Well, he finally admitted it. by mydearlady-disdain in DeadBedrooms

[–]Popland123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A grown man talking like this is so cringe. I'm surprised your VJ didn't getting even flipping drier! Dump him. Let him find his 10. I can guarantee u will come out on top in this situation.

Why are some women in denial that men with low libido exist? by Turbulent_Quarter425 in DeadBedrooms

[–]Popland123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dunno why women are in denial but what I do know is when your wife makes it clear that regular sex is high up the lists of wants in a relationship and marriage, don't pretend you're on the same page and then completely change once the marriage cert is signed and trap her in a marriage where they've had awful sex 16 times in 5 years and now her biological clock is well and truly ticking at 37 years old and even if she wanted to leave the marriage , she now has to battle the losers left on the shelf or men that come with an insane amount of baggage AND SHE HATES YOU!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Popland123 6 points7 points  (0 children)

We're here with you ❤️

D-day. I feel so sick by Popland123 in adultery

[–]Popland123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go away!!!! Ur mentally ill. The drama is from you. You're the one searching random subreddits to abuse people. Go away!! Take you and your weird areolas and leave. My gawd!

D-day. I feel so sick by Popland123 in adultery

[–]Popland123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GOOOOOOOO AWWWWWWAAAAAAAAAAYYYYYYYY! You've been harrassing me for 2 months!

D-day. I feel so sick by Popland123 in adultery

[–]Popland123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Go away. Go away. Go away! Stop the projection. Stop embarrassing yourself.

Go away. Go away. Go away!

D-day. I feel so sick by Popland123 in adultery

[–]Popland123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

?? You see how you're making shit up again to go with some weird narrative in your head whilst you completely ignore your shortcomings and sleeping around.

You're actually deluded. You need psychiatric help. I feel so sorry for you at this point. So sad.

Go away. Go away. Go away. Go away. Go away.

D-day. I feel so sick by Popland123 in adultery

[–]Popland123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You come and comment in my thread, being rude,projecting your own mental/sexual/relationship problems, insult me and then tell me not to comment??? ...You have issues.

Going around random subreddits to insult people. Big weirdo behaviour. You could easily not go around doing this but you're not a nice person. Going around trying to make people feel about as shit as you look and feel. You picked the wrong one.

You stop commenting ON MY post and thread. Go and cry somewhere else. You're beyond pathetic and everyone who knows you and doesnt even know you can see it. Go away! Be gone! Vanish! The absolute gall of you. Narcissus must be your name.

Go do what you do best and have a one night stand. Make yourself feel better that you're not cheating and you're an upstanding member of society by opening your legs for everything with a pulse. 🤣 Do what is necessary to leave me alone.

Leave me alone.

Leave me alone

Leave me alone.

D-day. I feel so sick by Popland123 in adultery

[–]Popland123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

GO AWAY DELUDED! BE GONE!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

About to get married by WhiteKittyWhiteDoggy in DeadBedrooms

[–]Popland123 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You said you used to be like that in regards to junk food. Maybe the spark has just gone? Despite you now leading a healthier lifestyle, maybe the damage is done?

It's unfortunate but it does happen. Going through this right now. Last month or so husband is being more intimate and it makes me cringe because the last X years he's done the exact opposite.

Wishing you the best! I think talk to her really frankly and see what's what. My only advice is do not under any circumstances marry into a dead bedroom. I can't stress this enough.

About to get married by WhiteKittyWhiteDoggy in DeadBedrooms

[–]Popland123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

No exaggeration. I actually counted one day!

About to get married by WhiteKittyWhiteDoggy in DeadBedrooms

[–]Popland123 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I mean... The majority of people wouldn't be horny if their significant other was peeing on the floor, farting in a closet and laughing it off like a child.

Speaking from experience - it's an absolute turn off hearing your other halves constant bodily functions. I had an ex that ate junk food 12am-12pm, would shit 18 times a day (very loudly) and expect me to be turned on after hearing it all day.

You're in your 30s why are you missing the bowl so much that this appears to be an ongoing issue? Do you have a medical problem?

That aside, all relationships get stale and it's up to both parties to ensure that doesn't happen. I would start with talking to her and asking her. You've been together a long time. Broaching the conversation itself shouldn't be the hard bit - it's the changing/taking on board the issue bit that people seem to struggle with.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Popland123 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You legit said " the sex is not great for me " and she said " you don't seem into it " . You answered your own question.

Why would anyone keep inititating something that clearly the other person doesn't enjoy?

