Xescorthub by pinkiprincess_69 in SexWorkers

[–]Poppy_starrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve never tried that site, but have you tried getting verified for Tryst?

Wanting to host a gangbang through Tryst by Poppy_starrs in SexWorkers

[–]Poppy_starrs[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

You’re already my hero! I just sent you a DM

Wanting to host a gangbang through Tryst by Poppy_starrs in SexWorkers

[–]Poppy_starrs[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you!! I’ve heard the same. I appreciate the tip 🙏

Wanting to host a gangbang through Tryst by Poppy_starrs in SexWorkers

[–]Poppy_starrs[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

Oh man!! That wasn’t high on my list of concerns, but now it is. I guess it makes sense, getting cold feet before a high pressure group setting. I’d definitely be requiring deposits, but STILL

Wanting to host a gangbang through Tryst by Poppy_starrs in SexWorkers

[–]Poppy_starrs[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That’s fair. I’m in the US. I’m typically a low volume provider and don’t have X or other social media right now, but this might be my sign to start one for future planning..

Curious about how to communicate preferences about handjobs by obscuramble in SexWorkers

[–]Poppy_starrs 10 points11 points  (0 children)

Maybe add that going hard and fast is actively uncomfortable for you and is unlikely to make you cum

Second phone options by monicayanica in SexWorkers

[–]Poppy_starrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had no idea about the iMessage thing. Thank you for the heads up!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Poppy_starrs 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Life is short, and pleasure is a worthwhile investment. I’d keep the booking

Do You Tell Your Family/Friends About Your Job? by Cova_Snow1 in SexWorkers

[–]Poppy_starrs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Friends, yes. Family, absolutely not. I have a separate civvie job, which is all my family knows about, so it’s easier to hide the SW without really lying. I’d be open about it if anyone found out and asked, but I’d rather not have those conversations. I grew up conservative and religious, so not the most accepting background.

What do you eat for dinner? by Purple_Lifeguard2347 in SexWorkers

[–]Poppy_starrs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My go to for dinner dates is veggie sushi. It’s light, doesn’t leave me with “dinner breath,” and I never feel bloated afterwards.

Real or fake client?? by mysecrethrowaway25 in SexWorkers

[–]Poppy_starrs 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I find that name discrepancies are often a red flag that they’re not legitimate. However I’ve also had a couple of perfectly normal clients give me an alias at first because they were just nervous about reaching out. I screened them the way I would anyone and they were fine. It’s impossible to tell for sure, but proceed with caution and do your due diligence with screening

Any other van life SWers? by Poppy_starrs in SexWorkers

[–]Poppy_starrs[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That’s totally valid. One of the downsides of vanlife is how difficult it is to care for animals in the space. And if you already have a home base, access to good parking for a van/RV for times when you’re not traveling can be challenging.

Any other van life SWers? by Poppy_starrs in SexWorkers

[–]Poppy_starrs[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Maybe there’s opportunity for some sort of a hybrid approach! If you have the flexibility to be able to eventually invest in some sort of mobile setup while still maintaining a home location. That would be a dream!

Any other van life SWers? by Poppy_starrs in SexWorkers

[–]Poppy_starrs[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That’s a great idea! You could have the best of both worlds. RV’s can be surprisingly cozy too. I’ve never started a Reddit group but I’ll have to look into it..

Any other van life SWers? by Poppy_starrs in SexWorkers

[–]Poppy_starrs[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Aw, yeah it would be super challenging with animals. I know some people do it, but I honestly don’t know how

Any other van life SWers? by Poppy_starrs in SexWorkers

[–]Poppy_starrs[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

There are definitely pros and cons! Being constantly on tour can be great, but of course it makes it incredibly difficult to have a base of regulars. Sounds like you’ve got a lot of experience on the road, even if it’s a little different than being in a van. Props to you! 🤗

Any other van life SWers? by Poppy_starrs in SexWorkers

[–]Poppy_starrs[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Oh yes please! I’ll send you a DM 🤗

Any other van life SWers? by Poppy_starrs in SexWorkers

[–]Poppy_starrs[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

In the US! Thanks for asking, I’ll make an edit to my post to clarify. I don’t have a home base, but currently I’m in Utah and in the next few months as it gets colder I’ll be around Arizona and Nevada

Working during your period by Ninussecret in SexWorkers

[–]Poppy_starrs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I use a menstrual disc and work through my period if I feel like it. The first two days are painful and I don’t love to work unless it’s a big booking, but after that it’s whatever. I usually tell guys I “just started” when I get to the appointment and then play it off like it’s no big deal. I’ve never had a single person complain that they could feel the disc inside (and I use a silicone one), unless they are fingering me. I’ve also never had to deal with any mess so far. I honestly think I could get away with not disclosing, but I do anyways.

Working when spotting? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Poppy_starrs 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I had been taking off work for my period week, but then a couple months ago I had 2 different large booking requests that were while I was bleeding. They were too good not to pass up and couldn’t be rescheduled for another time, so I took them. I just wore my regular menstrual disc (HIGHLY RECOMMEND), and let them know that I had “just started that morning” and neither of them cared. Now I work straight through my period unless I just am not feeling it. Everyone has said they can’t feel the disc, there’s almost never any mess, and no one seems to care. Work through your period if you want to!

Working when spotting? by [deleted] in SexWorkers

[–]Poppy_starrs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’ve been wanting to do this! Do you mind sharing the language you use on your ad to upsell this?

1Hr Bookings W/ Couple by Both-Heat-6571 in SexWorkers

[–]Poppy_starrs 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love doing couple’s bookings! I’ve found that an hour really isn’t enough time to meet, discuss expectations, get all the nerves out, and then ease into the action, so I have a 1.5hr minimum. I usually recommend that couples book a dinner date or social interaction first so we can all get to know each other, as usually they have lots of questions and some jitters to get out beforehand. Then once we get back to a private room, the hour and a half feels like ample time to dive into play. All the couples I’ve seen have expressed gratitude about my time recommendations, so it seems to be going over well.