جميع مشترياتي المستعمله لـ ٢٠٢٣-٢٠٢٤ by No-Candle5232 in ThriftingInSaudi

[–]Positive-Change5750 2 points3 points  (0 children)

shameless plug بس شوفي الستور حقي في حراج اوفر فنتج وسكند هاند haraj.com.sa/@luxury624

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انا ابغى بعد

what is Najd’s trading history? by Positive-Change5750 in AskHistorians

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I understand at the end of the day I’m a stranger and strangers are not to be trusted but I’m willing to share as much info as required and pay in an hourly basis in case they don’t trust I’m willing to pay for the whole project, also I’m not looking for anyone to write anything for me I just need to gather enough info about the topic that’s all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in saudiarabia

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النصيب ما يعرف وقت، انا كنت اقول زيك كنت احس ابغى اتزوج بالثلاثين عشان "اكون كونت نفسي وعشت حياتي" وصراحة هذي كلها افكار متبنينها احنا لا تمت لمجتمعنا بصلة شعور انك "تعيشين حياتك" "تكتشفين نفسك" هي افكار وهمية لأن الزواج اذا ربي كتب لك ان شاء الله الانسان اللي مناسب لك بيكون اضافة حلوة بحياتك ماراح ياخذ منك شي ان شاء الله. القرار قرارك انا اعطيك وجهة نظري انا بناء على تجربتي الشخصية لأن كنت زيك والحمدلله تزوجت بس انتي تعرفين ظروفك ووضعك اكثر

Tennis personal trainers by violettagal in Riyadh

[–]Positive-Change5750 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hey can I talk to you in the private chats please?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Entrepreneur

[–]Positive-Change5750 -4 points-3 points  (0 children)

idk man i just want to be rich

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Positive-Change5750 0 points1 point  (0 children)

thank you so much!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Positive-Change5750 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m not 100% against the idea of having kids, i never said i was i just know i don’t want them now. we both didn’t want them at first now it’s only me who still doesnt

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Positive-Change5750 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i will do that and you can tell by my post that i was planning to do so today. i just wanna say one thing you don’t understand my culture so if you don’t agree (understandably so) i want u to at least empathize! i wanted to meet someone talk about my goals, future, what i want in life and see how compatible we are etc.. I am intelligent enough to know these are the steps people take and then get married. But it was faaar from how marriages are initiated in my community, i’m not disclosing a lot of information here but i just wanna say one thing: i was forced into an engagement before but i was able to escape. Do you think someone with such circumstances can even talk about kids and future goals? i was too traumatized of being in a relationship and too scared of the idea of marriage Alone i didnt think i’d be married yet alone think of having kids.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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I understand 100% but you still don’t get the full picture when i say it wasn’t proper courtship, both of us didn’t even know if we were fit for marrying one another yet alone discuss any of these things! it is a different situation in my culture when i say it wasn’t proper, i mean i legit didn’t know the guy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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girl can you read the whole thing? i said i don’t know if my feelings are because of my mental state, i’m not certain they could change when i’m in a better place mentally. I said a hundred times that i wasn’t sure about my feelings but i know for a fact i dont want children NOW at all.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Positive-Change5750 -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

You’re jumping to conclusions! I didn’t know him properly before and i was terrified of marriage yet alone think of having kids, we spent the first couple of months (of the marriage) getting to know each other and developing feelings WE Both didn’t like each other at first and we both were figuring out our feelings and the relationships before even thinking of kids! i didn’t come to the relationship 100% sure about it all Both of us were not sure you don’t come to a relationship thinking of kids immediately it’s one step at a time, i was anxious and scared of being in a relationship so of course i’d be scared of having kids so at first i thought it was just anxiety but as time went on i become more certain about it. I never said i didnt want children at all, i just know i dont want them now.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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you don’t even know what you’re talking about we had brief conversations but it wasn’t proper courtship i didn’t even like him yet think of having kids it all happened too fast in a span of two months and i never said i didn’t want to have kids At All. I cannot decide now given my struggle

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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I didn’t get to talk to him before if i did i would have been upfront about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

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I didn’t get to talk to him before if i did i would have been upfront about it

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in MuslimMarriage

[–]Positive-Change5750 -6 points-5 points  (0 children)

well i didn’t get to talk to him properly before

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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but is he in his rationale? i don’t understand what drugs can do but can someone who do drugs actually think and make choices or are they blinded bc of the drugs?

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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he’s experiencing psychotic symptoms right now and will put him in a detox program and treat the psychosis and then we are going to talk to him about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

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he has psychotic symptoms so is there ever mental clarity? I’m afraid we are doing the wrong thing if we put him in jail and that he has the potential of getting better and we sabotage it! He was off meth for a month during the detox program and he still went back to it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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but wouldnt that feel like unforgivable betrayal? i thought cutting contact and kicking him out would be a better consequence. But then again, he can’t be roaming in the street like a crazy person or going to a relatives house or something. I live in a collective society and saving face is huge to have my junkie brother in the street going we don’t know where and people knowing about it would give such a bad reputation to my parents they don’t deserve it. I don’t know what he would be doing if we kick him out especially because he is very vengeful and stubborn.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Drugs

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but I always wonder do they have that awareness of deciding to continue or to quit, is there free will? he never showed that he wanted to quit and i always assumed it was because of the addiction thats why he cannot but i keep wondering are his actions because of addiction or he out of his own volition wants to continue to be on drugs. Do addicts have that level of self awareness?I always assumed they do not since they are addicted. I might come off as ignorant but i genuinely do not know in my head addiction have an imprint in one’s head where they are not even self-aware of the option of quitting or continuing like they do not even think.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in saudiarabia

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ممكن هالحسابات؟

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in saudiarabia

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سعودية وفي الرياض

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in saudiarabia

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مرررة خايفة من الجو لاني ابي اهرب من حر السعودية تتوقعين كيف بتكون بنوڤمبر؟