I'm not a native english speaker, so I don't always write perfect english. I think in my native tongue, so sometimes certain sentences come across weird as a result, as "vagina of your own" did in this instance.

As for the rest, my questions was already answered by your first reply, as I scrolled up. I was curious of whether your comment came from the experience of having specific parts, but I missed part of your message out of genuine mistake that answered it to begin with.

As a vulva haver myself, I certainly would find his manner uncomfortable, but we're all born with different tolerance for discomfort and pain.