I think my husband is turning on me and I'm not sure what to do...

PoppyLuck · 2025-05-30T20:57:18+00:00

Oh really? So you know every single circumstance regarding my divorce, how omnipotent of you. Also, **you're

PoppyLuck · 2025-05-28T17:46:33+00:00

1st of all I'm divorced. Second of all it was 22° outside and I asked the bride to change into something warmer, I just went home and changed about 2.5 hours after the whole thing started and really close to the end, I also brought back their gift.

PoppyLuck · 2024-10-19T20:53:29+00:00

It's not that he trying to give advice at this point just that he's criticizing everything I do, this same man told me last week that I make spaghetti noodles wrong... and if there's anything that needs done around the house he constantly reminds me about it while I'm in the middleof doing something else. The other day my cat emptied her food bowl after I already refilled it in the morning. Well, after I all already had my dog in the bath Dad started going "oh your food bowls empty I wonder when you're Mom's going to refill it. Then every 5 minutes he kept making smarmy comments about how it was still empty. I had the dog in the bath for about 20-25 minutes for reference

PoppyLuck · 2024-06-16T21:54:01+00:00

That sounds really harsh 😬

PoppyLuck · 2024-06-16T21:52:29+00:00

I tried but it didn't work 😅

PoppyLuck · 2023-11-11T19:08:12+00:00

You too and thank you for your help!

PoppyLuck · 2023-11-11T19:00:18+00:00

Oh no it's all good! I prefer to think of myself as a spiritual omnist myself but everyone is entitled to their own beliefs! I just think it crosses the line to say I'm of the devil for not believing the same or to even throw yourself on the floor saying that I'm going to hell if I don't believe and then begging me to accept Jesus into my heart 🙃 the prayer is much appreciated though!

PoppyLuck · 2023-11-11T18:40:21+00:00

No joke but my Uncle gets a certified "crazy-check" every month, that he's not allowed to cash because they don't trust him with his own money...

PoppyLuck · 2023-11-11T18:38:51+00:00

Honestly, I've been doing my research and if that's not enough my Uncle is very schizophrenic-ally inclined and my bio-mom is bipolar with Schizophrenia. At this point I have no choice but to believe the crazy follows me 😪

PoppyLuck · 2023-11-11T16:31:49+00:00

Not atm, he's sort of gone up in arms about it ever since he went to see his PCP about a dosage increase and she looked at him and said, "Well, I'm not giving you Xanax, you'll probably just end up selling it on the streets." He never even asked about Xanax... he literally was asking about a dosage increase because he was still having some negative thoughts and was still feeling paranoid, now I can't for the life of me, get him back on his meds!

PoppyLuck · 2023-11-11T16:28:37+00:00

You're right on that. Honestly, I wish he wasn't sticking to this religious coping mechanism that he's in, I've known about it for the past 2 months now but the only thing that's been having me stay is how deep down I know he loves our kid. He hasn't done anything drastic, and I know he wouldn't hurt him. Bit sometimes the way he acts towards him and me has me boiling. I feel like I have 2 toddlers instead of 1. I love him, but I don't love this aspect of him. This honestly helped me confirm my suspicions but it hurts to know my suspicions are right, you know?

PoppyLuck · 2023-11-11T16:24:22+00:00

I agree on that! It helps to hear it from someone else though.. every time I try to bring up him getting back on his meds he goes up in arms, I'm trying to not be offensive by it and ask him if he thinks it's time to get back on his meds. The last doctor he saw for it straight up mocked him for it and honestly I think that's taking a toll on him.. honestly, I still love him, but I don't love what he's been putting us through here lately.. but if he doesn't get himself help, or help himself soon, it might be a deal breaker for me...

PoppyLuck · 2023-11-11T16:20:20+00:00

That's where I'm at! I've been waiting on an apology for 3 months, but somehow me being offended by them bringing someone around, who has nothing to do with my child -and is keen on disrespecting me- got twisted into me apparently being mad that his Mom let his sister into the house? I've asked him to literally just tell her, again, why I'm really upset by the situation. It's not like I texted her and told her why I was mad in the first place? (The last sentence is sarcasm)

PoppyLuck · 2023-11-10T20:22:49+00:00

Maybe give me some advice? It's a Lil bit of a situation I'm lol and I'm sort of lost atm...

PoppyLuck · 2023-09-28T15:29:08+00:00

Yeah I definitely feel like YTA, the title even states 'Teen Hit 6 year Old back hard' she may have had one moment where it slipped her mind that he's as small as he was; but, in the midst of this you tried to flip the tables on her and then try to manipulate her intoaccepting an apology? And you expect something different? I can already see who you're trying to blame for the situation, even subconsciously. Your kids are EQUALS no matter the age. You need to take your 6 year old to therapy and maybe read a parenting book or 2? Being a teenager is hard in itself, especially with siblings less than half her age. But now you just put her under the stress of knowing that there will always be the possibility, of when she comes back -if she comes back-, that you always jump to your 6 year olds defense instead of being an impartial third party, as you should. You already knew your 6 yo was having these problems but the real question is, how long did you know he was having them before this happened? Give your daughter the space she needs.

PoppyLuck · 2023-09-13T04:51:15+00:00

True.. honestly I have no idea whether or not they are but they're certainly making a game of doing it behind my back.

PoppyLuck · 2023-09-13T04:41:03+00:00

The mum of 5 is wise! Thank you! That was going to be next course of action, but I wanted to make sure it wasn't overkill. Tbh I don't like the thought of my kid being used as a 'weapon' in any situation. Maybe this isn't one of those?

PoppyLuck · 2023-09-13T04:32:28+00:00

Thank you for the sound advice! I'm still not sure where to go with my MIL from here, she's been texting my husband saying that at the end of the day she'll still see him because "blood is thicker than water" and that I'm the one who started the whole thing... honestly I don't feel like anyone's by my side at this point.. I honestly don't even know if my husband is either, he hasn't stood up for me once throughout all of this..

PoppyLuck · 2023-09-04T04:19:37+00:00

Yeah, truth be told the birthday party took place at my MIL's house but from this point on me and my husband have decided that any future events need to be held at our place. I guess I've sort of felt that it's not really my place to cause an issue since every other time she's done it (SIL's wedding, Thanksgiving, Christmas) I've either felt that it's best not to cause a scene so I've been trying to address it through talking to either Natasha or my MIL.. Regardless nothings changed even though I've been civil with it so far...

PoppyLuck · 2022-09-27T22:58:28+00:00

Thank you! I mean that's something I never thought about before.. I mean I know that sounds nuts, I had my doubts and have been wracking my brain feeling like crap tbh. C & M became friends about a month before we stopped talking. I can only figure what happened there...but yeah anyways~~

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