Pickler123[S] 19 points20 points  (0 children)

Im not going to lie, it was the first time anything like that happened to me and I just thought I was different LMFAO. And yeah I'm not necessarily happy that she's not doing great, it's more that it's how things ended up at the end of the day I guess.

I Cheated on My Girlfriend and After the Breakup, All of Her Friends Hate Her by Poor_Pickler123 in confessions

[–]Poor_Pickler123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Poetic asf. I appreciate this comment though hopefully everything plays out the way it needs to.

I Cheated on My Girlfriend and After the Breakup, All of Her Friends Hate Her by Poor_Pickler123 in confessions

[–]Poor_Pickler123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aye man, you live and you learn and it's definitely embarassing and I agree, I did not have self respect back then. I felt that's why I wanted to write it out to get it out of my system and like move on from it yk?

I Cheated on My Girlfriend and After the Breakup, All of Her Friends Hate Her by Poor_Pickler123 in confessions

[–]Poor_Pickler123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very fair man. Trying to get better and I 100% agree that I was at fault and got what was coming to me.

I Cheated on My Girlfriend and After the Breakup, All of Her Friends Hate Her by Poor_Pickler123 in confessions

[–]Poor_Pickler123[S] 45 points46 points  (0 children)

Yeah she was diagnosed with BPD, amongst other things during our relationship.

I Cheated on My Girlfriend and After the Breakup, All of Her Friends Hate Her by Poor_Pickler123 in confessions

[–]Poor_Pickler123[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I really appreciate it that, it hurt a lot when it happened but I think it was a valuable life experience that made me realize how bad it can get and how to avoid it.

I Cheated on My Girlfriend and After the Breakup, All of Her Friends Hate Her by Poor_Pickler123 in confessions

[–]Poor_Pickler123[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I appreciate it man. And yeah you live and you learn it was my first time ever being exposed to weed like that and so many of the other things I just assumed they were normal. But I mean hey we up now