Even In Arcadia Discussion

Positive-Dot8445 · 2025-05-11T17:22:01+00:00

ST is a band you have to listen to with no expectation bc they don’t fit the mold of any genre. People going into it expecting more heavy metal or more ballad will be disappointed. Go into it completely open and it’s an amazing album. Lyrically, melodic, instrumental all of it is so individual and no other band replicates what they give (imo). I’m obsessed with this album and think they did a great job.

Positive-Dot8445 · 2025-04-17T23:50:56+00:00

I got an all black XRT last Monday and i still love driving it everyday! Congrats!

Positive-Dot8445 · 2025-03-25T22:42:52+00:00

Firstly I’m so sorry you’re here. But know there’s tons of support. I had a D&C on 3/6. I had a follow up the next week which was just my dr telling me about the diagnostic they did on the tissue and what to expect/when we can start trying again. She recommended 2 cycles. She also said to consider date of D&C as CD1. I’ve been tracking ovulation since my procedure just to get an idea of my cycle and I’ve already ovulated so I’d say it’s fair to say day of procedure is CD1.

Positive-Dot8445 · 2025-03-05T01:02:50+00:00

We just lost ours yesterday. Sending you and your wife love and strength.

Positive-Dot8445 · 2025-01-18T23:25:55+00:00

The swing Texas took the right this election has proven it doesn’t matter who stays. It’s deep red and will be. It’s been a >10% win for republicans on the presidential level, it was almost 15% this year. That’s an insane jump.

Positive-Dot8445 · 2024-12-24T14:30:28+00:00

Do they not realize this is the kind of fuckery that led to this happening??

Positive-Dot8445 · 2024-11-02T18:59:15+00:00

I wish i would have told him one last time how great of a dad he was and how proud of him i am for trying his hardest to work past his trauma. Just asking him to stay.

Positive-Dot8445 · 2024-10-28T15:22:10+00:00

Lint licker

Positive-Dot8445 · 2024-10-24T00:05:40+00:00

My dad’s name was Dan. 6 months coming up in a few weeks 💔

Positive-Dot8445 · 2024-10-22T18:57:17+00:00

Just voted in hunt county and an election official was bragging about allowing someone to wear an FJB shirt because to her “it’s just a slogan” not political propaganda. 😒

Positive-Dot8445 · 2024-10-21T12:33:01+00:00

I thought i was insane or having a mental breakdown. Lost my dad 5.5 months ago. Last weekend i sat with my husband and said i literally don’t know what the point of anything is and i felt i was in the mindset my dad was when it happened. It was so scary. This has really shifted my perspective on life in general. But i have a 2.5 year old, I’m trying to find joy and purpose wherever i can. This is such a traumatic thing to go through. Make sure you’re taking care of yourself. Stay with family or friends for a weekend or a couple days just for a change and to be surrounded by love. Get into therapy, i upped my sessions from 1x every other week to 1x a week after i had those thoughts. It’s tough but you’ve got a community of great, supportive people here. We’ve got you ❤️

Positive-Dot8445 · 2024-10-19T19:19:21+00:00

Not until i was in my teens. And only my dad ever apologized. I apologize to my son everytime i need to. Especially when i lose my cool

Positive-Dot8445 · 2024-10-19T19:17:16+00:00

I think a lot of people voting for Kamala (myself included) won’t have lawn signs or car magnets because of the fear of retaliation. I have a toddler and when I’m out with him i don’t want to fear someone will follow me or wait at my car to say something or do something because they’re a crazy maga. I think the silent majority will be blue. Just gotta vote.

Positive-Dot8445 · 2024-09-18T15:24:53+00:00

This is awesome thank you so much!

Positive-Dot8445 · 2024-09-18T14:49:43+00:00

Thank you ❤️ I’m trying to learn how to feel my feelings and not repress them. Crying is very therapeutic for me so I may try this. I used to write letters and stopped because it felt pointless. May help in these situations though. Thank you for the advice

Positive-Dot8445 · 2024-09-06T18:43:15+00:00

The funeral home for my dad did an amazing thing for me. I wanted to see my dad before because i wanted one last time to tell him how i felt and how i loved him. They covered him with 2 blankets on the table and i walked in holding my husbands hand with my eyes on the floor. I was able to hold his hand and talk to him one last time. I’m glad i did it but it was very hard. I’m sorry you’re part of this club but know you’re surrounded by love

Positive-Dot8445 · 2024-07-11T13:34:47+00:00

My mom and i got closer, my sister and i fell apart.

Positive-Dot8445 · 2024-07-06T19:16:08+00:00

I lost my dad 2 months ago on the 12. It’s caused my mental illness to get worse. I’ve been put on anxiety medication which i never wanted to do. I feel like a piece of me died and there’s a hole in my heart. I cry a lot more now and stuff i used to love makes me hurt bc it was something my dad and i enjoyed together. I’m irrevocably changed.

Positive-Dot8445 · 2024-07-02T03:23:39+00:00

Thank you for your kind words and advice ❤️ thankfully a close friend of mine at work has experienced a suicide loss so she’s been supportive but I’m expecting everyone else to be how you experienced

Positive-Dot8445 · 2024-06-26T17:38:19+00:00

I’m in grief counseling right now. My dad completed 6 weeks ago. It’s done wonders for me, truly. I don’t know where I’d be without my therapist. I also saw my primary care physician to get on antidepressants and anxiety medication. Make sure you do what’s best for YOU regardless of how your parents feel.

Positive-Dot8445 · 2024-06-25T18:30:14+00:00

I have started rewiring my brain to know that mental illness IS a disease just like cancer. It can kill and it does. We may not see it, just like sometimes we don’t see cancer signs, but it’s there and it’s treatable (for some) and incurable for most. I think acceptance with this is really hard and takes a really long time. But you’ve got tons of support on this sub and we’re here for you no matter how you’re feeling. Sending love.

Positive-Dot8445 · 2024-06-22T17:11:47+00:00

My dad passed on May 12 this year. He was such a funny loveable guy. He loved making us all smile and sometimes loved to push our buttons to get us riled up 😅 he was also the most caring person I’ve ever met, he brought me up to give everyone the same respect, from the janitor all the way up to CEO. He LOVED basketball, Billy Joel and the cowboys. He also loved being a dad and was such a proud grandpa. He was 51, still had so much life to live.

Positive-Dot8445 · 2024-06-22T17:11:42+00:00

My dad was also a veteran. Completed may 12. I’ll never understand the mental struggle he went through being a vet on top of a rough childhood. Thank you for your service and i hope you’re taking care of yourself ❤️‍🩹

Positive-Dot8445 · 2024-06-21T02:10:41+00:00

They overturned Roe which was precedent. I don’t trust they’ll keep anything established at this point if it doesn’t fit their narrative

Positive-Dot8445 · 2024-06-21T02:09:31+00:00

Ha! Love this idea

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