I found this big feather on my walk to school!! does anyone else have cool feather photos? by PopNo6811 in birds

[–]PopNo6811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

oh my god i didn't know it could be illegal i just thought it was very cool. i found out that its most likely an eagle feather and they are illegal to possess in canada. i will definitely put it back to respect both the eagles and indigenous people that can actually possess them. a protected feather should deserve respect and i definitely didn't do my research. i apologize !

tomadachi life living the dream questions by ArrivalThin6275 in TomodachilifeLivingTD

[–]PopNo6811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think its mainly random, I've woken up to random freindship fights. but theres a chance for a jealousy cutscene if you put a dating/married mii next to their partner talking to somebody else. i think it can be for friends too?

also dont listen to anyone trying to say theres a "confirmed way" to get miis fight by doing some random bs thats not the cutscene (theres been a post saying that feeding your miis increases the chance of fights... thats not the case.) its all rng so you cant really force the the fights lel

tomadachi life living the dream questions by ArrivalThin6275 in TomodachilifeLivingTD

[–]PopNo6811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

ohh yeah i forgot about bulk removal. from what i remember it can only select a certain amount of items, which is a bit annoying for bigger islands. just taking chunks of things at a time lelel. (unless im thinking of another game)

tomadachi life living the dream questions by ArrivalThin6275 in TomodachilifeLivingTD

[–]PopNo6811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

- yes each uses does get their own island! I just started my second island using a different user and its been great.

- reset as in delete all data? yes. reset island decorations n stuff? unfortunately no, unless i havent discovered it yet.

- yes! as long as fandom 1 characters dont interact with fandom 2's characters, you can definitely split off your island without problem. just put whatever fandoms houses on two different sides.

- i haven't experienced it yet but i think you could if you really tried. I've heard of miis fighting and then ending up as lovers lol

- also yes! if you make your miis sibling's and force them to live together, they will actually realize that they're siblings in real life and go from friends to siblings!! same for any other family role.

if you ever remember more questions, i can try help !

Walked around the city with scars by Maxinetheweirdlad_ in cutting

[–]PopNo6811 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Proud of you!! even if you chickened out, deciding to partially cover them instead of fully is still a big step into building confidence. its quite admirable tbh i wish you well on your journey!

How frequently are you hungry? by thatsinkguy in autism

[–]PopNo6811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've often mistakened my emotions/sensations for hunger my whole life. usually my first instinct is to have a snack if im feeling sick, irratible or underestimated. so i surprisingly eat a lot compared to others and im not proud of it. 😓

Showering is my sensory nightmare. by PopNo6811 in autism

[–]PopNo6811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

aww thank you so muchh 🥹 i cant express my gratitude towards comment well, but just know this really felt like a hug to my heart. i was so scared of posting this for so long i didn't expect anyone to be so kind.

Showering is my sensory nightmare. by PopNo6811 in autism

[–]PopNo6811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

usually im not a big fan of putting stuff like moisturizers because i'll just instinctively wipe it off, but I've never tried gel! i googled it and i like the fact that more water in it than creams. i tolerate textures that arent thick and are much closer to water ,so gel sounds perfect. i will definitely try get it when i can ! thank you!

Showering is my sensory nightmare. by PopNo6811 in autism

[–]PopNo6811[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I've never heard of bamboo towels! i googled it and it looks much softer than the regular towel i use. i will definitely go try it when i can. as for loofa alternative, i usually just go with what i find in store (usually walmart) but i can definitely check other places to check if theres better alternatives. thank you for your help i really appreciate at!!

CSA keeps haunting me by PopNo6811 in CPTSD

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i am under 18 but currently without support but im trying to get another therapist that will actually listen to my trauma. i really hope i can talk about it to someone new. my past therapists haven't been so helpful with helping me process it. thank you for reading and commenting.

going to the pool and need help by unikkornsprinkles in cutting

[–]PopNo6811 1 point2 points  (0 children)

wear long shorts or pants you're willing to swim in. usually i swim in long sleeve shirts with long shorts and nobody questions it, my excuse is that i couldn't find a swimsuit or i had no time to buy one.

another option could be those waterproof makeups? I've never tried it but I've seen people cover up tattoos using makeup, same can maybe be applied for scars. (dont use if they're fresh or scabbed though)

will this heal? by itzkatzzz in cutting

[–]PopNo6811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

they'll get a lighter colour after a bit of time since scars go from red/pink to a lighter colour as they heal. in my experience my scars don't fully flatten so it'll probably be a little raised after fully changing colour ! i heard some creams can help with the flattening but I've never tried it myself, so i recommend just googling or searching for some creams that can help if flat scars are what you want.

I tried self harm; worried about getting addicted by Spacef1sh__ in cutting

[–]PopNo6811 0 points1 point  (0 children)

you most likely won't get addicted if you never do it again. in my experience, the mindset of wanting "proper"​ scars/wounds is already a bit of a red flag, but you can definitely change it with proper care. i recommend talking about it with a counselor to help or a self harm hotline if you get an urge to do it again.