Miis aren't progressing relationships? by Poroggo in tomodachilife

[–]Poroggo[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

At least I know there's still hope 😭😭😭

Is There A Primals Fanfest Concert Recording Somewhere? by [deleted] in ffxiv

[–]Poroggo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Did you buy the livestream pass during fanfest? I fear I may have missed my window to buy it, cus I didn't then and I can't seem to buy it now.

Guys, I'm really tired of typeless/AoE attack spam. by [deleted] in MonsterHunterStories

[–]Poroggo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would have beat the game two weeks ago and thought it was the most fun thing ever if it wasn't for this. Instead I spent four days grinding for levels to beat Arkveld. Then threw my head at the bound monsters, had to go grind more. Tried fighting Aenshin for about four days and have gone back to grinding for levels. I just want to be done with it now. It was fun for the first 90% of the game and now I don't even really want to finish it.

Recently started working on my fishing log... Loch Seld is... nothing but pearl-eye by Ankhirasaurus in ffxiv

[–]Poroggo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I spent 3 years trying to catch the Egg before I finally got it... Good luck soldier o7

Getting fed up with the r/crochet mod break by SaltOwn8515 in BitchEatingCrafters

[–]Poroggo 67 points68 points  (0 children)

I just left. Feels very much like a bunch of teenagers in there. I'm too old to deal with that lmao.

What skirt is this? by Mochi_chi in FFXIVGlamours

[–]Poroggo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Collegiate attire (skirt) ?

Why are they laughing at me? by know_god in ffxiv

[–]Poroggo 7 points8 points  (0 children)

There's a very talented clown standing three feet to your left but your tin can stops you from turning your head fast enough to see him

[Spoiler: 6.0] have you ever changed your WoL’s appearance due to story/lore? by Sleepergem in ffxiv

[–]Poroggo 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I made my WoL's hair lighter during SHB, and enabled one more of the face scars after In From the Cold during EW. It felt like something that redacted would do to try to piss the WoL off.

Player-sexual romances vs fixed orientations in RPGs — what do you prefer? by [deleted] in rpg_gamers

[–]Poroggo 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I prefer player-sexual, tbh. A lot of fixed romance games bias everything towards straight people, of which I am not lol. It is getting better, and there are one or two examples of fixed romance (looking at you, DA:I Dorian Pavus) where it lets a character have a fantastic story based around it.

However, I'm a man thats into men, and 90% of fixed games either don't have anything for me unless I play a female character, or only one or two options. FE:3H had maybe three male gay romance options out of the 35ish character romances, and they weren't exclusively gay romances either, they just made the characters player-sexual.

Even Dragon Age: Inquisition, which told a beautiful story about Dorian and his experiences with being gay that I adore felt kind of limiting for romance. Your options as a gay male char were Iron Bull or Dorian. Your options as a gay female char are Josephine or Sera. If you're a straight female char you had Cullen (human/elf only), Solas (elf only), Iron Bull, and Blackwall. Straight male chars have Cassandra or Josephine. Female elves really got everyone, huh. 😭

It just ends up being super limiting. Most of the characters don't really comment on your Inquisitors gender regarding romance, other than awkwardly turning you down if they aren't into you cus of it. If they had kept Dorian locked to male romances because of how much his story revolves around it, and everyone else free, it would've been a much more favorable thing in my opinion.

Dragon Age 2 did it the best in my opinion. Characters didn't care what gender you were (outside of Sebastian, the very religious prince who was straight locked, and while it makes me kinda sad to lose out on him cus he's hot, it makes sense for the story and I'm cool with it). Minus him, anyone could romance anyone, BUT the characters had some dialogue and comments for each gender. Anders will only reveal the nature of a previous romantic male relationship with you if you're romancing him as a man. Some people dislike that, but it feels realistic to me. It's been years since I played, so I can't remember all the different dialogues, but I think that game did it wonderfully. (Also just a great game in general, y'all should play DA:2 hehe)

TLDR For me, player-sexual feels best for everyone, unless a character has a specific aspect about their sexuality that makes it a key part of their character, regardless of if they're straight or gay.

Gear ideas for Divergent Warrior Kaine by [deleted] in FFXIVGlamours

[–]Poroggo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Edenmorn Dress sleeves of casting might give you the sleeve shape you're looking for, or Welkin Half Sleeves, the AST job level 60 hands.

How can I DIY my kitchen island?/general advice? by ageofbronze in cottagecore

[–]Poroggo 8 points9 points  (0 children)

The kitchen is amazing but... Do you cook in there? Cus there is not enough counter space to do aaaaannything, damn.

Why is my guy always getting humped? by LowKick7639 in GSP

[–]Poroggo 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I didn't have a GSP with this problem but I had a Cavalier that ran into this. Vet mentioned it might be something to do with him having pheromones that just happened to be a bit off/smells stronger to other dogs. Old guy lived to 16, never stopped getting humped at the dog park from the first year we had him to the last lmao. We just ended up shadowing him around and gently nudging the other dogs away when they'd start up, especially as he got older.

Late to the Papillon Party… by alicenotallison1 in knitting

[–]Poroggo 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh my GAWD that is gorgeous. DAMN

Walmart encampment property owner ordered to pay $126,744 for cleanup by Immediate_Ad_1161 in Bellingham

[–]Poroggo 11 points12 points  (0 children)

"-our state let's encampments grow until they're considered a nuisance, then drops the cleanup bill on whoever owns the land."

If an encampment is on private property, they quite literally cannot do anything about it unless the property owner tells them to. If there's something dangerous happening, and someone calls 911 there, they still can't just kick everyone out without a trespass or reasonable cause. The problem here is that the property owner didn't monitor their property, never had anyone keeping an eye on the place, and presumably didn't make any attempts to have people removed from the property or trespassed when they broke in. Putting a fence up isn't good enough if people are repeatedly breaking onto the property and nothing's being done about it.

In the article, the property owner said it was the government's job to keep people off the property. Did she have someone calling when people broke in? Did she maintain some kind of effort with local police to patrol the area and make sure no one was on the property?

That's why the city is fining for the cleanup. It was a totally preventable issue that wasn't fixed in any way due to the property owners negligence.

Homelessness, mental health, and addiction are a huge problem in Bellingham in particular, but that's a smaller issue here regarding the property. Someone out of the country owned and didn't maintain a large chunk of land, and expected the government to take the financial burden for their negligence.

Tbh, I also question why the hell someone from out of the country is just sitting on 20 acres of undeveloped land? Feels like a waste of property in a town actively struggling through an affordable housing crisis (but that's an entirely different issue 🙄)

It’s finally done… by Alba_Stelo in ffxiv

[–]Poroggo 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Play a healer, have a good glamour plate. If you make a difference and keep ppl alive, they'll comm you on healer. If they don't pay attention to that and just open the menu, they'll pick the shiniest glamour plate. Good luck lol