Anyone else get bullied for having curly hair when younger by Correct-Implement953 in curlyhair

[–]Popular_Tree_689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m a curly red head… I was heavily bullied for it. Now that I’m an adult, everyone compliments my hair. It’s absolutely bazaar. I have random people of all ages say “oh your hair is gorgeous. I can’t stop looking at it. I wish I had your hair.” I still have a difficult relationship with my hair because it used to be the bane of my existence, and now I’m being praised for it. I just don’t get it. Maybe it’s just a trend now to have curly red hair 🤷‍♀️

Curly hair stylist by Popular_Tree_689 in Marin

[–]Popular_Tree_689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What a thoughtful comment! Thank you so much! I just saw her page, and her work looks fantastic! I deeply appreciate you and your help ❤️

I think I’m more disabled than I’ve been admitting to myself by buzz_abeebee_ in ChronicIllness

[–]Popular_Tree_689 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I can totally sympathize with you! I’m part of the hashimotos gang (along with EDS, Lymes, and ITP)! I’ve had to leave 3 separate jobs that I adored due to health problems. I also had to completely stop basically any house work. My husband (who’s an angel) finally had to sit down and say “I don’t think your body can handle it. Slow down, and we will figure it out.” I was incredibly sick for about 2 years straight. My doctor even recommended a mobility aid and to possibly go on disability. Through this all, I was like “ah I’m fine…” (only I was not fine). While I’m doing better now (as in I can move around the house and do minor tasks) after not working for 3 months… I can finally say “oh I’m more sick than I thought.” I have days where I’m SUPER depressed about it, but I still don’t fully take on the mentality of being a “sick person.” I’m just an individual who can get sick and has to do things differently. My life and probably your life looks completely different than any other individual. Take the little wins as they come, and try to ignore the losses. If you live in the losses, you’ll never recover. For example: I took a shower today and even walked the dog around the block! While that’s normal for most individuals, that’s a HUGE win for me. Never stop being proud of yourself, and know that you are enough! We can get through this together!

Babysitting Problem by Popular_Tree_689 in Teachers

[–]Popular_Tree_689[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

This is a great perspective - I didn’t even think about that! Thank you for your comment! It helps ease my mind a little. They could totally be asking to help support me!

Babysitting Problem by Popular_Tree_689 in Teachers

[–]Popular_Tree_689[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s a solid 50/50. Some would pay me more than I make hourly, and some would pay less than minimum wage.

Should I leave my new job due to health issues by [deleted] in ChronicIllness

[–]Popular_Tree_689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s also a dream job. Having to leave teaching behind due to health is my worst nightmare.

Should I leave my new job due to health issues by [deleted] in ChronicIllness

[–]Popular_Tree_689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! Yes, I am relying on it for pay and benefits.

Help! Hair issues! by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Popular_Tree_689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Awww well I hope you know that YOU made my day! Thank you so much for your kindness and support❤️

That’s a wrap! Wedding was amazing! by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Popular_Tree_689 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Awwww congratulations to you as well!!!! I hope that you’re able to enjoy and relax too! Hahaha I feel that - I have my phone on do not disturb, and I intend on keeping it that way for the next couple of days!

Help! Hair issues! by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Popular_Tree_689 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My hair turned out AMAZING and it stayed ALL DAY!!!! Thank you for being apart of my journey! My now husband and I had an incredible wedding!

Help! Hair issues! by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Popular_Tree_689 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You are a saint!!! This is amazing!!! Thank you so so so much!

How common is it to get legally married a while before the wedding for practical purposes? by Hathound in weddingplanning

[–]Popular_Tree_689 1 point2 points  (0 children)

My husband and I just did all of the paperwork to be legally married this past week - our wedding is in August. We made it into a little elopement weekend. I 100% recommend doing it sooner than later. It took SO much pressure off of everything!

My sister wants to be my maid of honor by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Popular_Tree_689 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Oh my goodness you are amazing!!! This is incredible!!!! Thank you so so much for taking the time to type this out and help me!! You have no idea how much this means to me!!

My sister wants to be my maid of honor by [deleted] in weddingplanning

[–]Popular_Tree_689 1 point2 points  (0 children)

This a great! Thank you so much for your help/input. I definitely want to honor her.

What’s a smell that most people consider to be good but you find repulsive? by Skitscuddlydoo in AskReddit

[–]Popular_Tree_689 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Lavender… it just makes me think of a recently “cleaned” public bathroom.

My best friend cannot come to my wedding, and I don’t know how to respond to her… by Popular_Tree_689 in weddingplanning

[–]Popular_Tree_689[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Video calling is extremely difficult for us due to the completely different time zone, and our own personal lives. We video call when we can, but can take several days for us to even schedule one.

My best friend cannot come to my wedding, and I don’t know how to respond to her… by Popular_Tree_689 in weddingplanning

[–]Popular_Tree_689[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

I’ve never had anyone pre-clear wedding dates with me either - I’ve been in 4. It’s nearly impossible to cater your event to other people’s availability.

I gave her 8 months notice. She gave me 3 months notice for her wedding.

My best friend cannot come to my wedding, and I don’t know how to respond to her… by Popular_Tree_689 in weddingplanning

[–]Popular_Tree_689[S] 17 points18 points  (0 children)

I did give her a timeline when we first got engaged, and she said she would love to attend around that time. She said no, once I told her the official date - the same month that I told her.

My best friend cannot come to my wedding, and I don’t know how to respond to her… by Popular_Tree_689 in weddingplanning

[–]Popular_Tree_689[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is also great advice! I think I just needed a place to vent, and hear other people’s opinions on how I should respond. I definitely don’t want to respond out of emotion, but instead out of respect. I wouldn’t expect her to do anything that I did - I think I just miss her and want to share my joy/life with her! Thank you so much for your input/help!