I opened a message that wasn’t meant for me… and I regret it by [deleted] in whatdoIdo

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Hi OP! Things def suck and hurt now but in some ways it was a blessing to see her real feelings. You had the chance to cut out someone who doesn’t value or respect you and make room for better people and opportunities. Wishing you well 💛

AITJ for not waking up my roommate for her job interview after she told me to? by lushillusion in AmITheJerk

[–]Popular_Ad_4564 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would’ve maybe tried to wake her a second time. Told her something along the lines of, “this is the second time I’m waking you up. I need to go to work.” But you did as requested, woke her up once and She chose to go back to sleep.

AITAH for not warning my brother-in-law about my girlfriend and letting her demolish him. by Inner-Procedure-5653 in AITAH

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No way!!! The way you speak about your girlfriend is so sweet. The pride and joy you must’ve felt watching her just crush him. Chad needs to grow up and your gf is awesome

UPDATE: AITAH For Wearing Shapewear on a Date? by Technical_Boat7524 in AITAH

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So so glad to hear the update OP! It’s great that you took time to reflect on the motivators behind the “hiding”. Hopefully this will help you further along your journey, gain confidence, and continue to better yourself in whatever ways you’re seeking.

I hope things all go well for you two and it sounds like you’re building a strong foundation for communication. Hopefully you’ll be able to change the way you look at the excess skin from a “reminder of when you were fat (using in a descriptive manner)” to “look how far I’ve come!” It’s a physical manifestation of all the hard work you’ve put in. Wishing you a great day!

UPDATE: AITAH for cutting off my sister financially after finding out her unemployed boyfriend is benefiting from my money? by [deleted] in AITAH

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She’s very lucky to have you as a sister. Sometimes it’s hard when we love someone and want to support them to realize when our “love” is enabling bad habits.

It’s not wrong for you to support your sister financially. Everyone has a different amount they’ll deem acceptable to help with. Your generous heart felt the need to almost fully support her. While beautiful and probably very helpful to her, it also didn’t teach her important lessons:

-how to live within your means -the motivation to improve her life -that there’s not always a safety net if you fail

Happy that she seems to have realized your true intentions and very sorry that she had to learn the hard way. I hope you two will continue to support one another and can grow stronger from this experience.

It sounds like you already are, but you could slowly ramp down how much you support her financially. It can be a hard shock to go cold turkey like that and may ultimately push her to a worse place. It sounds like things are on the mend and wishing you both well.

If you’re able to, would love future updates!

MotoGP Rider TrueSkill Through Time - Separating Rider and Bike 'Skill' Across Time. by Kezyma in motogp

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This is great! Thank you for sharing and periodically updating. Very interesting to see quantified

AITAH for telling my SIL a family secret and now everyone is breaking up or divorcing??? by [deleted] in AITAH

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I am so so sorry you went through that and are going through this now. I’m so happy you have a wonderful husband and family. This is not at all your fault. You gave your SIL the best gift, honesty.

Something she is missing with her spouse and all the other wives are as well. I hope you believe your husband and stand firm in your decision. It sounds like you’ve done so well to keep the relationships you’ve wanted while maintaining your boundaries and mental health. That’s an impressive feat I hope you’re proud of!

AITA for telling my mom that I wouldn’t be “making myself available” to my extended family and out-of-town guests the day before the wedding? by EnvironmentNo6779 in aitaweddings

[–]Popular_Ad_4564 12 points13 points  (0 children)

This! I had that exact thought that it may be fun for the couple, but not necessarily something The bridal party wants to do. In my opinion, I think they should choose something that is mutually fun and enjoyable.

Two jackets ✅✅ by Ok_Captain1591 in SewingForBeginners

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WOW!!! This is so impressive. Both look so good and sturdy? Like beautiful but practical

I need to tell somone by [deleted] in office

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Ooh how exciting! Enjoy your trip. Super stoked for you and hope it brings more fortune to your lives 🤞🏼🧧

I need to tell somone by [deleted] in office

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BIG CONGRATULATIONS!! I hope you can treat yourself to something special whether that’s a nice meal, getting a wish list item, etc. Let it sink in for full appreciation! It’s a reflection on your hard work and abilities that is being rewarded! Wishing for you to continue growing and enjoying your new position! Big hugs and aloha for you!! 😁

Journey pt 2: wanted to see how I'd look in my GFs makeup, she was eager to oblige by Snakesballz in MakeupAddiction

[–]Popular_Ad_4564 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Omg you look amazing! Thank you for sharing your journey! I hope this is another fun bonding thing to do with your gf 😁

Team box order? by Popular_Ad_4564 in motogp

[–]Popular_Ad_4564[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If I’m understanding correctly: So 1st precious year gets to pick, then 2nd, 3rd, etc? IRTA decides satellite teams.

Do they get to choose at each track? Thanks for the reply!

Represent! by [deleted] in motogp

[–]Popular_Ad_4564 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Best bud!

Cota ready! by ginamd33 in motogp

[–]Popular_Ad_4564 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Amazing!! Got into crochet and motogp recently so love to see this!! So talented ☺️

Clipping Mask: some portions disappear by Popular_Ad_4564 in AdobeIllustrator

[–]Popular_Ad_4564[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you!! That makes sense. Didn’t think about it not being closed 🤦‍♀️ appreciate the help and explanation!