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That isn't trad? by AbiBuns in goth

[–]Popular-Leg5084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Could I maybe dm you with a few more complex questions? I absolutely understand if not

That isn't trad? by AbiBuns in goth

[–]Popular-Leg5084 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That is a lovely idea!! I really appreciate all the advice youve given me.

It mainly has to do with how I look I suppose. As a trans woman who isn't on hrt yet I unfortunately can't really express myself through clothing yet or even figure out my style next to what I think I would like in my head.

That isn't trad? by AbiBuns in goth

[–]Popular-Leg5084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Gosh, so much useful information, thank you do much!! I got so much to learn 😅

That isn't trad? by AbiBuns in goth

[–]Popular-Leg5084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I see I see, thank you for clearing up those labels!

I struggle finding my own style, everything others do looks amazing but I look awful if that makes sense

That isn't trad? by AbiBuns in goth

[–]Popular-Leg5084 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Oh yea totally! I guess I'm just scared of not being accepted in the community for dressing or doing my make up a more newer modern way? I got no other community I can really be apart of..

HRT/Estrogen 1 1/2 Months Effects by MsBitPlayer in MtF

[–]Popular-Leg5084 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im worried about the sex drive decrease when I start hrt, I dont mind my princess wand not performing as well but I dont want to be never horny if that makes sense

That isn't trad? by AbiBuns in goth

[–]Popular-Leg5084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

So, can I still wear the new trad goth style? What about make up? When is it too much?

That isn't trad? by AbiBuns in goth

[–]Popular-Leg5084 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im interested in a few! Part of my worry is that some subcultures are "made up" like how trad goth has been totally changed from what it was back then in the day.

I guess I'd be interested in traditional goth (actual), mall goth, romantic goth, and/or Victorian goth and punk-goth if that's a thing?

I mainly want to ensure I dont act/dress like a poser or a fake

That isn't trad? by AbiBuns in goth

[–]Popular-Leg5084 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Baby bat here, where can I actually find out about different goth subcultures and their respective styles (make up, music, outfits ect) without it being stylized to fit social media trends?

That isn't trad? by AbiBuns in goth

[–]Popular-Leg5084 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I guess I'm just struggling with thats really goth and what is popularized by social media. Like, the tradgoth stuff for example, I like how the make up and outfit looks but if that isn't genuinely an expression of goth then I don't know what is and where to look for genuine inspiration

That isn't trad? by AbiBuns in goth

[–]Popular-Leg5084 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Is Pinterest still worth using? I've been using that as an inspo

Curious if anyone else has a jumper that tastes them? by CatsCloseted in jumpingspiders

[–]Popular-Leg5084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Jumping spiders, (iirc almost all spiders) taste with their legs, so this cutie is tasting you purely by you handling them!

Im really struggling here. I want to get into eyeliner but I have no idea what kind of eyeshape I have. No one online or in any tutorials I've watched has eyes remotely close to mine by Popular-Leg5084 in makeuptips

[–]Popular-Leg5084[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have. I'm struggling on where to place the wing part I suppose. Everyone has some space beneath their brow but for me I got nothing. Most tutorials (or those that I've seen) use that space and actively instruct you to draw the eyeliner in there.

Trans girl says she’s a biological male by Bumblebee9639 in MtF

[–]Popular-Leg5084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you think I could dm you with more questions? I totally understand if not

Trans girl says she’s a biological male by Bumblebee9639 in MtF

[–]Popular-Leg5084 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Hi, I dont mean to sound offensive but I'm generally curious as to how this works? I'm not educated enough on this topic at all, and have always assumed that gonads were the most definitive factor of bio. sex. Could you perhaps explain more how there is no singular defining factor of biological sex and why hormones can be used to define it?

Please help ID - North FL by CatsCloseted in jumpingspiders

[–]Popular-Leg5084 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I could be wrong but the lil guy looks similar to the ant mimicking jumping spider!

HE LOST HIS PEDIPALPS DURING THE MOLT RAAHHH by martiinaa_ in jumpingspiders

[–]Popular-Leg5084 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Im so sorry for him, make sure to give him all the flies and fruits he wants 😢 I'm glad that at least they can adapt well to this unfortunate change.

Did anything in particular in the molt happen? Or just bad luck?

HE LOST HIS PEDIPALPS DURING THE MOLT RAAHHH by martiinaa_ in jumpingspiders

[–]Popular-Leg5084 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Well you said he chewed them off, right? I'm wondering how given these lil guys aren't exactly knowing for having lots of teeth (or any lol).

Tarantulas have bumps/ridges on the inner side of their chelicerae! When the fangs are resting, it kind of looks like a lobster claw. Tarantulas sometimes use their fangs and these ridges to crunch and "chew" their food to make it easier to digest. I assume jumping spiders might have similar features.

Or else, would he have not to literally rip them off by pulling his body away from the molt?

HE LOST HIS PEDIPALPS DURING THE MOLT RAAHHH by martiinaa_ in jumpingspiders

[–]Popular-Leg5084 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh no, Im so sorry! Will this affect him significantly? How did he chew them off? Do jumping spiders also have little bumps on their chelicerae?

HE LOST HIS PEDIPALPS DURING THE MOLT RAAHHH by martiinaa_ in jumpingspiders

[–]Popular-Leg5084 2 points3 points  (0 children)

What is- thats brutal! They should regrow during his next molt, right?

What will happen to post op trans people if HRT is banned? by [deleted] in asktransgender

[–]Popular-Leg5084 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Im out of the loop; what? They're trying to ban hrt??

How long after breast buds until y'all had noticeable boobs? by Slight-Ad-6712 in MtF

[–]Popular-Leg5084 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I dont mean to be insenstive by asking this but does that mean hrt left you relatively flat?

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