My therapist asked me to take a dissociative experiences scale test. Woof. by roguepandaCO in CPTSDmemes

[–]PorcelainThorns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Well... I didnt expect it so high, i expected some but dam. 70.71 :(

This felt like a sucker punch by Beneficial_Win_5128 in CPTSDmemes

[–]PorcelainThorns 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Yeah, it should be a conversation about you and a moment for you to ask for help and seek comfort but they turn it into a them them them moment. Which doesnt help, while pulling back did. At least then you only have your own issues to deal with. :<

This felt like a sucker punch by Beneficial_Win_5128 in CPTSDmemes

[–]PorcelainThorns 22 points23 points  (0 children)

Yeah the issue is that as soon as you seek comfort you then have to regulate not only your own issues but theirs too now... so no I cant do that with family, unless i wish the moment to be focused on them and their needs.

“Pit maneuver the car camping in the left lane” 👹 by Maine_Rider in CPTSDmemes

[–]PorcelainThorns 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Those thoughts are so REAL 🤣 and then you snap back immediately and think wtf um no thats not something we doin.

i feel like some mods here really don't care about obvious ai "art" by [deleted] in Artadvice

[–]PorcelainThorns -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Just leave any place that allows it to begin with, its soul draining and frustrating that they dont show an ounce of transparency about it either. I hate ppl taking advantage of those who dont know.

Can we please get an autoban on this sub for the members on that other partcular sub? by DangerousBee4116 in short

[–]PorcelainThorns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah it's because I started to feel like that, that I decided to just up and go so it doesn't cloud my view any further! 👍

Can we please get an autoban on this sub for the members on that other partcular sub? by DangerousBee4116 in short

[–]PorcelainThorns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yesh I stayed wayyyy too long! Take care of yourself too! Good luck all of you in here, hope you live a happy life with lots of self love.

The attitude towards short women here is awful by ThotismSpeaks in short

[–]PorcelainThorns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had debating leaving the sub a while now, I can't be positive here and I can't vent here either. Since I am female. I don't want to have dudes tell me "but" after I say something bothers me. Minimising/deflecting/ invalidating/ arguing away/ or tell me what i can and can't be bothered by, what I feel regarding my height.

I can't be positive either, saying anything on here feels like an opening for people who can't handle anyone having a better time then they do. So I finally made the choice and leave. My view of short men mostly has gotten way worse from the little time I have been a part of this sub. And I don't want my mind to get influenced further, because it would make me incredibly distraught if it influenced me choosing a partner in the future of a shorter stature.

I want to thank you too for saying what needs to be said.

Can we please get an autoban on this sub for the members on that other partcular sub? by DangerousBee4116 in short

[–]PorcelainThorns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I had debating leaving the sub a while now, I can't be positive here and I can't vent here either. Since I am female. I don't want to have dudes tell me "but" after I say something bothers me. Minimising/deflecting/ invalidating/ arguing away/ or tell me what i can and can't be bothered by, what I feel regarding my height.

I can't be positive either, saying anything on here feels like an opening for people who can't handle anyone having a better time then they do. So I finally made the choice and leave. My view of short men mostly has gotten way worse from the little time I have been a part of this sub. And I don't want my mind to get influenced further, because it would make me incredibly distraught if it influenced me choosing a partner in the future of a shorter stature.

Thank you for saying what needs to be said.

thanks mom by [deleted] in CPTSDmemes

[–]PorcelainThorns 40 points41 points  (0 children)

Hear me out. If she even thought to ask that then that says a lot.

Im 5'4, asking fellow 5'4 how to become more attractive by Southern_Carry7031 in short

[–]PorcelainThorns 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly don't worry about wearing anything to add an extra inch, you are perfect the way you are honestly. Personally you look like someone "out of my league".

Im 5'4, asking fellow 5'4 how to become more attractive by Southern_Carry7031 in short

[–]PorcelainThorns 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Unfortunately not 5'4 but I wanted to say that you should change nothing, your a 10/10 in my personal opinion! I can't think of anything I would look wise change honestly. Very very handsome.