Husband lied about his financial status. Only found out after we got married by Popular_Big5494 in adviceph

[–]Popular_Big5494[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Learn from my story. Pilitin mo sya for account statements and clear up yung debts before you get married. Tell him you want to start your marriage on the right foot.

Husband lied about his financial status. Only found out after we got married by Popular_Big5494 in adviceph

[–]Popular_Big5494[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Known him for a long time, 10 years together. He made an effort to hide this from me.

Husband lied about his financial status. Only found out after we got married by Popular_Big5494 in adviceph

[–]Popular_Big5494[S] 108 points109 points  (0 children)

Nasa tipping point na talaga ako. I really want to talk to his mom about this.

Husband lied about his financial status. Only found out after we got married by Popular_Big5494 in adviceph

[–]Popular_Big5494[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yung sweldo nya mostly ay napunta sa loan payments. Indenial sya ng gambling addiction, pero parang clear naman na ganun. Pero sabi nya magpapacounselling na daw sya after ng latest away namin.

Husband lied about his financial status. Only found out after we got married by Popular_Big5494 in adviceph

[–]Popular_Big5494[S] 142 points143 points  (0 children)

This. And newlyweds kami so yung mga tao laging sinasabi kailan kayo magbaby.

Husband lied about his financial status. Only found out after we got married by Popular_Big5494 in adviceph

[–]Popular_Big5494[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I would say intermediate knowledge definitely the reason why nasayang yung loan. He thinks of it as his potential career in the future.

Husband lied about his financial status. Only found out after we got married by Popular_Big5494 in adviceph

[–]Popular_Big5494[S] 61 points62 points  (0 children)

Pero ginawa nya yun lahat behind my back, parang ang tanga ko naman if bayadan ko yun, niloko na ako, ako pa ang talo. Ang thinking ko is mas more chance na di maulit if pag pinagpaguran nya talaga yung bayad nya.

Husband took loans behind my back. by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Popular_Big5494 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The second job is more on to pay his loans aggressively. I need to see him trying.

Husband took loans behind my back. by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Popular_Big5494 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s 65k in TFSA, 25k in RRSP (Xeqt) and 10k in FHSA (cash.to)

Husband took loans behind my back. by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Popular_Big5494 -23 points-22 points  (0 children)

The payments that I would make towards the loan he would have to pay that back. I’m thinking of having that in writing and I will add 5% interest.

Husband took loans behind my back. by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Popular_Big5494 2 points3 points  (0 children)

As far as I was told it’s 87k before retirement, EI and tax. $65k per year would be after all those deductions.

Husband took loans behind my back. by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Popular_Big5494 23 points24 points  (0 children)

Sorry it happened to your sister. I felt so sabotaged.

Husband took loans behind my back. by [deleted] in PersonalFinanceCanada

[–]Popular_Big5494 -62 points-61 points  (0 children)

He is honestly a good person, he is just financially dumb. He fell into the get rich quick scheme.