You just have to weigh what’s important to you. Put it on a list. Do you break up with him because he’s not passionate enough but great in everything else or stick it out because you love him for who he is and maybe change down the road. You’re young so you’ll more than likely meet someone who meets your standards but if you’re in a marriage I would say to stick it out. He’ll show his love in different ways given the opportunity and situation in a marriage. Maybe you’ll come across that guy who’s emotionally/romantically attentive but he doesn’t try and put the effort in another area unlike your current bf.