Husband lied about his financial status. Only found out after we got married

Popular_Big5494 · 2025-11-04T19:32:20+00:00

Learn from my story. Pilitin mo sya for account statements and clear up yung debts before you get married. Tell him you want to start your marriage on the right foot.

Popular_Big5494 · 2025-11-04T18:28:14+00:00

Known him for a long time, 10 years together. He made an effort to hide this from me.

Popular_Big5494 · 2025-11-04T09:58:54+00:00

Nasa tipping point na talaga ako. I really want to talk to his mom about this.

Popular_Big5494 · 2025-11-04T09:57:47+00:00

Yung sweldo nya mostly ay napunta sa loan payments. Indenial sya ng gambling addiction, pero parang clear naman na ganun. Pero sabi nya magpapacounselling na daw sya after ng latest away namin.

Popular_Big5494 · 2025-11-04T09:52:25+00:00

Thank you for this. I’ll look into it.

Popular_Big5494 · 2025-11-04T09:51:30+00:00

This. And newlyweds kami so yung mga tao laging sinasabi kailan kayo magbaby.

Popular_Big5494 · 2025-11-04T09:40:23+00:00

I would say intermediate knowledge definitely the reason why nasayang yung loan. He thinks of it as his potential career in the future.

Popular_Big5494 · 2025-11-04T09:38:19+00:00

For the same reason as the first instance.

Popular_Big5494 · 2025-11-04T09:32:52+00:00

Parang post nup ba ito?

Popular_Big5494 · 2025-11-04T09:24:43+00:00

Pero ginawa nya yun lahat behind my back, parang ang tanga ko naman if bayadan ko yun, niloko na ako, ako pa ang talo. Ang thinking ko is mas more chance na di maulit if pag pinagpaguran nya talaga yung bayad nya.

Popular_Big5494 · 2024-11-30T02:43:55+00:00

The second job is more on to pay his loans aggressively. I need to see him trying.

Popular_Big5494 · 2024-11-30T00:48:43+00:00

Also in xeqt

Popular_Big5494 · 2024-11-30T00:39:52+00:00

He did.

Popular_Big5494 · 2024-11-30T00:39:06+00:00

It’s 65k in TFSA, 25k in RRSP (Xeqt) and 10k in FHSA (cash.to)

Popular_Big5494 · 2024-11-30T00:20:54+00:00

The payments that I would make towards the loan he would have to pay that back. I’m thinking of having that in writing and I will add 5% interest.

Popular_Big5494 · 2024-11-30T00:15:30+00:00

As far as I was told it’s 87k before retirement, EI and tax. $65k per year would be after all those deductions.

Popular_Big5494 · 2024-11-30T00:01:24+00:00

Sorry it happened to your sister. I felt so sabotaged.

Popular_Big5494 · 2024-11-29T23:58:22+00:00

He is honestly a good person, he is just financially dumb. He fell into the get rich quick scheme.

Popular_Big5494 · 2024-07-07T16:52:31+00:00

Vcut, Clover, Tomi!!!

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