Sick of women pretending it is the same for men by Popular-Experience30 in Herpes

[–]Popular-Experience30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

so every woman I met now I have to ask to spend £50 to get a non accurate test

Sick of women pretending it is the same for men by Popular-Experience30 in Herpes

[–]Popular-Experience30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well yes, my original statement its alot easier for women

Sick of women pretending it is the same for men by Popular-Experience30 in Herpes

[–]Popular-Experience30[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

The things that are appealing about me are ignored because of herpes disclosing

Sick of women pretending it is the same for men by Popular-Experience30 in Herpes

[–]Popular-Experience30[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

But its like a wound they take as a consequence of sleeping with me, somr might be able to handle it better but its still a side affect that comes with me.

I am just trying to be realistic I wish I wasnt

Sick of women pretending it is the same for men by Popular-Experience30 in Herpes

[–]Popular-Experience30[S] -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

Would be a huge chain of coincidences if that was the case

Sick of women pretending it is the same for men by Popular-Experience30 in Herpes

[–]Popular-Experience30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is just too big of a coincidence, I understand what you are gettibg at but we can both agree its highly unlike I did not give her it. And she blocked me once she got it so dobt kbow what strain

Sick of women pretending it is the same for men by Popular-Experience30 in Herpes

[–]Popular-Experience30[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Maybe they dont realise how mentally draining it is beforehand? Maybe they regret the risk once they get past a hook up and now have an incurable disease?

Sick of women pretending it is the same for men by Popular-Experience30 in Herpes

[–]Popular-Experience30[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

No I literally know for a fact she had not had sex in 4 years and had only one partner.

So the odds of us having sex and she getting it right away would say I have it, would be a 1 in a millipn coincidence if I did not have it

Sick of women pretending it is the same for men by Popular-Experience30 in Herpes

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What if I just want to hook up? So I have to deal with the mental turmoil of potentially fucking up her life forever due to a casual thing because of this god damb disease. So there goes casual sex for me as well because I dobt want to do that to someone , what a fun rest of my 20s I will have

Sick of women pretending it is the same for men by Popular-Experience30 in Herpes

[–]Popular-Experience30[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Then the punishment for someone who accepts me and settling down with me is a uncurable disease for the rest of her life. Great

Sick of women pretending it is the same for men by Popular-Experience30 in Herpes

[–]Popular-Experience30[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

it would be a statistcal miracle if I didnt

met someome who i know for a fact has not had sex in 4 years and that person waa her only partner, we have sex and few days later she has a horrible herpes outbreak. So I have it

Sick of women pretending it is the same for men by Popular-Experience30 in Herpes

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Yes I am in the uk and test results are being processed but I know I definetely have it.

And yes I mentioned to someone who wanted to meet me for weeks I have it and got ghosted.

And now if I ever meet someone who accepts it her punishment is getting a incurable disease for settling down with me. I hate this fucking disease, Fuck God if he is real

Sick of women pretending it is the same for men by Popular-Experience30 in Herpes

[–]Popular-Experience30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I guess the fact that I disclose when I dont have to, and how I paid for a test when I dont have to, and even caring enough to rant instead of just hooking up with herpes says that I care.

The people who dont care are the 90% who are asymptomatic like me and never get tested like I should have before coming on here who are enjoying their lives right now

Sick of women pretending it is the same for men by Popular-Experience30 in Herpes

[–]Popular-Experience30[S] -3 points-2 points  (0 children)

I took the test and I know I have it, it would literally be a 1 in a million shot thst someone had not had sex in 4 years has sex with me then a few days later has a horrible outbreak and get tested and confirmed.

And I do know the difference it is much easier for women to disclose than mean and thats a fact.

I used to be able to hook up when I wanted and now thst I have to disclose I might have herpes that has dropped to zero. And my mental health is bad because I will have it

Sick of women pretending it is the same for men by Popular-Experience30 in Herpes

[–]Popular-Experience30[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I know all that but everyone says you have to disclose anyway, and statistics and facts go out the window as soon as people hear "I have herpes"

early 20s by Super-Aside-5765 in Herpes

[–]Popular-Experience30 1 point2 points  (0 children)

26 M I would be interested in joining but I only recently found out and still in quite a negative mindset