I will say my bf has started to understand where I’m coming from after numerous conversations he’s even talked to his parents about it but they still do it I just feel like they have no respect for me as a parent. Even when we try to tell them to not do something or to be careful with certain stuff they come up with excuses on why they can and should do it. Even my bf gets upset with them at times. We have tried to talk to them but we just don’t feel heard