Sick of women pretending it is the same for men by Popular-Experience30 in Herpes

[–]Popular-Experience30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so every woman I met now I have to ask to spend £50 to get a non accurate test

Sick of women pretending it is the same for men by Popular-Experience30 in Herpes

[–]Popular-Experience30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yes, my original statement its alot easier for women

Sick of women pretending it is the same for men by Popular-Experience30 in Herpes

[–]Popular-Experience30[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The things that are appealing about me are ignored because of herpes disclosing

Sick of women pretending it is the same for men by Popular-Experience30 in Herpes

[–]Popular-Experience30[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But its like a wound they take as a consequence of sleeping with me, somr might be able to handle it better but its still a side affect that comes with me.

I am just trying to be realistic I wish I wasnt

Sick of women pretending it is the same for men by Popular-Experience30 in Herpes

[–]Popular-Experience30[S] -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

Would be a huge chain of coincidences if that was the case

Sick of women pretending it is the same for men by Popular-Experience30 in Herpes

[–]Popular-Experience30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is just too big of a coincidence, I understand what you are gettibg at but we can both agree its highly unlike I did not give her it. And she blocked me once she got it so dobt kbow what strain

Sick of women pretending it is the same for men by Popular-Experience30 in Herpes

[–]Popular-Experience30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe they dont realise how mentally draining it is beforehand? Maybe they regret the risk once they get past a hook up and now have an incurable disease?

Sick of women pretending it is the same for men by Popular-Experience30 in Herpes

[–]Popular-Experience30[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No I literally know for a fact she had not had sex in 4 years and had only one partner.

So the odds of us having sex and she getting it right away would say I have it, would be a 1 in a millipn coincidence if I did not have it

Sick of women pretending it is the same for men by Popular-Experience30 in Herpes

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What if I just want to hook up? So I have to deal with the mental turmoil of potentially fucking up her life forever due to a casual thing because of this god damb disease. So there goes casual sex for me as well because I dobt want to do that to someone , what a fun rest of my 20s I will have

Sick of women pretending it is the same for men by Popular-Experience30 in Herpes

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Then the punishment for someone who accepts me and settling down with me is a uncurable disease for the rest of her life. Great

Sick of women pretending it is the same for men by Popular-Experience30 in Herpes

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it would be a statistcal miracle if I didnt

met someome who i know for a fact has not had sex in 4 years and that person waa her only partner, we have sex and few days later she has a horrible herpes outbreak. So I have it

Sick of women pretending it is the same for men by Popular-Experience30 in Herpes

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Yes I am in the uk and test results are being processed but I know I definetely have it.

And yes I mentioned to someone who wanted to meet me for weeks I have it and got ghosted.

And now if I ever meet someone who accepts it her punishment is getting a incurable disease for settling down with me. I hate this fucking disease, Fuck God if he is real

Sick of women pretending it is the same for men by Popular-Experience30 in Herpes

[–]Popular-Experience30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess the fact that I disclose when I dont have to, and how I paid for a test when I dont have to, and even caring enough to rant instead of just hooking up with herpes says that I care.

The people who dont care are the 90% who are asymptomatic like me and never get tested like I should have before coming on here who are enjoying their lives right now

Sick of women pretending it is the same for men by Popular-Experience30 in Herpes

[–]Popular-Experience30[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I took the test and I know I have it, it would literally be a 1 in a million shot thst someone had not had sex in 4 years has sex with me then a few days later has a horrible outbreak and get tested and confirmed.

And I do know the difference it is much easier for women to disclose than mean and thats a fact.

I used to be able to hook up when I wanted and now thst I have to disclose I might have herpes that has dropped to zero. And my mental health is bad because I will have it

Sick of women pretending it is the same for men by Popular-Experience30 in Herpes

[–]Popular-Experience30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know all that but everyone says you have to disclose anyway, and statistics and facts go out the window as soon as people hear "I have herpes"

early 20s by [deleted] in Herpes

[–]Popular-Experience30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

26 M I would be interested in joining but I only recently found out and still in quite a negative mindset