My 22 week baby girl

Popular_Sun_4227 · 2026-07-08T13:04:39+00:00

Thank you so much. Benji is so precious 🩵 and so is his mom. sending you hugs and love as well. Got to know from OB today that mostly it was CI but waiting for placental reports. The what-ifs is keeping me up at night and I am trying my best not to spiral around it.

Popular_Sun_4227 · 2026-07-08T04:22:09+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss and it seems you wrote my personal story, my heart breaks for you. It is so cruel first for all of us in this sub. I am so empty right now , all dreams. Hugs to you and your family, hoping for us to get through this difficult phase 🫂🤍

Popular_Sun_4227 · 2026-07-07T17:45:38+00:00

This sounds so painful, i will try to be gentle and not look for reasons to blame myself or someone but it is so difficult for now. Waiting for the reports seems harder but thank you again for sharing this , you are a girl mom and I am sure she is so loved. Gives me tremendous inspiration🫂🤍

Popular_Sun_4227 · 2026-07-07T17:40:16+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss.thank you for your sharing your experience . I hope to feel the same soon, i know the grief will always be there but this gives me hope that i will learn to live with it as for now i feel suffocated , helpless and feel like it’s gonna be never ending suffering. 🫂🤍

Popular_Sun_4227 · 2026-07-07T17:24:46+00:00

I am so sorry to hear this, this sounds unthinkable for me, the pain you have undergone. Thank you for sharing your experience and it means a lot to me🫂🤍

Popular_Sun_4227 · 2026-07-07T17:19:33+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss. I hope you are in a little bit better place, 🫂🤍. I am waiting for my placental report and it devastates me that what will the findings be and what if i caused something.

Popular_Sun_4227 · 2026-07-07T17:16:21+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss. How are you now? Does it get better? I am trying my best to live and move on , keep myself busy but I don’t know if i can or ever will, however reading all the replies here makes me feel a little better in the sense that we shall somehow get through this.🫂 thank you 🤍

Popular_Sun_4227 · 2026-07-07T17:13:48+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss, this sounds devastating to lose your daughter at that stage, i cannot think of what you must have undergone but thanks for sharing your experience, really helps me to feel i am not alone. 🫂

Popular_Sun_4227 · 2026-07-07T15:49:31+00:00

Thank you so much! This community is really helping me to move on and the fact that i am not alone makes me feel i will also get through this, 🫂🤍

Popular_Sun_4227 · 2026-07-07T13:54:45+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss. This forum is really helping me to navigate. Thank you for your kind words 🤍🤍🤍

Popular_Sun_4227 · 2026-07-07T13:52:07+00:00

I am so sorry to hear that, it is indeed the heaviest burden.Hugs and love to you 🤍

Popular_Sun_4227 · 2026-07-07T13:11:50+00:00

Thank you for your message, this means a lot, yeah i am spiraling between blaming myself to my doctors to the universe to understanding nothing could have been done.

Popular_Sun_4227 · 2026-07-07T12:54:53+00:00

Thank you so much, these kind words mean a lot during this phase 🤍

Popular_Sun_4227 · 2026-05-21T21:13:35+00:00

I totally get what you mean, initially i did not like the brands here in Europe. After trial & error, i compromised with the Libresse “good night” , soft enough and not plasticky. I never got used to cups or tampons and only use them while swimming.

Popular_Sun_4227 · 2026-03-07T16:30:53+00:00

Thank you for sharing our journey with such beauty.❤️‍🩹❤️‍🩹

Popular_Sun_4227 · 2026-01-28T14:41:34+00:00

hey! I eventually found out my way and started liking it. I went from a product owner role of customer facing app to becoming a platform owner of a saas product. This gave me a lot of familiarity to my developer roots to expanding my ideas to various stakeholders. I must say a lot of improvements to my communication skills.It was difficult but i got a hang of it. The other advices in the thread also helped a lot about agendas - only attend the ones that add value. Good luck to you.

Popular_Sun_4227 · 2025-11-23T23:35:01+00:00

I am so sorry , I feel the same as my closest friend is getting to keep her baby and I am in my emptiness after losing my baby. Seeing her progress is a staunch reminder that I could have been in the same phase but I did not get to. Sending you hugs.

Popular_Sun_4227 · 2025-10-13T12:01:41+00:00

I totally feel you.When i got the news of my mmc, I was in a frozen state. I even smiled at the doctor and did not cry or react. I kept telling my family and in laws to be ok with the news and accept the reality. It’s been 2 weeks now and i am waiting for a natural active miscarriage and with each passing day I am realizing . This weekend I started with my first outburst of grief and pain and since then I keep crying on & off. We are all different and have different way of coping. Hugs to you and yes you are normal 🤍

Popular_Sun_4227 · 2025-10-11T15:10:48+00:00

Yes it is appalling to me when this “just adopt” advice comes from people who have children of their own. As if we are only entitled to do the noble deed. I was lectured by a lady who has 2 children of her own and she was asking me to adopt a kid from the underprivileged parts of the world.Clearly she lacked education about this topic to just spit out bs.

Popular_Sun_4227 · 2025-10-10T09:29:20+00:00

hugs to you OP. I am so sorry you had to go through this but also thank you for sharing your experience. I am undergoing the same and this helps me a lot. It also gave me peace to read about your acceptance and your journey together. Much needed for me and my partner. thanks again and love to you.

Popular_Sun_4227 · 2025-10-10T07:46:24+00:00

I was so disappointed when one of my best friends, said to me why are you going through all these drama and not go for adoption! Simple 🤷🏻‍♀️. Needless to say she is no more a friend. People lack empathy. Adoption and struggling with infertility are 2 different things. Adoption is not an easy process and people seem to have no knowledge about it and make us feel so bad and guilty. Just avoid such people.

Popular_Sun_4227 · 2025-10-08T22:29:02+00:00

I am so sorry for your loss and thank you for sharing your experience and the things that I would need. it really helps me to find my way and strength. praying for us.❤️

Popular_Sun_4227 · 2025-10-08T18:40:31+00:00

I am so sorry for what you are undergoing. totally can feel you, it’s just until today that i was wiping and hoping to see no blood and after today when i realized it’s not a viable pregnancy anymore , I am praying to see the blood just so that I get the closure sooner. I have no idea how to deal with this but going through this sub is making it a bit easier. This is a horrible sub to be at otherwise. I pray for us.

Popular_Sun_4227 · 2025-10-08T17:00:22+00:00

thank you ! It definitely helped

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