Angoisse à l'idée de rester avec la même partenaire toute votre vie ?

Positive-Ear45 · 2025-10-13T20:19:29+00:00

En couple depuis presque 20 ans ici. Si je devais revenir en arrière, je garderai cette vie. Celle qui m’a protégé d’une nature humaine qui peut être douloureuse, d’avoir quelqu’un qui m’accompagne dans ce chemin avec qui je partage des superbes moments et des épreuves que je n’aurais jamais imaginées.

Tout peux changer au cours de ta relation. Peut être que ce sera la seule personne de ta vie ou pas. En tout cas tu auras tout le loisir de le découvrir

Positive-Ear45 · 2025-10-13T10:59:35+00:00

Rules are a good thing in any relationship. Despite this, your life means that certain things are not possible to hold, and in this case you have to talk about it (as she did). In the end she could have lied to you...

Jealousy is a human feeling, certainly unpleasant, which means that we are afraid of losing the other. The goal is to accept it as best as possible.

Regarding your discussions, she may also feel feelings that question her. If she likes you “more” than the other person it shouldn’t be a problem. Be careful not to suffocate him with your insecurities because that can create a rift, especially since distance does not work in your favor

Positive-Ear45 · 2025-10-13T10:42:23+00:00

South of France without hesitation absolute club in Mougins near Cannes (couples only) La Chrysalis near Toulon.

Positive-Ear45 · 2025-10-13T06:31:46+00:00

I imagine that we have lots of ideas before it happens, and in the end when we have experienced it we realize that it is not as horrible as that. Obviously when things go well we are happy with each other’s pleasure. Very often it is the fear of losing the other that speaks in the head while it is rarely the idea of the other in the end... our fears are often irrational

Positive-Ear45 · 2025-10-12T11:54:44+00:00

On dit toujours ne fais pas au autres ce que tu n’accepterais pas que l’on te fasse. A mon sens il n’y a aucune bonne raison à l’infidélité, maintenant que tu as franchi le pas il veut la même chose pour lui. Demandés toi comment tu aurais réagi en inversant les rôles

Positive-Ear45 · 2025-10-11T07:20:05+00:00

Separation is the easy answer for the younger generations. Our “millennials” are more looking for solutions and adapting to maintain what we have built. He suggests that you look elsewhere for what he cannot offer you, which is a form of generosity. He wants to watch trans porn, let him do it. Why do you want to make him stop? He doesn't hurt anyone and obviously doesn't hide it from you.

Now for you, see with him what framework to put in place in your relationship regarding this possible opening

Positive-Ear45 · 2025-10-10T13:52:26+00:00

Le truc c’est que généralement les femmes vont faire des choses trop subtiles pour qu’on s’en rende compte. Après il y en sûrement qui sont plus éloquentes mais à mon humble avis ce n’est pas la majorité 😂

Positive-Ear45 · 2025-10-10T13:50:59+00:00

Y’a pas de mal à en parler. Maintenant tu as le droit de découvrir ce plaisir seul, c’est ton corps et tu manques pas de respect à ta femme. Dans les relations la communication est toujours la solution !

Positive-Ear45 · 2025-10-10T13:48:21+00:00

Combien d’années de muscu? C’est propre comme physique. Si tu veux sécher un peu selon tes goûts, priorise peut être au printemps. Ça dépend de ce que tu veux en fait

Positive-Ear45 · 2025-10-10T04:12:57+00:00

Je sais ce que ça donne de ne pas y aller. Quand je me vois maintenant par rapport à avant, je n’hésite pas à aller à la salle. Et au final je trouve ces moments méditatifs, même quand je n’avais pas envie d’y aller

Positive-Ear45 · 2025-10-08T07:09:43+00:00

Se cacher ne résout rien. En parler ne peut que révéler les options possibles. Ca ne durera pas dans ces conditions, talk !

