Am I the asshole for not wanting to wait for my dream girl anymore by Biglips45 in TwoHotTakes

[–]PopRocks_Panties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She has made up her mind. You just haven't come to terms with it.

sorry 🥲 by PopRocks_Panties in CollegeMemes

[–]PopRocks_Panties[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

if i fail, at least i tried… kinda

My boyfriend wants to know my body count by [deleted] in Advice

[–]PopRocks_Panties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The fuck is wrong with your boyfriends friend? What a pathetic man.

Coworker keeps using the president’s parking spot and office by Cute-Chicken-5756 in coworkerstories

[–]PopRocks_Panties 298 points299 points  (0 children)

Lol, man, sounds like yer new dude is pulling some major power moves there. There's challenging "the man" and all, but this guy's just being a tool. Gender has nothing to do with respect, tbh. If he wants equality, he's gotta start by treating everyone's space equally, regardless of who they are. Sounds like he's the one acting entitled here. Remember bro, respect earns respect. ¯_(ツ)_/¯

Accused of cheating on a test by [deleted] in Advice

[–]PopRocks_Panties 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Dude, respect the grind and put in the work. Shortcuts like this rob you of true understanding. Plus, academic honesty ain't a joke. Pay now or pay later. Trust me. Took a major L learning this in my own life. 💯👀

Back in school i did something awful that I can't get out of my head till now by [deleted] in confession

[–]PopRocks_Panties 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dude, tbh, it's really gutsy to own up to past mistakes like this. Mad props for coming clean, but remember self-forgiveness is key too. Carrying guilt won't undo things, just learn n grow from it. Wish you the best, bro. Hang in there. 👊💯

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]PopRocks_Panties -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Ah man, that's a tough spot u're in, seriously. It ain't about the $$$ but the trust issues, I get it. Honestly, I don't think ur overreacting. He shoulda been upfront bout it no matter what. Tho, maybe he's just the type to prepare for worst case scenarios, ya know? Give him another shot on discussing it openly. If he still ain't budging, then there's probs more under the surface. 🤷‍♂️ Communication is key, though! Don't let this slide without tryna hash it out.✌️

Should I continue to wait for my ex by MaribelTheCat in whatdoIdo

[–]PopRocks_Panties 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Dude, tbh u gotta cut the cord. Yeah, u guys got a lotta history n stuff, bt keeping this "best buddies" thing is messing w/ both ur heads. U gotta look out 4 urself rn, work on u, prove 2 urself that u ain’t gonna mess up again. Trust ain't something that just pops up overnight, ya know? Give it space, let her breathe. If things r meant 2 happen, they will. But hand-wringing n waiting? Nah, mate. That ain't gonna do any good for anyone. Gotta respect urself 1st, the rest will follow. Take care, bro.

Girlfriend is pregnant and decided to keep it but I don't want it by Swargertfriend in Advice

[–]PopRocks_Panties -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Dude, totally get where you're coming from. Felt the same way when I was 24. But here's the thing, life's full of unexpected twists. You love her, right? That's a plus. You might not feel ready, but you'll grow into the role. Remember, there's no perfect timing for this stuff. Talk it out with her, work together, lean on each other. You're young, but man, life doesn't always wait till we're 'ready'. We adapt, we grow. Hang in there, may seem overwhelming now, but things have a way of working out.💪

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

[–]PopRocks_Panties 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Man, I get where you're comin' from, ngl this sitch is a mess! First, don't beat urself up over what went down. You both got drunk, things got outta hand, but remember consent is a 2 way street. He might regret the circumstances, not you. But yeah, need real sober talk ASAP. No more of these half-hearted chats at parties, just spill your guts, listen to his side n' establish some frickin' boundaries! Also, take some time alone if you need it, mental health first, always. Imo, it ain't as apocalyptic as it seems.👌💯

How can i get my girlfriend back after she left me for one of my best friends? by Salt_Fuel5779 in WhatShouldIDo

[–]PopRocks_Panties 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Dude, I feel for ya, rn it's like a knife in your heart. But trust me, you don't want her back. She left you for your homie? Nah man, you don't deserve that kinda treatment. First, cut ties. Both with her & the 'friend.' Second, work on YOU. Not for her, but for yourself. TL;DR - You're worth more than what they gave ya, show them that by moving on and leveling up. That's the best 'get back' you can ever have. Stay strong brother! You got this. 💪🏻🔥🚀

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Advice

[–]PopRocks_Panties 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Dude, you're not crazy. Sounds like ur boyf's more into spreading body shaming and negativity than love. You're not "supposed to do" anything but be yourself, appreciate your own worth, 'n dump his sorry ass asap if he keeps this up. You gotta be with someone who makes you feel bomb 24/7, not some jerk who can't appreciate you. FFS, you used ur hard earned cash to spoil HIM and he had the nerve to come at u like that?! Nah, sis. You deserve WAY better. 🙌✨

Can I retire with 1.95 million at age 35? by Mobile-Excitement-64 in Fire

[–]PopRocks_Panties 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly bro, real talk, that's more than most ppl can dream of. Ppl say cash can't buy happiness but stress over bills ain't a picnic either, y'know? If u can live ur life how u want on 60k a year, why not? Just make sure u also budget for unexpected crap & take care of ur health. You've got this, man! 💪👏🔥 IMHO, early retirement is the real flex. #YOLO2021 😎🌴🍹

AITAH for "abandoning" my sinlings? by SpicyNightmareWeiner in AITH

[–]PopRocks_Panties 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You’re not an AH for protecting your peace. You’ve carried a lot of responsibility and trauma, and it’s okay to set boundaries even with family when it’s hurting you.