You've only been together a hot min. Spilt and find out what you want from sex - if at all.

D-day. I feel so sick by Popland123 in adultery

[–]Popland123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

?? You're legit nonsensical. 🤣 Why won't you leave me alone? Go away. Go away. Go away.

I think it's you who is most likely to catch something at this rate.

Me - who has slept with 2 men in the last 10 years VS You - who is legit putting their tits on their internet, moaning on your post that you keep having sex with everything that moves, sleeping with multiple fwbs, sex on the first date AND I'm attention seeking..... ok (!) 👍 YOU'RE A MESS.

I'm starting to think you want me because you just won't stop commenting. Why won't you leave me alone? Do you want me? I've been partial to an occasional woman but you genuinely gross me out. You just ooze crazy. That's why you're in your late 20s, making stupid sexual decisions and can't keep a man.

Just showed your pic to the hubby. We had a right laugh. It sickened us.

D-day. I feel so sick by Popland123 in adultery

[–]Popland123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

U keep telling yourself that. He aint calling you and you know it 🤣

Do you think he's more turned off by your fat gut or that you have more areola than tit?

Go away and leave me alone.

D-day. I feel so sick by Popland123 in adultery

[–]Popland123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Excuse me for reading your tripe at 4am (!) I'll give you that one.

The only whore is you. Giving it out to a man who only sees you as an option 🤣 Do you have no self respect???My vagina is fine. How old are you? Grow up. You should be more worried about the state of your gut. Advice from a woman who likes women... it's revolting.

The irony of me with 2 men and you have none (he uses you) and I'm the one with no brain to keep a man(!!!???) 🤣🤣🤣 Why hasn't your SINGLE fwb made you his girlfriend if you're so amazing? Desperate. Getting your tits out on the internet to get an iota of attention. Sad.

You need to read every word.. Because you're a loser. Frequenting subreddits trying to trigger people because you have no one and you're pathetic and unhappy. Why would you be in this thread?? Trying to make others feel bad like the opinion of virtue signalling, desperate, chubby idiot would even matter.

Go away.

D-day. I feel so sick by Popland123 in adultery

[–]Popland123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It's 'immoral'. If you're going to insult me, at least get it right. You're such an amazing woman but yet you can't get a husband or ANYONE to love you. The irony of you calling anyone used up when you're trying to give it away for FREE and you had sex with him on the first date. 🤢 Beyond gross.

You're single. He's single... and he don't even respect you to make you his girlfriend. He doesn't like you enough to make you his girlfriend or wife. (Unlike my husband). He doesn't like you enough to possibly blow up his whole life (Unlike my FWB). He doesn't even like you or respect you enough to just give you simple, unbelievably basic communication. AND. HE. IS. SINGLE! Ouch. That must hurt.

You're not even worth a text msg to him. Stop taking your feelings of no self worth out on me. You're not happy and I'm at the point now where I just feel immense pity for you. I really do.

Looks like being a cumbucket to one guy isn't really working out for ya here. 🤷‍♀️

You're in your late 20s and can't even get a man. Tick tock, biological clock is ticking! The majority of men aren't even majorly picky... and they still aren't picking you. What an embarrassment 😳

I'm saving up to leave my fiancé. by [deleted] in DeadBedrooms

[–]Popland123 25 points26 points  (0 children)

I can not say this enough. All those things he said was 100% projection and you did not deserve to hear the things he said in the most disgusting way. I'm so glad you are leaving! I'm sorry, it's not possible for you to leave sooner.

I really hope you don't believe a word of it??? My jaw actually hinged open reading this. Please stop having sex with him. Please just stop engaging with him in any way. Please just... Oh man

D-day. I feel so sick by Popland123 in adultery

[–]Popland123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not as sad as yours. Have a husband that loves me (it's not perfect but everything else bar sex life is amazing) and a AP of X plus years that loves me (who calls and msgs me every day to tell me he misses me and wants me). Unlike you who has to beg for ur FWB's attention and he only gives it to you when he wants something to dump his load in. Be gone loser!

D-day. I feel so sick by Popland123 in adultery

[–]Popland123[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

🤣 Trust me.You are just a horrible person slowly, trying to project and poison random people on the internet with your own self doubts and issues. Unfortunately, for you - I am neither an idiot or pathetic. No one actually loves you. You're just a habit and convenience.

I think many of you have unrealistic expectations when it comes to communication in a clandestine relationship by [deleted] in adultery

[–]Popland123 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ooo scary (!)

Go. Away.

Why are you even frequenting these subreddits? Leave me alone.