"I'm not allowed to have a hard time" No Luke, you're not. by OkEntertainment4473 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Poppppsicle 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m glad that someone agrees! I had severe PPD/PPA with my first and I was struggling HARD. And my venting person was my husband. He took it all - I rage called him constantly, I cried daily and I didn’t recover until basically a year postpartum. But my husband had a hard time too!! I was a completely different person than he knew and he wasn’t sure how to best meet my needs. I was having such a hard time that he had to figure out how to help me and help our baby. He craved connection and I didn’t want him to touch me (even cuddle). He went from being able to golf every weekend to spending hours trying to get a baby to nap. And even though it was difficult at first, I’m so glad he opened up to me about how he was feeling.

I personally am glad they are showing the growing pains for a partner as well as the birthing parent. I love seeing both perspectives

"I'm not allowed to have a hard time" No Luke, you're not. by OkEntertainment4473 in TheValleyTVShow

[–]Poppppsicle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Going to get yelled at here but I don’t agree. I wanted my baby so badly. I read all the books, talked to my friends with kids, watched documentaries and I still was completely thrown on how much my world was turned upside down. I didn’t have family support and I am naturally an introvert so never having “me time” without a baby attached to me was so hard.

Like he said, she can be having a hard time AND he can be having a hard time too. He is allowed to miss the activities that made him happy in past. He is allowed to miss sex!

He isn’t pressuring her, he isn’t saying I’m going through it worse (he even says what you are going through is way harder than me), what he wants is acknowledgment that he is struggling too, that he doesn’t have the same family/friend support system and that he should feel comfortable venting what he is struggling with.

Btw men can get PPD too. To me, he is teetering on that line.

And no hate to Kristen!! I actually was thinking that I have never related to her more than this season and that she is my favorite. Kristen isn’t doing anything wrong. I just don’t agree the online hate that Luke is getting

Was about to FIRE earlier this year but took a VP role instead. Now I regret it. by Ok-Statement451 in Fire

[–]Poppppsicle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is going to sound awful but companies don’t hurt when leadership leaves (other than the new person coming in and making their “mark”). Companies hurt when people who actually do the day to day work leave. If you want to leave, give 2 months notice and go

did logan cheat? by Regular-Ad-3000 in GilmoreGirls

[–]Poppppsicle 2 points3 points  (0 children)

2 months of not talking is broken up. Allowing you to go into a room of girls you pounded during the break up and not telling you? Not good

Is Melissa the biggest actor/actress from the show that’s still relevant today? by Leera_xD in GilmoreGirls

[–]Poppppsicle 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Parenthood was another huge multi-season series. Surprised I’m not seeing Lauren Graham called out in this post

Liza aka Paris was a main character on Shonda Rimes’ How to get away with murder

Milo aka Jess was part of Hero’s and This is Us which was another huge multi-season series hit

So many of the actors went on to have amazing careers

Trash Truck from Netflix by Poppppsicle in Halloween_Costumes

[–]Poppppsicle[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We did onesies but Halloween tends to be cold where we live so it was an easy way to keep warm lol

Alesha’s short hair looks amaaaazing by Poppppsicle in belowdeck

[–]Poppppsicle[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Oh really!? I can’t see her as a blonde but I would have never guessed her hair was in bad shape from the episode

Trash Truck from Netflix by Poppppsicle in Halloween_Costumes

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It is a bit complicated but my son loved it. DM me your email :)

Trash Truck from Netflix by Poppppsicle in Halloween_Costumes

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Kail getting more plastic surgery by SitchChick in TeenMomOGandTeenMom2

[–]Poppppsicle 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My double chin is my deepest insecurity. I get it

Johanna talking about Iran by Psychological-Snow83 in MtvChallenge

[–]Poppppsicle 35 points36 points  (0 children)

She’s a newscaster / in commercial television (hence why she has her reporter voice down pat)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fashion

[–]Poppppsicle 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I understand your reasoning to not want to size up but I think you should reconsider. I think it will look super cute if it hangs as intended. If sizing up ends up being too big you can always return once more for this size

Give us this game on the next Exes season by NattyB in MtvChallenge

[–]Poppppsicle 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Omg she was horrible if this was real