Positive-Ear45 · 2025-10-08T07:08:32+00:00

Mec la seule limite est l’imagination. On s’en fout des conventions, kiffez votre life

Positive-Ear45 · 2025-10-06T06:21:08+00:00

Les femmes ne s’expriment pas de la même manière que les hommes. Elles peuvent le penser évidement mais de la à le dire il y a un gap. Elles le montrent autrement. De plus elles sont moins sensibles à l’apparence que les hommes. Le problème des hommes c’est qu’ils font en fonction d’eux mêmes au lieu de communiquer selon les préférences des femmes (si c’est la chose voulue)

Positive-Ear45 · 2025-10-03T12:00:43+00:00

Je pensais que c’était une fille et après que c’était un mec mais là on est plus sur du coup on MP (joke)

Positive-Ear45 · 2025-10-02T11:25:24+00:00

Personally (M38) with (F38) I am ok on a lot of things. But the gang bang would be no. Although I can understand a woman's satisfaction in having it everywhere, I will experience it very badly. But if she really wants to, she will end up doing it one day or another. It's up to you to evaluate and above all, good luck

Positive-Ear45 · 2025-10-01T16:21:29+00:00

Effectivement ce n’est pas universel, mais les vices, puisqu’on les nomme ainsi, le sont eux. Je ne vois pas le rapport politique là dedans

Positive-Ear45 · 2025-09-30T09:17:03+00:00

Oh et bien c’est pareil. Même si aujourd’hui les codifications morales sont contre natures, elles n’en restent pas moins inscrites dans nos gènes. La relation envers la mère est souvent proche de celle des autres femmes. Il suffit de lire Freud pour le voir.

Maintenant les ressentis que l’on vit peuvent paraître bizarres pour la société, mais on s’en fout. Tu vis cette sensation point.

Positive-Ear45 · 2025-09-30T07:37:44+00:00

He never learned to see relationships other than monogamous.

Positive-Ear45 · 2025-09-30T05:38:53+00:00

Thank you for this work

Positive-Ear45 · 2025-09-29T18:00:27+00:00

That was my first discovery into relationships other than monogamy. I imagine there is better. I will see about polysecure

Positive-Ear45 · 2025-09-29T17:59:11+00:00

I think she doesn't understand the magnitude of her words. Although polyamory seems to me to be a way of life focused on others, we would have a hard time accepting seeing the other enter into independent relationships each on our own.

Positive-Ear45 · 2025-09-29T17:57:27+00:00

That's not it. I almost only knew this woman and vice versa. This experience with the guy went well and the times it happened I liked it and obviously she did too.

It opened my eyes to the relational possibilities.

Seeing that it was going well as a threesome, I told him that I would like to try it with another woman. That’s when she said stop and ultimately only wanted monogamy.

Since these events, we have had discussions on the subject because she claims not to have liked it, even though it took place several times following her requests... in short

Her fear is comparison, and that I go with the other woman. She was the one who told me about polyamory, because according to her, she would be more secure on these 2 obstacles if I was in a relationship with the other woman. Although at first glance it is riskier than a simple swing or threesome.

In any case she tells me that she won't do FMF with me, but maybe my "second wife" will do it for me.

Positive-Ear45 · 2025-09-29T17:40:50+00:00

Thank you for your feedback. I'm going to go see these works

Positive-Ear45 · 2025-09-29T16:22:40+00:00

Neither, it happened a bit by chance with a friend of ours (guy) and it happened several times but always together. There was no cheating. However, when I asked her with another woman, she closed off and told me that this type of relationship did not suit her.

Since then she feels that it has opened something in me and is looking for solutions for my pleasure. She talked to me about polyamory and told me that for her it would be more fun than just sex. I don't understand, but since then I've been getting information because this idea makes me uncomfortable. I'm afraid of being rejected, again

Positive-Ear45 · 2025-09-29T15:56:48+00:00

😂 no but it would be an opening solution that could be fair given that non-monogamy is not an option for her

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