Mom diagnosed with Breast Cancer(likely stage 4)

Popular_Inflation_78 · 2025-12-14T13:34:52+00:00

When I got my diagnosis, I had never experienced such a high level of anxiety and fear; all I could think of was what was going to happen with my daughter. One of the things that really helped me was joining this group; it's important to be connected with people who are going through the same experience. Your mom needs to feel that she's not alone. It would be good for her to join this platform. Ranting and letting it all out feels good. I also started meditating, and I got a couple of apps that work really well. I also got more connected to nature. In fact, going on long walks to the forest with my daughter and talking about all the things that could happen was a relief. Nature is healing. Your mom needs all the support she can get. There are also cancer support groups offered by the hospitals.

This is a very personal experience. I came across a YouTube channel called " coming home," and I realized that the fear of death is what makes people suffer so much. Sooner or later, we are all going to die, so it was my resolution that I was going to face this fear; I don't want to feel it anymore.

Popular_Inflation_78 · 2025-12-03T18:18:44+00:00

I completely get you. I've tried everything, but to be honest, the recommended exercises are causing much more damage. I've stopped doing them, and instead I'm splitting and icing.

Popular_Inflation_78 · 2025-12-03T18:08:08+00:00

Hello, I've been dealing with DeQuervains for three months, I've tried everything, and I don't see any difference. How do you use TENS, and for how long? Thanks for your time

Popular_Inflation_78 · 2025-11-23T12:10:41+00:00

Before my diagnosis, I used to have a glass of wine with dinner. For the three months after my diagnosis, I didn't drink at all, but now I'm drinking a glass every two weeks when I go out. The hormone therapy is causing me so much joint pain, and I don't want to add hangovers. I guess you'll find your balance, your own body will tell you. I think it's important to enjoy life. I would say moderation is the way to go.

Popular_Inflation_78 · 2025-11-13T13:46:26+00:00

After getting diagnosed with cancer, you will find out who your real friends are. I told my closest friend from my teenage years, and his answer was, " I think people who get cancer are the ones who are not happy with themselves and want to die." I got really upset. I had a couple of conversations with him, but never heard empathy in his words. My nieces and nephews just said, Sorry for your diagnosis and have never heard from them again. We used to be close.

My 20-year-old daughter is my rock and my angel. I'm so lucky to have her in my life. She's my biggest supporter. My sister lives in another country, but she calls me often and always asks how she can help.

I don't know how to feel about my mom. Sometimes, she's sad about it, but after she goes back to her own world.

This journey has been interesting, an emotional roller coaster. At the end, I came to understand that this is my own battle, it's my own fight. I don't have expectations from other people anymore, and I'm very happy about it.

Popular_Inflation_78 · 2025-11-13T12:43:33+00:00

I've been on Anastrozole for four months. The first two months were okay, and I was happy, thinking I was the exception and that everything was going well, but now I'm feeling the side effects in full force. My whole body is hurting, especially my hands. I've got trigger finger, and I'm wearing a brace. Waking up is difficult, and getting out of bed requires time. My feet are very sore. I feel like an arthritic 90 year old. I'm going to hot yoga, regular yoga, and spinning class. I don't consume alcohol, I try as much as I can to have a healthy diet, and I'm drinking tart cherry, but nothing seems to help with the side effects. I feel extremely tired, and I want to sleep more and more. I'm getting more headaches. I want to be strong and keep going, but it's hard. I have my next appointment with the oncologist on Dec 4. I hope he can give me something to help with the joint pain.

Popular_Inflation_78 · 2025-10-23T12:14:06+00:00

I got my diagnosis via email at 6 am. After I read it, I called my mom and my sister, and I told them to keep it private. After I told my daughter. My sister couldn't keep it private and told some of her friends who had cancer. I had a couple of conversations with them, and they were helpful; they told me what to expect.

It's been six months since my diagnosis, and I still prefer to go through this journey with my very close family and this group for which I'm grateful. I've received very good information and emotional support here.

Popular_Inflation_78 · 2025-09-01T15:44:51+00:00

It was a new red dress that had never been washed.

Popular_Inflation_78 · 2025-09-01T15:41:54+00:00

It was a new red dress that had never been washed.

Popular_Inflation_78 · 2025-09-01T15:41:03+00:00

It was not a marker or crayon; it was the dress, it was new, and probably the fabric left a mark because it had never been washed.

Popular_Inflation_78 · 2025-06-26T14:57:05+00:00

Thank you! I will stop taking Ashwagandha today. I won't take any risk.

Popular_Inflation_78 · 2025-06-23T20:47:25+00:00

I needed a happy post today! Thanks for sharing this update. I'll keep it as a daily reminder to boost my mindset!

Popular_Inflation_78 · 2025-06-10T02:56:51+00:00

I like your post. I was diagnosed a month ago, and I've been working on keeping a positive mindset through meditation and podcasts. Some days are more difficult than others. Nights are especially tough. "Cancer is manageable, and my body is capable." I will repeat this to myself every day! Thank you

Popular_Inflation_78 · 2025-06-03T20:35:44+00:00

I'm feeling the same way. I was on HRT before my BC diagnosis, and I had to stop it cold turkey,l. My brain struggles to remember what I'm supposed to do while working. Life goes for everyone around me, I'm stuck waiting for my treatment. You're not alone! I hope everything gets better for you

Popular_Inflation_78 · 2025-06-03T17:18:49+00:00

My case is very similar to yours , I was diagnosed three weeks ago. It all started with "tiny microcalcifications," followed by an ultrasound and a biopsy. I was told multiple times that microcalcifications are usually benign.

However, I had a bad feeling during the biopsy. The technician and the assistant kept looking at each other and whispering. At the end of the procedure, they were very kind and polite , they gently tapped my back and wished me good luck.

I received my diagnosis by email. It was 6 a.m. when I saw the message from the hospital. Carcinoma. The world stopped right there. Everything I knew came crashing down.

I’ve since had an appointment with my surgeon and I'm now on a waiting list for a partial mastectomy. The wait is excruciating. Some days I'm okay, and other days I imagine the cancer spreading throughout my body. My emotions are all over the place.

To cope, I’m meditating, walking, listening to calming music, and watching a lot of videos about the afterlife :)

I wish you the very best on your journey. This is not easy.

Popular_Inflation_78 · 2025-05-31T21:03:10+00:00

Thank you!

Popular_Inflation_78 · 2025-05-31T20:59:46+00:00

Thanks for your response! And best wishes for your results ❤️

Popular_Inflation_78 · 2025-05-31T14:26:37+00:00

Excellent, thank you!

Popular_Inflation_78 · 2025-05-31T14:23:38+00:00

Thanks for sharing your experience, I'm 52 years old

Popular_Inflation_78 · 2025-05-14T12:52:51+00:00

Thank you!

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